Hmmmm is there something as being too sexual while doing your performances. there's things i would like to do but kind of hesitate...not sure..... any thoughts???? experiences ect



Hmmmm is there something as being too sexual while doing your performances. there's things i would like to do but kind of hesitate...not sure..... any thoughts???? experiences ect
Well, touching yourself, etc. is often against the law and will most likely lead to you being asked to leave.
Things like that? Or things that aren't quite so obvious?



things like almost pretending your having sex, sexual type positions ect
no touching..you answered that for me but I do touch my stomach....



One thing I've been known to do on stage is take the dollar(s) and fold them in half the long way, so they resemble a phallus... sort of, anyway. I'll sit with my legs out, I look like a "W" or "M" shape if you were seeing me from above. Then I take the bill(s) and pretend I am masturbating with them as if they were a dildo. I might touch myself with the bills... or not. Whatever. The guys always get the idea. I buck my hips and fake a real quick orgasm after a few strokes and then fake a couple of twitches. I work mostly on the nude side of my club, but have been known to play this out on the topless side's stage also.
It depends on the club. Some clubs wont let you touch yourself, and others allow it.
Just look at what the other dancers do so that you can get an idea. If you want to know for sure, just ask the management.
yeah there is... please don't jack off or lick the pole. ew. gross. just don't do it.
I say try some different stuff out. If it makes you money, do it. If it seems to be too much for the guys, don't do it.
Last edited by Dottie Rebel; 02-17-2008 at 03:15 PM.


Several years ago girls here used to be able to touch themselves and do 2 girl shows on stage..Not anymore..Not sure what ideas to give you though that aren't too gross. Maybe someone else can give ya some feedback based on your club/area...
I've seen or heard of girls playing w/loli pops in ways that where not allowed got her fired after giving that loli pop to a customer right on stage, girls finger banging also not allowed, girls getting on all 4 to where the guys face was right there and she got mad at the guy for licking her in that case which I thought she should of gotten kicked out not the guy for reacting to it, I've seen g on g shows that was actaul soft porn--but at a private party soo it was the main event and very hott at that.
I have been told I can't do certin floor moves at my club and you really won't see any girl on our dance do more then lick a nip, shake thier ass, or touch a boobie.
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OMG a girl actually licked the pole the other day. I was sitting with a custie and was just like "did she actually do that?"
Anyway, are you working topless or nude? At the 2 topless clubs I've worked at you can touch your vajayjay...but thats because theres underwear over it.





Saw a girl wrap her arms around herself, ti lift her boobs, then spit down her cleavage, then rub her chest on the pole.
Not at all attractive.
You can still be sexy without touching the obvious parts. Rubbing your hands across your body, arch your back, throw your head around a bit. I done right can be uber sexy.





It depends on the are for the most part but I'm sure some things are definitely frowned on most places (i.e. licking the pole, fingering yourself). I think most girls look really cheesy when trying to pull off overtly sexual moves.
I worked in a town where dancing wasn't allowed and for some reason they chose to have strippers anyways. We could only wear very modest bikinis and for "dancing" we did lame PE type moves...toe touches, jumping jacks, lunges. I actually had one of my highest earning nights in this town. I don't think anyone in the town (sheriff included) really cared but we followed the stupid laws anyways.





when im leaning forward (head between my legs while standing, back to audience) i will sometimes run my hands up both legs, starting at my ankles, and then one or two fingers of one hand subtly between my legs in one slow/sweeping motion. i only do for a second though, it isn't like "fingering" by any means. i also tend to run my hands over my breasts a lot, sometimes pulling them together lightly/pushing them up.
so, i guess i'd say what i do is "suggestive" rather than blatantly sexual. my club doesn't allow really rauncy stage acts anyway, and i wouldn't do them even if they did. i think it attracts the wrong kind of customer (imo).
*edit*
note: i work topless.. so when i do touch myself (which as i said, is subtle) it's over my thong.






Too sexual and obviously you can be fired as the other dancers have stated, but you can also be arrested for public indecency if there's an undercover cop posing as a customer in the audience.
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