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    Quote Originally Posted by Callyish View Post
    So when I do my Little Red Riding Hood or my Little Bo Peep or my Little Miss Innocence(frilly skirt with stockings and a pink and white frilly corset and pig tails) or my School Girl im being creepy?
    In my opinion.... the last two are creepy. But this is just me.

    I know Canada has more emphasis on costumes for dancers... around here we just wear lingerie or something short/tight.

    One day a girl came in dressed as Bo-Peep... in June... we all thought she was nuts. So yes... that might be creepy too.

    I just don't get how anything having to do with children can be considered sexy.
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    ^^^
    I think it is very creepy when you start looking at it on a social level; like why these things have the iconographic values they do, etc., etc. But I think that is much different than saying that a guy who finds an adult woman wearing a girl scout uniform sexy actually wants to fuck an actual girl scout. Like, obviously pedophiles exist; but I think most guys who find it sexy find it sexy because an adult woman is wearing it, not in spite of it. In a nutshell I think it is way excessive and inaccurate to peg guys who like school girl outfits, pigtails and/or lollipops as pedophiles.
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    I tried to think about this....
    I said "maybe if I come up with an equivalent thing from the female perspective, I will understand."



    Nope... still unsexy...
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    In my opinion.... the last two are creepy. But this is just me.

    I know Canada has more emphasis on costumes for dancers... around here we just wear lingerie or something short/tight.

    One day a girl came in dressed as Bo-Peep... in June... we all thought she was nuts. So yes... that might be creepy too.

    I just don't get how anything having to do with children can be considered sexy.

    The thing is though... this is a feature thats doing it.

    Features are paid to put on theme shows. Obviously the feature is going to go with the theme that fits her best.

    Im starting to become to tattood to pull these themes off now but there was a time when they were my major money makers.

    I am going to go with what makes me money. As this girl is doing or any girl who does this.

    When I worked in PHX I still made bank in my school girl with pig tails as a regular house girl. When I first started dancing I had a young face with braces and glasses... I did the school girl well.

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    Hehehehehe...

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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HIDJDkbutGk


    Ohhh... this video is making me so horny. This guy looks SO young.... and he's in jammies...

    Nope, still not working.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    I tried to think about this....
    I said "maybe if I come up with an equivalent thing from the female perspective, I will understand."



    Nope... still unsexy...

    I disagree. I want to fuck him.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Mily View Post
    I disagree. I want to fuck him.
    Hehehehe...
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    So I just asked my man... he wants to fuck me in a school girl with pigtails... and hes in no way into pedophilia... he just thinks the school girl thing is hot...

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    But why is it hot?
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    First off your hard pressed to find a guy who doesn't find the school girl thing hot.

    My man said its hot because it suggests innocence... seeing an innocent girl do naughty things is attractive to a lot of guys.

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    I doubt the men that come to see her are imagining her as a 14 year old.

    I think she's hot.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Believe it or not, it's the economy. I read a study awhile back that said when times are good and people are flush with cash, then men like curvy womanly adult bodies. But when men are having financial trouble, the economy isn't doing well, and men are feeling emasculated, then they seek solace in skinny, immature girls who make them feel like bigger, more impressive men. It makes sense.
    Ahhhh, I'm a sucker for studies like this! Do you have a link to it?

    Ironically, when the economy is in better shape and people can eat better, they want to be thinner too, and the fashion/dieting industry glamourises the thin frame. Right now our economy blows, and curves are all over Hollywood. This probobly fuels the demand for a novelty skinny chick since it's not an image men are as bombarded with right now.

    It goes beyond stick thin and va-va-voom though. Marilyn Monroe and Twiggy had the same bust-waist-hip ratios, which is what most men are subconciously drawn to. It's whats known as the nulliparous figure - the ideal figure of a woman whos never had children before. Younger girls are more likely to have it, hence men are turned on by young/young looking bodies.

    Whats more disturbing to me is that young faces are considered more sexually attractive as well. A group of scientists in Germany studied this for several years and concluded that women who have the features of average 14 year old caucasian girls are considered most attractive; full lips, small noses, round wide set eyes, high cheekbones, etc. etc. Our most beloved Hollywood popstars, sex symbol actresses, etc. have these features - for a reason. It's a beauty thats precieved as submissive, non-threatening, and 'fresh'. Whereas stars such as Meryll Streep and Jamie Lee Curtis, stars with sharper features, can play up their sexuality but usually don't get slapped with the sex symbol label.

    Thats the way of our culture though, and has been for a long, long time. Theres a lot of great books on this subject in one way or another, but the one I'm most fond of (and have recomended here before) is Survival of the Prettiest: The Science of Beauty by Nancy Etcoff. A MUST READ for anyone in an appearance related industry. It's very easy to read yet highly informative, with some statistics that are just downright depressing.


    With that said, I googled this features pics and while she has a very young looking body, her features aren't as soft looking, so in that sense she breaks the mold, and I applaud her for it. It's cool thats shes found a gimmick that works for her. And I think Anton LaVey was 1000% right when he said the ultimate worth of a person is how much they can accomplish with what (little) they have.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    But why is it hot?
    I think it has to do with the personality that is expected to go along with it. Happy, bright, bouncy girls who are a nice change from depressing reality. Happy girls who are happy about sex, and who don't know much about it. Not just in the virginal sense, but they don't know how it can hurt, how men can fail, or how stds are passed. Someone whose sexuality has so far just been her pleasuring herself, and only positive. Someone who is ready for more.

    Or at least that's my take on it. Happy, and without a negative view on sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Like, if a guy thinks I look cute in my spiderman underoos, it does not mean that he wants to fuck a 10 year old boy.
    please please please tell me you have spiderman underoos...

    because i actually do too.

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    im sorry that you think you need fake tits to be a woman. jenna isskinny, with low body fat comes little boobs. it doesnt make her any less "womenly"
    people like you are the reason why so many girls get implants

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    and PS i think a lot of the "why is hot" questions can be answered by "the media"

    for instance.. the "schol girl thing" is hot because we've been told 927291 times that it's hot. not that it didn't -start- somewhere.

    i think for most guys the school girl thing is hot because it makes them think the girl is being playful/naughty and/or it reminds them of porn. i think it has little to do with wanting to fuck an underage girl.

    although....
    i worked with a girl at my old club who SERIOUSLY looked 10. i'm not kidding. not 16, not even 13.... TEN.

    she used to wear real child-like outfits, carry a stuffed animal around and hand out candy. she would even talk like a child. she made RIDICULOUS amounts of money, and i'd be lying if i said it didn't disturb me a bit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    and PS i think a lot of the "why is hot" questions can be answered by "the media"
    Yeah, you're right. I think the fashion industry has a lot to do with it too.

    Now that I think about it, Jean Kilbourne wrote about this exact topic in:

    http://www.amazon.com/Deadly-Persuas...2893597&sr=8-1


    Younger and younger girls are being portrayed as sex objects. Can we really blame these guys in the clubs for desiring that which is made to look "desirable"? (I know I can... hehehe but I'm evil)
    Can I sit here and blame Jenna Haze for working that which God gave? (maybe...)

    I think that this whole fucking thing is warped.
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    Quote Originally Posted by orchidflower View Post
    I don't know why but I do know what you mean.

    I get a lot of returning customers.. and besides being intellectual in conversation I don't do anything too unique. But I am very tiny.. about 110lbs, 32B.. a lot of guys like to guess my size which is kinda awkward. I know one perv for sure likes to fantasize about me being his daughter who is like 15. He's never said it but his whole body language changes when he speaks of her. And I remember mentioning I like to drive and him telling me he needs a new "driving partner" because she's begun to spend so much time with friends.
    I'm around the same size as you and weigh even less, but in my club, big and curvy rules. Bad economy or not. I think it depends on the area.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Yoni View Post
    My point is that men still like what they liked in high school. For example, why is classic rock played on loop in every club? It reminds them of the good times as young men. The Catholic school uniform was their first impression of sexiness, and they do like their wives, lovers, and strippers to wear them. That plaid skirt was lingerie then and continues to be now. That, and a Wonder Woman costume. Bankity bank.
    Agreed.

    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    ^^^
    I think it is very creepy when you start looking at it on a social level; like why these things have the iconographic values they do, etc., etc. But I think that is much different than saying that a guy who finds an adult woman wearing a girl scout uniform sexy actually wants to fuck an actual girl scout. Like, obviously pedophiles exist; but I think most guys who find it sexy find it sexy because an adult woman is wearing it, not in spite of it. In a nutshell I think it is way excessive and inaccurate to peg guys who like school girl outfits, pigtails and/or lollipops as pedophiles.
    And also agreed....


    I have been a dominatrix for many years and I've seen a lot of clients, many of them with fetishes for all kinds of things (if there is a fetish I've pretty much done and seen it all - you name it). If there's one thing I have to say is true among 90% of them is that they all go home and live normal productive lives after our sessions and don't continue to have a Mistress/slave relationship 24/7. Therefore, the fetishes they act out are part of a fantasy, and they understand the difference between fantasy and reality.
    Men don't need to live out fantasy as part of their real lives in order to be fulfilled. Just as you can put on a wig and pretend to be the hot neighbor once in a while as your boyfriend is fucking you, it doesn't necessarily mean that fucking you in a wig is a prelude to him eventually cheating. Most men are often even satisfied by just talking about their fantasies with someone. This is why phone sex and sex on the internet are so successful.
    Men also become fixated on whatever crystalized their first erotic experience. So if they are 10 years old and playing with mommy's stockings and happen to get an erection, it doesn't mean he wants to fuck his mom when 20 years down the road he is reminded of that experience while seeing a beautiful woman in stockings by gaining a sexual response from it.

    To come on here though and diss a porn star because you think that her mere body type promotes sexual deviance in some way is really stretching things. Women who have this body type CAN and DO make money and it's fucked up to tell them they are "boyish". Women come in all shapes and sizes and I think a lot of women were offended by this thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    Women come in all shapes and sizes and I think a lot of women were offended by this thread.
    Not so much offended as:

    I'm 5'4", 104 pounds, barely a B, and look damn young. And I'm a fucking woman. BTW, I agree with everything you said about fantasy. I LOVE barely legal porn. I'm well aware the women are over 18. Wouldn't have it any other way. But the idea of young, innocent girls getting crazy for the first time is a turn on. Maybe it reminds me of my youthful discoveries. I never really examined it and don't think I need to.

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    I think its great this girl is rockin a natural body.

    She didn't fall into the 'i need a million surgeries to look hot' group.

    I say good on her for rockin and bankin off what she was born with.

    It really pisses me off that girls are bashing her for making bank off being a natural good looking girl. So what if she looks young? She is going with what goes with her look.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    I can understand if skinny, yougish looking girls want to be dancers and do well... but TRYING to look younger is a whole 'nuther can of worms.

    This is a particularly passionate subject for me, as I am a huge advocate for the charities and organizations that work to promote awareness of and end sex trade/human trafficking SPECIFICALLY that of which children are involved.

    But, I know that if I start typing about THAT this will turn into a ten page lecture, so I'll just state a question/comment that came to me after reading Sophia's post..

    As I said before, if I start talking about the MEN/COUPLES that are INTERESTED in the "young to creepily childlike" dancers, I would start spitting nails. Their levels of deep pathology are not what is at debate for me.

    My question (truly just a question, I'm not sure of which side I'm on, or if I think that this is right or wrong) is: is it really wrong for a (legal aged) dancer to do the whole "pigtail, I'm nine years old" thing? I mean, in the Hustle Hut, we discuss every single way to hustle and appeal to every kind of demographic. Everything from "i pretended to be drunk" (which TOTALLY works btw!! ) to well, everything else.

    How can we begrudge the women that this works for? We can dislike/hate/be repulsed by/feel mind numbing pity for the wives/mothers/sisters/DAUGHTERS that these men darken the hallways of.. But aren't the women in our industry who play up this role simply hustling in their way?

    I am a 34D. 105lbs, and all of 5'0 tall. I'm young (21) and look younger. While I personally don't play up the whole "kiddie" thing, (simply because as someone said much earlier, it doesn't make me feel sexy - rather it makes me feel silly, and well, kinda "childish" next to the 5'9 blondes legging their way around me) I can't hate on the girls that do. RATHER I HATE ON THE MEN that make it a type of demographic that has financial potential.

    The issue that our world suffers from in places such as Cambodia is the same that we are suffering from in the U.S.:

    IT IS NOT THAT THE "PROVIDERS" ARE THERE (may it be 7 year olds available for $30 american, or $1K an hour NY VIP rooms) IT IS THAT THERE IS A MARKET FOR IT. IF THERE WERE NO AMERICAN, AND EUROPEAN etc. MEN OUT THERE PAYING FOR THESE TYPES OF PEOPLE, THERE WOULD BE NO ONE SELLING IT.

    These men are REVOLUTIONIZING the economies of ENTIRE THIRD WORLD COUNTRIES. They are the men that are walking amongst us. I can ONLY HOPE that they are keeping their fantasies inside the strip club with OF AGE (albeit underage LOOKING) women, rather than acting out these repulsive compulsions with those who ARE TRULY CHILDREN.

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    I agree with Alexxa. I'm 21 but on the petite/flat side and I find it impossible to pull off looking any older than I am. I hate getting called "boyish." I'm not a boy, I'm just not a woman with wide hips and large breasts. Some days I wish I was a 6 foot tall amazon but I'm a 5 foot petite girl and fortunate that everyone (mom and grandma) in my family look at least 20 years younger than they are.

    I also find as customers get older they get worse at guessing my age. Most guys under 30 pin point me around 21-22. Guys 45+ can't guess worth a damn, they just know I'm young enough to be their daughter. I don't think any of these guys are honestly really pedophiles. I think the key to the school girl routine is looking fresh, fun and natural instead of a sexy vixen. The school girl outfit I wear is sooo far removed from an actual school uniform that I don't think any guys really associate it with actually being a little girl. I like it because the skirt is short and perfectly frames my ass and the tied white shirt looks slightly amateurish. I do the lollipop thing sometimes because I mimic giving a bj on it. I think guys enjoy the simulated bj more than the lollipop as a prop.

    I'm not an expert on pedophile fetishes but I think any real pedophile would see the difference between a woman in her young twenties and an actual 10 year old. Some of us just look really young, but thats just the way we are. Some guys like experienced vixens and some guys like the slightly naive, fresh look. I would much rather have a pedophile in a strip club dealing with a 21 year old women who looks younger than dealing with children. Such a man knows where his attention (and wallet) belong.

    I actually find I make more money with what I call the "good girl gone bad" look. I still wear the tiny pleated skirt but I'll wear it in black and pair it with a regular non-stripper bra from Fredericks or tiny cropped 3/4 sweater. Its the same idea as the school girl costume but without that particular....icon? (not sure what to call it). I don't think its necessarily the thought of some catholic high school girl that gets them aroused but of the fresh but naughty attitude that accompanies it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by xxxblueeyesxxx View Post
    How can we begrudge the women that this works for? We can dislike/hate/be repulsed by/hate/feel mind numbing pity for the wives/mothers/sisters/DAUGHTERS that these men darken the hallways of.. But aren't the women in our industry who play up this role simply hustling in their way?

    I completely agree, and I told the very young-looking dancer that I worked with to play that school girl theme up if that's what it took for her to make her money. It was her story about the teacher regular that disturbed me. Like you, I can only hope these guys/couples keep it all in the club.



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    I have to disagree - Jenna Haze is HOT. In fact, she's one of my favorite porn stars. I don't think she looks like a little girl either. Her body is natural and HOT, especially that ass. Yes she is younger looking and natural, but in no way does she look (or act!) like a child. Honestly, I think a lot of you are over-analyzing.

    We used to have a girl at my club who really did look like a 12 year old with baby fat and prepubescent looking breasts. That was worrisome and disgusting. Jenna Haze does not look like that.

    ETA: Jenna probably just chose those costumes b/c they looked good on her and she's not that creative. Not b/c she wanted to please pedophiles.

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