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    Default Ugh! I hate this.

    Ok, I'm sure some of you guys read SCL. In the last week, basically someone is trying to create some drama between me and my best friend. We work together, but rarely actually work a shift together. She's had a couple customers come in and try to create drama by saying "Just so you know I'd be careful, b/c she runs her mouth about you..." yadda yadda yadda....things like this. When my friend would ask what has been said these guys never have a response; why???? B/c I don't speak badly about anyone I work with (Ok, one person, but I don't say anything negative in the club...EVER). Even if I don't care for someone I still don't talk badly about them, b/c I understand that that then reflects on me.

    My issue is this. I care way too much about what people think of me, and so I've been taking the things being said on SCL, kind of personally. If what was being said was true it wouldn't bother me, but it's not. I just don't understand what kind of person does things like this....it's like all they want is to see some action. Like they can't live without stupid drama.....ugh, I don't know. I'm just extremely bothered by this and I'm not sure what I should do.

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    Default Re: Ugh! I hate this.

    Ignore it, it'll go away. It's probably someone that doesn't like you for on reason or another (probably some stupid, unfounded reason for not caring for you too), they're usually the one that try to start shit.

    Form past experience, if you ignore it, they'll stop. If you and you're friend are cool and know it's all BS, forget about it. You must be doing something right if someone is trying this BS.

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    I'm the same way. Shit like that really upsets me because I care so much about what people think of me. If I were you, I'd just stop reading SCL and make sure that you and your friend are on the same page and she realizes that it's just a bunch of pricks trying to start problems.
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    SCL is the ultimate drama starter. Most people that post on their are trolls. Trolls are people that like to start drama on the net. If you know that stuff isn't true then forget about it. Go to other clubs sites on SCL and you'll see the same b.s. Hell you may even notice the same person posting in every club's site.

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    Default Re: Ugh! I hate this.

    Quote Originally Posted by Brooklynn06 View Post
    . I just don't understand what kind of person does things like this....it's like all they want is to see some action. Like they can't live without stupid drama.....ugh,
    I just popped into SCL for the first time recently, seriously what is with the guys on there? They seem so bitter and twisted, like what did we do to them?! Anyway, are you saying that guys are talking shit about you on SCL? Well try to just not ever look at it. My guess is they are trying to get a rise out of you and as Susan says, if you ignore it it will go away.

    As for telling your friend that you talk shit about her, Puh-lease! Don't people have anything better to do? Guys can be so bitchy. Ugh.

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