The other night at work, it was dead so I was making convo with one of the bouncers, a new guy in his early 40s(looks hella younger though). After it came out that I don't have a boyfriend and haven't for a while, he kept asking me why I don't have one. He is married and all that, so I know that although he was being flirty, it was more in friendliness than actually hitting on me in hopes of pursuit(or let's hope so? lol).
--BACKGROUND INFO -- Recently, I've been trying to cut down on promiscuity and look for a guy that's more steady. It drastically decreases risk of STDs, plus I'm getting to the age where perhaps I might want to actually settle down, get married, and have a family in the near future. Although I do not want to get married anytime soon, I don't want to be say, 40 and single and childless either. So yeah, I've been looking to maybe find myself a boyfriend(although I haven't done much active "looking" though, just mingling with a select few of the guys I already had around me before). And let me tell you, I suck...apparently I'm a lot better at obtaining hook-ups/casual dates than boyfriends. Hells, I think guys wanted to be my boyfriend more back when I WASN'T interested, than now when I might actually BE interested!
So anyway, this guy keeps grilling me over and over about how someone so smart and pretty as myself doesn't have a boyfriend. It was slightly annoying. I simply gave reasons as to why I was "choosing" not to have a boyfriend, and a lot of what I said made really good sense too. I didn't want to be reminded of something that I'm already a little self conscious of(I'm not self-conscious about being single; I'm self-conscious that apparently guys don't seem interested in me as more than a friend or fuck buddy).
But my question is: Do you guys ever experience this? Do you guys find it slightly annoying too? My friend wrote a blog last week about this overly flirty guy at work who kept asking her repeatedly why, at age 24, she didn't have any kids or a serious man yet. It's similar to that. Ughhh guys can be unknowingly annoying!! lol


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