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    So I went and auditioned at my first stripclub I've actually ever stepped into. The house mom told me I did good and it was a slow time and that she'd call me in about a wk. She even told me what she'd have me doing the first nigt. Took my name and number. Well a wk went by didn't hear anything from her so I called the club. The receptionist told me if I was hired that the house mom would have called me by now. She took my name and number told me she'd have the house mom call me when she got into work that night. Needless to say she never called me. Why can't they just say I'm sorry your but you didn't make it or something. Instead of tellin me I did really good you like my style and tell me what you'd have me do the first night? And also that you'd call me if you had no intention to? Do strip clubs usually do this?

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    Quote Originally Posted by KinkyKate View Post
    Do strip clubs usually do this?
    Yup, all the time. Welcome to the biz, gal....

    Dont expect any type of professionalism from anyone in this game. Everyone lacks basic human decency, lol.

    If it bothers u that much, you can always wait 2 weeks and go back. Clubs never know what they want anyways. Most likely they wont even remember you.
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    yeah, they're stupid, its no today yes tommorow...etc
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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM View Post
    Dont expect any type of professionalism from anyone in this game. Everyone lacks basic human decency, lol.

    Can I quote you on my signature? This is so perfectly fitting for me right now.

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    It's not you... it's actually normal in this business. I'd either find another club to audition at or come back to the same club in a month. They probably won't even remember you.
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    don't take it personally. Its possible that the club has too many girls for the season,and the housemom was unprofessional. I would probably not go back there but don't be offended and try another place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KinkyKate View Post
    Why can't they just say I'm sorry your but you didn't make it or something. Instead of tellin me I did really good you like my style and tell me what you'd have me do the first night? And also that you'd call me if you had no intention to? Do strip clubs usually do this?
    Cause anyone involved in management (from my very very limited experience) seems to be some kind of fucking coward. That may have been a bit too strong on my part actually. Personally I think they are scared of someone making a scene or claiming discrim (in some cases) or something like that. Had similar shit pulled on me, in fact some of the dancers i know IRL have a whole lot of these stories even though they are amazing at what they do, but persistance is a virtue.

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    First things first, focus on developing a thicker skin, b/c you will certainly need it in this industry when it comes to managers, co-workers, AND clientèle! Yes, they (we) should act a certain way, and in a perfect world, we would. Just keep on going, girl, don't give up. Are you in good shape? If not, that may be why you've been given the run-around at the first club. If you are in decent enough shape to dance, make a little tour of the other clubs around, and see which other ones appeal to you. But DON'T be too scared to try again. PM me if you need to talk, k? Good luck!!!
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    Usually the manager tells me if i'm hired or not. for a housemom to audition is strange to me.

    I'm sorry for the way it turn out but hey theres plenty of other clubs out there. wait for another 6 months and try again if you really want to work there.

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    ^^^ I think that it depends on where you work... It seems like alot of clubs want to minimize the amount of manager/stripper interaction. I was auditioned by the house mom out in Phoenix (@ Christies) and at several clubs out here in the ATL.

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    I'm guessing she probably did genuinely like you but shes just unproffessional. Don't let it bother you too much. I know it seems like a bit of a knock but its nothing personal against yoi. I'd say try another club and if you have your heart set on the first one try again in a couple of months when you have a bit more experience.



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    Don't take anything personal in this biz.

    And yes, just about every strip club I've worked at has been like that. If they're going to hire you, they will hire you on the spot (sometimes without even an audition). I've seen other times where girls have auditioned, and the club says they'll call them back, but then right after the leave the manager talks about how he'd never hire them.

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    akasham said it.
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