Aw RoseLeigh I hope everything hasn't gone to shit in the 2 weeks I've been gone. I also hope you don't quit D's because I <3 you
Cherrybomb, I hear ya. Its like your posts belong in my club.





Your not a wuss .I just moved to Dallas also and its annoying as shit having to practically fight customers off with their stupid octupus hands but then I look around and these girls are just giving it .I am not good with contact it feels ....just bad I mean im coming from letting guys barely touch my legs to trying to cop a feel out of everything .They either stop getting more dances or I just get up and ask for my money because to me its not worth it .
^^^ That makes two of us girl. I used to work at that club Sinn/Amazons in Phoenix, that was known for it's extras, drama, and nasty hookers. Needless to say half the customers had roaming hands as well, but I could still make $ without doing extras and most guys, when you told them to stop, would stop. On top of that, they didn't initiate that sort of contact unless they were trying to be sneaky in the midst of a dance.
I'm in a complete state of shock over how blatantly piggish and aggressive the customers here are though (see my earlier post in this thread).
The worst so far was today when a guy sitting alone drinking pulled me to him, pulled my g-string aside, and tried to finger me. Just like that. Out of nowhere. I had to fight the motherfucker off and by the time I found a bouncer to tell him about it, the guy had already left.![]()
Sinn/Amazons was a church compared to this so-called 'best club in Texas' I'm at now. I can't fuckin' believe that happened. What makes someone think thats acceptible behavior at a strip club? Out in the open? Why would I offer that sort of contact - especially for free?!?!?!
At the same time, like you, I'm seeing lots of girls obliging this kind of behavior. Don't get me wrong, not all girls at this club are hooking, but I think direct sexual contact is beyond the realm of high contact even. It's just plain prostituting. I didn't move here to work in a brothel, but hookers........... they're among me........ to say the least.
I turn down dance offers left and right because I refuse to get fucked on the job, or get turned down because I 'won't let them touch'. I'd be taking home double or triple what I'm making now if I were hooking. Instead, so far I'm averaging $1-200.00 per 8 hour shift... not a lot for what I go through to make it. No matter how crappy PHX is right now, if I were still there, and worked 8 hours instead of the typical 3 hour PHX shift, I'd be making as much, or maybe more - doing $10.00 dances - and feel much safer doing it.
I love Dallas as a city, but dancing here is a whole other story.
Not to make this thread all about me me me though! What club are you at and where else have you gone? Please feel free to pm me.



The increase in contact seems like a virus that's spreading across the country. I remember hearing about it and thinking "Thank God it's not like that here", then bam, a few months later....
It sucks. I've developed various techniques to avoid it, or upgrade dances to at least get paid more for it. But it just adds another layer of exhaustion and squeamishness to the job. Not only do I hate the feeling of it, I hate what I consider a very rude and bold presumption by grown men that they have the right to just run their hands on your naked body. Now that contact is part of dancing if a guy wants to touch I use it as a VIP upsell. However, I consider a guy who says "I would love to touch you" and a guy who just reaches out and grabs two very different animals. The first I might enjoy working with, the second just repulses me.





It really does just make it that much worse. Standards have just lowered spectacularily and expectations raised. There is NO reason that guys need to grope every chick that goes past them. None. It makes me so angry. Especially when you are just starting a dance, trying to take your outfit off, and they either pull on the outfit or the immediately run their hands over you. I am not a freaking horse or something. Do not pet me.
I so want to move whereever contact isn't. At least isn't yet.
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