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    So my club had a "ladies' night" that was very important to management because they want to attract more women and couples to the club and they were hoping this night might attract them to come on other nights. They paid me to do a double with another girl onstage. Before I just clarified with her and asked: "It's okay if I touch you onstage, right?" She said yes. I then said: "Okay cool. It's fine if you touch me as long as it's legal" assuming that as a dancer at my club, she knew the rules (you can touch anything except pussy and nothing with the mouth).

    When we were onstage I laid down and she pulled my g-string down and put her head in the general area. We were in a very small area packed with around 60 people all cheering and this mini stage is barely above ground level. Then she started going down on me!!!! It was so hard because I couldn't just yell at her to stop or push her off with 60 people cheering and staring. It took me about 5-10 seconds to wiggle out of it and tell her we can't do that.

    I was so scared I was going to get fired but luckily the managers (who were there!!) were at an angle where they couldn't see and were busy.........

    I mean, I don't mind on a personal level that she did that but that is highly illegal and to do it onstage is just so stupid!!

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    I doubt that you'd get fired for the other dancer's bad behavior.
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    This happened to me twice at the Cabaret while doing two-girl shows. Stupid girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    I doubt that you'd get fired for the other dancer's bad behavior.
    I just don't know if management would believe if I said "She did it... I wasn't okay with it!!"

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    Eh, you would probably know by now if it was going to be a problem with management, from my experience they tend to jump on you right away about shit if they are going to do so. Though there are exceptions, especially if you have snitches in the house, who will run to the owners and/or general managers and start talking shit later.

    Be glad you don't work at my last club, this would happen numerous times nightly, lol. No one cared if it was illegal or not. In fact two SW members put on one hell of a show there a few years ago...
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    Sheeeeit. I wish I could get some hot chick sex at work. Not that I'm trying to be unsympathetic to your situation and all.

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    that kinda turned me on .....but my bf doesn't lick the kitty....so I'm just horny for any type of head right now....male, female, midgets.... don't care

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    Quote Originally Posted by thickienikkie View Post
    that kinda turned me on .....but my bf doesn't lick the kitty....so I'm just horny for any type of head right now....male, female, midgets.... don't care
    That sucks Never understood why guys dont like licking the kitty.

    I was so scared I was going to get fired but luckily the managers (who were there!!) were at an angle where they couldn't see and were busy.........
    Actually the worse case scenario is getting arrested and booked for public indecency. If there was a undercover cop in the audience that could happen. Thats the kinda of stuff the religious right loves to use to fine and shut down clubs.

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    They're supposed to fake it! Silly womens.

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    Actually, it's not illegal between dancers. Don't ask me why, since it really ought to be! But dancers full on sexing each other is fine with management in every club I've worked at. So long as it's dancers only. You really have to spell. it. out. for the girls you're doing doubles with! Believe me! I had a girl try that on me during a private double. I was like "woah, simulated action! please!". Because otherwise sometimes they will, in fact, just fuck eachother. I do find it funny that that is okay, but sitting on a dude's lap is not.

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    I think you are protected from indecency or lewdness laws as long as no one underage is in the club to witness it.

    Huzzah for the freedom of expression.

    So while it is probably against club policy, it is technically not illegal to perform a sex act on stage as long as the audience is over 18 or 21...
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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon View Post
    Actually, it's not illegal between dancers. Don't ask me why, since it really ought to be! But dancers full on sexing each other is fine with management in every club I've worked at. So long as it's dancers only. You really have to spell. it. out. for the girls you're doing doubles with! Believe me! I had a girl try that on me during a private double. I was like "woah, simulated action! please!". Because otherwise sometimes they will, in fact, just fuck eachother. I do find it funny that that is okay, but sitting on a dude's lap is not.
    Really?!?!?! I had no idea!! I remember a play being banned in Ottawa a few years ago for simulated oral sex onstage and I kind of thought of that. So can we kiss?

    Even the manager told me to stop 2 customer chicks I was dancing for to stop kissing each other. I felt so weird telling two girls who obviously know eachother in real life that they can't kiss.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    So while it is probably against club policy, it is technically not illegal to perform a sex act on stage as long as the audience is over 18 or 21...
    I'm sure the legality of that varies widely, right?

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    I suspect it is illegal in Daytona. We never let them do it if there were cops in the house, and most other clubs I have worked in would fine or fire the dancers who did it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by virgoamm View Post
    I'm sure the legality of that varies widely, right?
    I'm not a lawyer... but I believe that that little legal loophole is what permits private shows to occur for bachelor parties and whatnot. I think county or state governments can make it less-legal but I'm not sure.
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    Granted, the OP wasn't consenting in this particular situation. But two (or more) consenting adults, getting frisky within the confines of a sexually oriented establishment and 'performing' to an audience composed of people who had reached the age of majority doesn't sound illegal to me.

    Correct me if I am wrong.... ^^^

    This little shpiel got me out of trouble once when I was working in Jersey. I still got dirty looks from management for a few weeks.... they were just jealous that I got some pussy though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by NewMoon View Post
    Really?!?!?! I had no idea!! I remember a play being banned in Ottawa a few years ago for simulated oral sex onstage and I kind of thought of that. So can we kiss?

    Even the manager told me to stop 2 customer chicks I was dancing for to stop kissing each other. I felt so weird telling two girls who obviously know eachother in real life that they can't kiss.
    Well maybe they have a different policy? I don't really do girl shows myself, but I've seen crazy stuff at Barbarella's, Pigale, Barefax...Not kissing, but definitely oral. Oral that was obviously not simulated. You can always ask. I mean, clubs have vaguely different rules. I'm still a little weirded out by their 'take thong off instantaneously whilst dancing' policy. You could just ask, though what they officially tell you and what they permit, and what cops permit...it all varies. Ugh. I mean, at most there'd be a bylaw. Not one I've ever seen enforced, mind you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mollyzmoon View Post
    Well maybe they have a different policy? I don't really do girl shows myself, but I've seen crazy stuff at Barbarella's, Pigale, Barefax...Not kissing, but definitely oral. Oral that was obviously not simulated. You can always ask. I mean, clubs have vaguely different rules. I'm still a little weirded out by their 'take thong off instantaneously whilst dancing' policy. You could just ask, though what they officially tell you and what they permit, and what cops permit...it all varies. Ugh. I mean, at most there'd be a bylaw. Not one I've ever seen enforced, mind you.
    Ahhhh... Canada might be a different can of worms. I know nothing about that legal system.
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    This is a complicated legal issue involving lots of regs and laws and the First Amendment in the US.

    Basically, not only what you do, but what you show can be regulated.

    Hence, if there's liquor, in many states there's no nudity. And if you are licking the kitty, there's going to be nudity. A bar can have their license pulled and you can be ticketed/fined/arrested.

    Strip Clubs are highly regulated.

    This is a state by state situation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pornlaw View Post
    Strip Clubs are highly regulated.

    This is a state by state situation.
    It's more city by city. In San Francisco there are nude clubs that have been known to routinely have live sex shows, but you wouldn't be able to get away with that in, say, San Jose or Sacramento nude clubs.

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    That happened to me once during a three-girl show when I first started dancing. I had one girl sitting on my face so I couldn't do anything about it when the third girl started fingering me and licking me onstage. Pretty much all my friends happened to be there too, so I had THAT extra fun to contend with. It was hot and I didn't exactly mind, but I'm very glad we weren't busted for indecency because I really didn't sign up for that!

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    I'm surprised that it is illegal...unless a cop is super close to all the action, I would assume the dancers could claim it was simulated anyway.

    I've had this happen to me 2 different times. I blame it on the rampant X use at my club. It didn't really bother me though, although it would have been better with a dancer I was actually attracted to.
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    Its only illegal if you get caught.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pornlaw View Post
    This is a complicated legal issue involving lots of regs and laws and the First Amendment in the US.

    Hence, if there's liquor, in many states there's no nudity. And if you are licking the kitty, there's going to be nudity. A bar can have their license pulled and you can be ticketed/fined/arrested.

    Great point about the relation of nudity to alcohol licensing. I guess I got away with my naughtiness because I worked at a juice bar.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckyOne View Post
    Its only illegal if you get caught.
    Very well said. LOL!
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