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    Valentine's Day, how did you meet your SO?

    I met mine 5 years ago at my club. He was a dancer and I was a waitress. I used to have to waitress on the male shows, and I'd always watch him dance. He was so energetic with his back flips and spins, etc...One night he was in his American flag thongs and I went up to him slapped him on the ass and said "I like the way you dance!" And we've been together since

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    Ummm...he was dating one of my friends and I was engaged to someone else. Yeah, we're gonna have to do a bit of creative retouching before we pass the tale down to our children someday.


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    We were 17 (almost 18 ) when we met in Venice Italy. Out hotels were next to each other. There was a little sidewalk between them. We talked to each other through our windows. He gave me a red rose. We exchanged information and wrote letters(emails) to each other and remained good friends. Year before last year, in October, he flew out to Ca to see me, which was the first time we saw each other since Italy. We started a relationship when he was there.
    I moved to Germany last year end of June.
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    Nine years ago, I'm on stage dancing and he walks into the club to see about a DJ job. he had just signed his divorce papers from wife #2, saw me on stage and told his friend that he was going to marry me. He chased me for two months before I agreed to go out with him. April 1st will be our 8 year wedding anniversary.

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    He came into my club and was so nice and generous and respectful, we did an hour vip and had so much clean fun, i left that night with my head spinning. We didn't exchange any info and i knew he didn't live in the city and I wondered if i would ever see him again. I kept thinking about him though.

    A few months later, one of my regulars emailed me on a thursday asking me to come in, so i did. I'm on stage watching the door for my regular and i spin around the pole and there at the bar is N. I get so excited i jump off stage and throw myself over the bar to give him a hug. I will never forget that feeling inside of me when i saw him the second time, like pure excitement happiness. Luckily my reg never showed and N and i spent the rest of the night in VIP. Somehow we got to talking and he said he was going to Arizona that weekend for the Rock and gem show and i jokingly invited myself. I gave him my email before he left that night and he wrote me the next day asking if i was serious about AZ. I had nothing holding me back and i had such a good feeling about him. I asked my live in GF (open relationship) what she thought and she said why not, she knows i love adventures and i had enough money to get home if i needed to.
    I'll never forget sitting alone in my apartment looking at my phone and knowing if i texted back i would go that nothing in my life would ever be the same.

    And i was right.


    We met at 5 am sunday morning at the airport (my gf drove me) and away we went! I think i fell in love on that plane ride
    We had the most amazing trip out there and when we came back to PA i basically started living with him the nights i wasn't dancing. I never knew i could be so happy with a man. He told me he loved me 2 weeks after Az. I got pregnant 4 months later and now we are married and so excited to meet our baby!
    The one year anniversary of our AZ trip was Feb 4th!



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    That's funny that 3 of us met our man in the SC

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    another dancer and her now husband brought J in thinking he'd like me. they were right. later, i was hanging out with the girl and her SO, and J showed up. he'd come into the club to see me, and he'd get a few dances, but we ended up talking more than dancing.

    that was twoish years ago. we've been married for a year and 4 months. 4 days after we got married, he left for NTC for a month, and then he left for iraq 4 months after we were married, he's been gone for over a year now. its very very strange, i readily admit that i got married waaaaaay too soon in the relationship, but him being gone has actually strengthened our relationship; it has allowed us to get to know each other without sex. i am very surprised that we have made it this far, especially since we didnt know each other very well before we got married and he's been deployed for most of our relationship.

    i am soooglad that i'm still in love with him after getting to know him, i was terrified that we wouldn't make it through his deployment, and now he's coming back in less than two months!!! i am SOOOOOOOO stoked!

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    I am gonna go ask my bf if we can go eat Italian food tonight, as soon as he gets home




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    We actually met at a party of a mutual friend, and I thought he was cute, but at the time, I was 17 and he was...*blushes*...fourteen. So I refused to even go there.

    About eight months later I was a senior in high school and he was a sophomore. I was a bit of a loner and was sitting at a lunch table by myself when my ex drug me over to sit at his table. Future Boyfriend was sitting there and he had a great sense of humor and frankly, he was hot. He was fifteen by now (Oh I'm going to hell!) and I caught myself looking for him when he would come from lunch line, but the moment I saw him I would look away so I wouldn't get 'caught'.

    I learned he was big into playing DDR, so I ran out and bought a DDR bundle for the PS2 and learned to play. He asked if I wanted to go with him and Ex to the local arcade to play since a lot of people would go hang out at the arcade on Fridays and just play. So I went. I got hugs and whatnot. Ex actually got upset and tried to tell me that I shouldn't get involved with Future Boyfriend because Ex "didn't like him." (Pfft.) Boyfriend was and is a scout so the Boy Scouts have a 'mall show' every year and he was attending, so I went to the mall show and asked him if I could get a lift home since I conveniently couldn't get a ride with anyone else (though Boyfriend lived right up the road from me). I confessed I had a crush on him (which was ballsy of me then, I was a shy little nerd) and not long after that I went up to his house and he walked me home later, and kissed me before I got home. We will have been together for four years on Saturday. (Two days after V-day!)

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    A girlfriend of mine from high school called and asked if I wanted to hang out (I hadn't seen her in years). I met her at her 'friend's' house. According to her, he's her ex, according to him, they never dated. According to me, we're getting married

    Heh, anyway, I talked to him and his friends for awhile, and he stalked me down at my day job when I was doing mortgages and asked me on a date. (I never even gave him my number). I admired his ability to find me, so I said yes. We've been together 4 years.

    ETA: I wonder if I should tell my friend that I'm marrying her ex...hmmm...probably not...
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    I wanted to get hired on for my first production assistant job on a movie that was shooting in Memphis. I got hired to spend part of a day as an extra, and then spent the rest of the night following the 1st assistant director around in my heels demanding a job. Finally they wrapped, and I was still shadowing the 1st, who got annoyed and called his 2nd assistant director to come talk to me. I was waiting in the lobby of the Peabody Hotel (where I have a LONG established history already) when the 2nd A.D. walked up and introduced himself. My knees buckled and to this day I can't remember what we talked about. There was just something in his eyes, he was the sexiest man I'd ever seen.

    I was still married and he was sleeping with absolutely everyone else in town. But we flirted and he taught me nearly everything I know about the industry, and we were sleeping together before the show was over. Then he went home to L.A. and I thought I'd never hear from him again, my fling was over... but I was the first one he called when his plane landed. We talked on the phone a lot and when I was getting divorced, he offered to help me get into the L.A. industry if I wanted to move out there, so I did.

    Turns out I'm a really tough woman to match, but K fits me like a key in a lock. We're perfect together and I can't believe how lucky I am to have found a guy like him.

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    He owned a dinner theatre company and I auditioned for him.
    About a month later we started dating...we said that it was STRICTLY for fun ...NOTHING serious. I had just ended my engagement and walked on a 5 year relationship...he had just gotten out of an 8 year relationship. So we promised each other this would just be for fun and games and sex and no commitments.

    7 months later he asked me to marry him. We'll be married 8 years in June,together 10 years.
    So sometimes the rebound relationship is the ONE!

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    I met my SO almost 13 years ago in an AOL chatroom. We chatted for a few days, and then agreed to meet at a Public park for lunch. When I got there she was pushing her 3 year old daughter on the swingset, who when she saw me, pushed mom to the side and said , " Mommy I want the Man to push me"
    We dated for about 3 months, and basically started living together at that point. We lived together for 5 years before I proposed to her at a Racetrack in Massachusetts in a hotair balloon infrom of about 12000 peoples.
    I cant picture my life without her everyday I find more reasons to love her more and more!
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    I met Boyfriend thru Craigslist Casual Encounters. I was looking for an NSA hook-up. Over a year and a half later, we've moved in together and have our little baby and are still going strong. So much for no strings!!

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    We met on Feb 21st 1992 at a metallica laser light show at omsi! lol

    i was 15, he was 16. so cute with his long blonde hair. he didn't say a word to me (or anyone else! lol) , thank god his friend was a talker. he got me and my friends phone numbers, we didn't hear from them for a week, then they asked up out. 2 weeks after we met, we went out on a date, finally he talks! but only a little (he's never been much of a talker haha)

    We "officially" become boyfriend/girlfriend exactly a month later on march 21st.

    6 yrs later on march 21st 1998, we got married.

    this year will be our anniversary of 16 yrs together and 10 yrs married!

    still going strong!

    he's absolutely my soulmate, i knew from the moment we started dating.

    who says teen love can't last!





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    i just love all these romantic stories!!!



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    Woo for being different--I have a non-stripclub related meeting:

    I met my boyfriend while we were taking the same Calculus class at the university. I assumed he was gay, because he was drop dead gorgeous, intelligent, and not trying to flirt with me during class. Thus, he was off of my "radar" for most of the semester. Then one day, I came to class wearing one of my favorite corsets, and we locked eyes as I walked into the auditorium. I think he nearly flew over the seats running over to sit next to me that day! Anyways, we started talking and I realized he's not gay, just bi. We became close friends, and started dating 6 months later.

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    We worked together as RAs at our college and were sort of passing acquaintances since we were on the same campus. The next year, they put us both in the same dorm building. As we were the only staff members in the building that had a full year of prior experience in the position, we naturally made it a point to totally pick on the FNGs and make them totally paranoid.

    He and a group of our other friends took me out fo rmy 21st birthday, got me snookered (14 shots in less than 2 hours, and I weighed all of 80 lbs at the time), and decided that was the perfect time to ask me out. I was drunk enough to say yes. Six years later, he still tries to get me drunk when he wants me to say yes to things!

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    Pookie, your story is so cute and romantic.

    I met my boy on Valentines day, at a night club. His friends were hitting on my girlfriends, my boy was hitting on my best friend, and they wanted to go home with the guys. I did not want to go and was beign the cockblock. I just wasnt into one night stands.
    Ran into him at the club the nextweekend, my bestfriend wasn't interested in him, said he was to skinny. So he started hitting on me.
    We started to date and he was a typical asshole player who broke my heart.
    Months later, I ran into him again, he happened to come into where I was dancing and I was dating another asshole player who never showed up to give me a ride home from work, and so he offered to take me home.
    We ended up becomming good friends and fuck buddies. I knew he was a player and wasn't interested in anything romantic so we just fucked. We ended up getting along really well and becomming really good friends, and he wasn't so much an asshole..just not so into commitment. I ended up moving in with him because I was homeless. he wanted to move to Vegas and I made it happen, I didn't have anythign to lose.
    we remained good friends and fuck buddies for about a yearand a half afetr we moved here.

    Our relationship just sort of evolved and happened, and one night during a threresome he told me he loved me. It just sort of happened.

    My story isn't romantic at all. It's actually pretty fucked up, but it was always amazing to me anyway...that a guy I thought was worthless and no good turned out to be the most caring, loyal, loving person I have ever known. I met him 6 years ago today.

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    . Six years later, he still tries to get me drunk when he wants me to say yes to things!
    So if I ever get to meet you..bring a bottle of tequila and you'll be mine?

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    So if I ever get to meet you..bring a bottle of tequila and you'll be mine?
    Abso-fuckin-lutely! Although people who *really* want to get on my good side give me Jack Daniels!

    P.S. You wouldn't have to booze me up to have your way with me, I'm much more fun when I'm sober!

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    Quote Originally Posted by phillyvixen View Post
    i just love all these romantic stories!!!
    I love them too! I get all girly and gleeful. Mine had such a non-ideal beginning, but it got good after that. We dated for a year long distance (Oklahoma to Texas), then I moved down here to be with him. That was oh, 2003. We married almost two years ago and it's only gotten better.


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    Two of our good friends started dating about three years ago. These friends had a get together at a restaurant and that's technically where we met. I was chatting with my friend's brother, so my future bf didn't approach me because he thought I was with him (ewie!). A year and a half later, my friend (same friend) totally lied to him and said that I had been going on about how hot he was (I thought he was hot, but I didn't say that, she was trying to hook us up). He found me on myspace but I didn't accept his add because I thought he was just one of those random guys. He told me who he was (amazingly, I remembered him even though we didn't even speak to eachother at the restaurant the first time) and asked me out. It was cute because I kept saying, "I should head home now" but he didn't want me to leave and said how well it was going. Awh. It's been a year and a half and still going strong.

    Awh, now I'm all twitterpaited.
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    Awww. All these stories...*sniffle* I especially liked Pookie's! Could be made in to a movie

    I met my husband online through AFF almost two years ago this month back when we were living in Key West. We were both just looking for a good time and nothing more. We sent e-mails back and forth along with some pictures for a week or two before we met face-to-face (I'm super shy and wanted to get to know him a little beforehand plus I wanted to make sure he was for real).

    We met up at this tiny movie theater we both had never gone to before. I was so freaking nervous beyond belief. I of course tried on a million outfits over and over, tried a million different hairstyles, put myself down a million times, begged my sister for help, etc. I then drove across town checking myself out in the mirror another million times. Once I found a parking spot, yup, checked myself a million more.

    Walking down the street I kept telling myself, "don't trip! don't trip!! omg, please, don't trip!!" and "I hope he's as cute as he was in the pictures!!" I saw this cute guy leaning up against the building in an outfit I hated so much lol but he still was cute. I kept asking myself if that was him and what I should say or if he would say something before me and ahhhhhhhh.

    He had a huge smile on his face. I smiled back about to ask him who he was waiting for and he asked before I could. He paid for my ticket and everything which I wasn't expecting since we were just there for the movie and sex at some point.

    Once we were sitting in the back row of the theater and the lights went out he took control and yeah, we missed the movie. We ended up leaving a few minutes in to the movie. We could have probably had gotten away with having sex in the back row but I really didn't want to be quiet the first time. I knew just from his foreplay that I wouldn't be able to. Oo my.

    Turns out we had a lot in common. I drove from WI all the way down to KW with my family a few years before then and he drove from MI all the way to KW the year after I did. His van died thanks to Katrina, I think, so he drove his bicycle everywhere. We threw it in the trunk of my car before we went back to his place.

    He told me the directions to his place and I was like WHATTTT. For 2-3 years he was living across the street from me!! Well, there was a golf course in between us lol but still. I still wonder how many times we had passed one another all those years. Crazy.

    I moved in with him on his boat he was renting soon after, got married about 6 months later on the beach, moved a few times and are now here in OR expecting our first baby in March! Thanks, AFF!

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