I'm totally dependent on my regulars and I'm freaked out to go to the club without at least one coming to see me. I feel the same way as if I were to go to a bar alone, like a loner. I know deep down that I can make money without my regulars but I don't know why but I'm scared of not making money and I'm scared I'll be at the club and no one will want to talk with me and I'll be alone. I have only danced about 4 times without regs there and all four nights I was miserable, although I did make decent money. I'm dancing Sat and Sun this weekend alone because I need money for my new apartment. How can I make sure I have a good night both emotionally and financially without any regs coming to see me?



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I can see how it'd be scary at first...I still feel like a bit of a loner at work sometimes. When I'm having a bad night, and it seems like everyone else is excelling...well, that can be the worst. The best you can do is fake-it-til-you-make it. The weirded-out lonely feeling goes away after awhile. It only takes one good customer to make your night, and you will find him. They're out there!


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