Okay WTF is with people lately? A coworker/acquaintence of mine was upset last night because not one, but SEVERAL, customers early in her shift made fun of her for having small boobs. When she got off stage and went around the room approaching guys for tips as usual, some overly chunky guy said, "You really should think about spending $4000 on breast implants so you can be beautiful. Even I have bigger boobs than you." WTF?? (If I were her, I woulda said, "Then YOU pay me the $4000 if it means so much to you." My friend didn't say that, but she DID slap him 3 times!) This made my friend very upset but she regained and recomposed herself when she approached the next customer, and guess what?...he did the same thing! He didn't use the same exact line of course, but he made a crack about her not having boobs. Granted my friend is nearly flat, but she's also very petite and thin, plus she has perky nipples, so it works for her decently(unlike me, who was nearly flat pre-BA with no nipples but I also had a much bigger body frame).
Overall it was a lousy night moneywise for most of us, which was bad enough. But it's even worse when customers have to add insult to injury. What is their problem?? Do they get off on insulting people?
I remember pre-BA a few times when customers said mean things about my lack of boobs. It hurt like a razor blade, since I was so self-conscious about it. I wrote a few examples on here about it before. For example, the group of younger guys that came in a whole 2 days before my scheduled BA surgery. They came in a little under a month ago and when the one guy said that he preferred girls with big boobs, I told him to "come see me in a month," hinting that I was getting surgery. Whaddyaknow, they happen to stumble in one month minus two days, saw my flat chest, and one of the guys in the group started yelling and taunting me, calling me a "liar". He told all of his friends + everyone on his side of the bar not to tip to me or talk to me because I was a "liar" and "still flat." This hurt my money a LOT, even though I tried to be friendly to the other guys to counteract what this asshole was saying about me. It resulted in the guy's friends saying "What, do you really think you're entitled to this whole dollar?" despite sliding dollar upon dollar down the cleavage of the much bustier girls' bra tops. There's more stories than that. There was also the time guys taunted me for being flat and it led to me getting into a drunken fist fight brawl with them because I was drunk and couldn't control my temper at them for being called flat. Hells, I still have 2 dents in my skull to prove it.
So why do guys have to act that way? It is completely unnecessary and mean. For all you guys out there, do you realize how much it can literally ruin someone's day? Seriously. I felt really bad that these guys put down my friend, because she is very cute and she didn't deserve to hear all their shit. Ugh. Okay that is all for now. Anyone have similar stories or ways to combat it?


) This made my friend very upset but she regained and recomposed herself when she approached the next customer, and guess what?...he did the same thing! He didn't use the same exact line of course, but he made a crack about her not having boobs. Granted my friend is nearly flat, but she's also very petite and thin, plus she has perky nipples, so it works for her decently(unlike me, who was nearly flat pre-BA with no nipples but I also had a much bigger body frame).
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) so if a guy says something about my boobs I'll turn around, bend over, and say "I'm sorry, didn't you see this ass?!" They'll usually laugh and say "yea I guess you're right" and I've gotten dances. I actually haven't gotten too many comments about my boobs lately. It's all about how you feel about yourself. I'm fine with not having boobs. Sure if I won the lottery I'd get them tomorrow, but it doesn't bother me enough to hurt my hustle. If she walks around with her head high and her small chest out, guys more than likely won't have too much to say. When it comes to SC's, guys can smell fear and they somehow seem to know exactly what you're self conscious about and point it out. Why? I really don't know!

Damn. I was looking to provoke trouble with some AL(AL = asshole loser; similar to PL but worse) lol.
And 3 years ago before I got my BA, guys sometimes asked me if there were any girls with big boobs that were working. That's when I would usually respond with the "Come see me in a month then" line(since I was already scheduled to get my BA), and then they'd usually say, "Actually, I don't mind small boobs, I was asking for a busty girl for my guy friend here" but I think they only blamed it on their friend because they realized that they had come across as an asshole and felt bad.
What do you think?
LOL.
Of course there are always exceptions.
What kind of idiot was this guy? LOL. Or do you think he was making a comment in sarcasm? IDK.
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