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    tonight i made nothing and in the last half hour i scored a vip booth
    added his hundred dollar bill to my forty
    and paid the bar twenty-five
    and this fucker put his hands up in my cunt


    i got so upset i lost it
    lost my mind and the hundred
    can't stop crying
    so in the end i paid $25 to be violated and i just


    i can't even eat until i go back, money is that bad
    but now i don't know if i can go back at all
    why did the bouncer walk away from me?
    i don't know.



    this is my third week of stripping.
    i picked my club because no touching is even allowed.


    i don't know why i'm writing this except i have no one to tell
    i don't even have a roommate
    i just don't want to be alone with my thoughts i guess



    so.
    thanks for existing, stripperweb.

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    How did he get his money back for hurting you?


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    I'm sorry hon. That's really awful. There's some sex-worker hotlines mentioned somewhere around here that might help.

    I hope that guy gets hit by a bus tomorrow.


    here's a link to the sticky at the top of body business dealing with rape and sexual assault:

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    oh I get it. You physically lost the hundred.. not emotionally lost it. I'm so sorry.


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    here's another link that has some helpful responses. Lena's post (#12) has a sex worker's contact

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    I'm so sorry. Thats such a personal violation. Glad you can tell us and get it out.
    Yea where was this damn bouncer? I wouldn't go back to a club that doesn't care about your safety.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    just remembered a key piece of information:

    this fuck claimed to own the 24 karat gold club
    somewhere in new york.
    (and understood that if he touched me wrong it could ruin my career,
    he admitted it wtf)

    anyone know anything about him/if i can do anything about this?

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    I'm so sorry.

    The guy was probably lying about being a club owner (it's a prety common lie), but worth looking into anyways.

    Feature costumes for sale!

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    That's horrible. I'm sorry you went through that. I remember what it was like my first few weeks. Some men will actively seek out the newbies because they are vulnerable. It really did get better for me...fewer dicks. But being sexually assaulted is just the worst. Maybe there is another club for you? The bouncer not backing you up at all...that's really shitty.

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    Honey, I am so sorry this happened. I've been there and it's the most horrific thing ever to have to go through. PM me if you want to talk more about it--Having been through it myself, I know that sometimes helps.

    I'm just so sorry.

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    That's awful! You shouldn't have to deal with that girl, GOD.... assholes! I'm just so sorry. You're not alone.

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    so i'm down to $20 in my bank account due to school bills.

    is it worth it to go back to my club on saturday?
    i'm undecided.
    part of me is terrified,
    the other part of me is hungry and in debt.

    maybe i should look for a no nudity club?
    then again that means lots more contact.

    this whole ordeal has left me tired.
    and yet sleepless.
    what to do what to do..

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    I wish I had something awesome to say, but I don't want to go back to my club either due to being manhandled and contact getting out of control. Can you get a loan from your college? I know mine has 'hardship loans' of $500 or so.

    Sadly part of this job tends to be learning how to be a ninja and keeping people from our delicate bits-even in a no touch environment. Though if there's just no bouncer around at your club, how is its no touching enforced? If that was one time, you could go back, but if the bouncer is never there, you might do better at a light contact sort of place that has bouncers, even if some guy is groping your leg. Bouncers are just freaking necessary!

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    If money is that bad at your club and you need money right away, I'd suggest doing a reg. bartending job or waiting tables for just a few nights while you go find a new club. There is also temp. work, but there is some delay with that in getting paid. Another job where you could make at least a little bit and give yourself a break might work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    If money is that bad at your club and you need money right away, I'd suggest doing a reg. bartending job or waiting tables for just a few nights while you go find a new club. There is also temp. work, but there is some delay with that in getting paid. Another job where you could make at least a little bit and give yourself a break might work.
    thats going to be a delay, too. most waitressing jobs you have to train and cant accept tips the first few shifts.

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