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    I don't even want to get into what a nightmare it's been the last week with the cheapos. Usuallly around here they are broke, but won't be arrogant or waste your time. Here's one minor detail from The Night From Hell---asshole from Houston (keyword, should have known) wanted me and another girl to go to VIP to dance on each other. He watched for several songs before it was time to charge to move on, and immediately got hostile and irate on purpose. Then mgmt yelled at ME because "bringing 2 girls back there confuses customers, new rule---you can't do that anymore" I was floored, and he was trying to get me to tell him off but he didn't. I would have stayed if he had just kicked him out like the bouncers all wanted to--they knew what was up. But I saw him sitting at the bar 5 mins later. Then the mgr apologized to me on my way out for getting nasty with me when I had done nothing wrong, and I said I was leaving bc it's not fair that he's still here after ripping us off and wasting our time. Mgr goes on and ON about how "well he's buying Bud Lights so I can't kick him out." First of all, he had maybe 3 in one hour anyway.

    Then last night I hear the dreaded "IS IT FOR FREEEEEEEE????" douchiness, and I told them, nastily, don't ever use the word "free" in a titty bar, that they can go to a real bar. Next day a bouncer told me (he was laughing) that they had come up and complained and said "this bitch that bitch etc. told us we gotta buy dances or we gotta leave."




    So would yr club pull some crap like that, or wouldn't they? I'm aware that I work out in the hillbilly bumblefuck sticks out here, with ppl with no taste and class, and can't wait to get the fuck out.

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    None that I've ever worked at. Boo
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    Quote Originally Posted by Alaska View Post
    I'm aware that I work out in the hillbilly bumblefuck sticks out here, with ppl with no taste and class, and can't wait to get the fuck out.

    I feel your pain, doll. I couldn't have said it any better. You are not alone!

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    In this day and age a club where customers get kicked out for being rude and not buying dances is a rare gem.

    Alaska, I remember dancing at your club a looong time ago when a customer offended a dancer when she asked for a dance and he responded "No thank you, I'm married". She told a bouncer who then reprimanded the customer for insinuating that a dance was anything more than a dance.

    Ha! Times have changed.

    Now, the balance is definitely tipped in the favor of the guy buying the Bud Light. I also remember when that changed, when bouncers were told they were no longer supposed to kick people out and only the manager could make that decision. The problem is that managers are one step removed from the action and only have the club's $ in mind.

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    I can't even fathom a club kicking guys out for not buying dances. Or even for not spending a dime on dancers. Hell at my old club the manager told me guys could sit at the tiprail all night long and not tip a single dancer if they wanted and we had no right to even remind them that it's called the tip rail for a reason.


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    Default Re: How many peoples' clubs will throw out groups for not buying LD's?

    That manager needs a blanket party.

    No club I have ever heard of requires the guys to buy LDs, but most at least encourage various levels of abuse for guys not tipping at the rail.

    I'd rather have a bunch of customers tipping but not buying many LDs than an empty club, but it is frustrating when it's busy and no one is making all that much money. Fortunately this has been pretty rare, in my experience, except one club in Daytona.

    Alaska, I have heard Albuquerque is an enlightened city. What's with all the cretins in your club?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    Alaska, I have heard Albuquerque is an enlightened city. What's with all the cretins in your club?
    I live in ABQ and do think it's a great place to live. However, I've been noticing quite a disparity between people outside and inside the strip clubs. ABQ is developing rapidly but the clubs have been really, really slow for the last 5-6 months. I've never seen it like this.

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    Default Re: How many peoples' clubs will throw out groups for not buying LD's?

    Unfortunately, as long as they're buying drinks the club doesn't care that they're not buying dances. They paid the cover charge so they're technically allowed to just sit there.

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    Yep, as long as the buy the drink minimum they can stay all night and not spend another dime.

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    Never seen customers kicked out for not buying lapdances, but I've seen guys beaten to a pulp for not tipping at the stage.

    Of course, this was in a hick town where the bouncers all had roid rage.
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    Default Re: How many peoples' clubs will throw out groups for not buying LD's?

    Most clubs I have worked will not throw out for not buying LD's/Rooms. But they do require stage tipping (sitting at stage) and/or a drink per hour min. As long as guys are buying the food/drinks..or paying a cover for that matter most clubs are fine with that. It still sucks though when guys think its a free show but again these are not the best types of people that we all (dancers and staff) deal with on a daily basis. This time of year is always cheepo time for us.

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    Default Re: How many peoples' clubs will throw out groups for not buying LD's?

    No clubs I've ever worked at would throw out customers for being cheap. Even if they're nursing one beer from 6pm to 10pm, and not tipping, I can't imagine them being asked to leave for lack of money spending. It would be nice, but yeah right. That's what I get for working in small towns. No drink minimums, no high cover, lots of guys in for the free show.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Djoser View Post
    That manager needs a blanket party.

    No club I have ever heard of requires the guys to buy LDs, but most at least encourage various levels of abuse for guys not tipping at the rail.

    I'd rather have a bunch of customers tipping but not buying many LDs than an empty club, but it is frustrating when it's busy and no one is making all that much money. Fortunately this has been pretty rare, in my experience, except one club in Daytona.

    Alaska, I have heard Albuquerque is an enlightened city. What's with all the cretins in your club?

    HAHAHAHAHAHA, blanket party!! That's awesome I haven't heard that in years!!

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    Default Re: How many peoples' clubs will throw out groups for not buying LD's?

    There's even a guy that has ripped off multiple girls by getting dances and not paying... and he's still allowed in.

    It's pretty fuckin hard to get kicked out of our club these days
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    Default Re: How many peoples' clubs will throw out groups for not buying LD's?

    I've worked in clubs where the customer either had to be tipping the girls or buying so many drinks in an hour or they would get kicked out and it's happened. I've also heard of clubs where customers wouldn't be allowed to sit at the stage or tip rail if they aren't tipping the girls. I don't know about all states but I was told in Maryland, as long as they are buying so many drinks per hour, they can't be legally kicked out for not tipping or spending money on dancers.

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    Default Re: How many peoples' clubs will throw out groups for not buying LD's?

    my club won't, and as irritating as those customers are, i understand and agree with the club's reasoning.

    those customers make the club more "full".

    if it's a slow day/night and you have 10 customers in the club, not spending a dime and then 1 guy walks through the door who has money he intends on spending....

    it's a lot better than that same guy walking into a club with NO customers, because he's a lot more likely to walk right back out because it looks "dead" and/or he feels awkward/intimidated.

    the best way to deal with it is to "educate" those customers by not sitting with them for extended periods of time without them spending money. all the girls should be encouraged to do the same.

    however, if they are sitting at the TIP RAIL and not tipping, THEN they should be spoken to. because at that point it's just blatantly rude and it encourages other customers to behave the same way, that it's "ok/acceptable".

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    Quote Originally Posted by iseestars View Post
    I've worked in clubs where the customer either had to be tipping the girls or buying so many drinks in an hour or they would get kicked out and it's happened. I've also heard of clubs where customers wouldn't be allowed to sit at the stage or tip rail if they aren't tipping the girls. I don't know about all states but I was told in Maryland, as long as they are buying so many drinks per hour, they can't be legally kicked out for not tipping or spending money on dancers.
    really? i mean, ive never seen anyone get kicked out for that, but i didnt know it wasnt legal.

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    God, I'm sorry that SUCKS! He can stay cuz he's buying Bud Light? Since when is that a qualifier?

    I'm lucky that I don't deal with that cuz the cover and drinks at my club are so expensive that the cheapos wouldn't even get in the door.

    I guess, cuz it is so expensive most guys at least get a dance, but if you aren't at least buying drinks the Hosts have a way of running you out (no place to sit to even get a dance).

    Not to mention being bombarded every few seconds by dancers who will be rude as hell if you stay too long without spending.

    So, I didn't know which way to vote, if you aren't spending eveyone will make your time so miserable that you'll want to leave?

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    Default Re: How many peoples' clubs will throw out groups for not buying LD's?

    I think some of you missed the point that that guy Alaska was writing about got VIP dances and didn't pay. Acted all angry to get out of paying, and the manager did fuckall about it because he was buying a couple cheap beers.


    Unfortunately at most clubs, if the guy is buying from the bar and not picking a fight with other customers, they will let him stay as long as he likes. Assholes like him have figured that out, and so they purposely steal dances from girls like that. I have a feeling they wouldn't do it at their hometown club(s) if they go at all, but feel perfectly fine doing it when out of town. Like a game - see how much they can get away with without paying.

    They SHOULD be kicked out.

    The nice thing was that at my Phx club the bouncers (most at least) would intimidate shitheads like that into paying up then kick the fuckers out without involving the manager. Especially if you were friendly with the bouncers I suggest every girl make friends with at least a couple bouncers at work, so when you have an issue like that they'll tend to help you out first and ask questions later

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    Quote Originally Posted by shakti View Post
    I live in ABQ and do think it's a great place to live. However, I've been noticing quite a disparity between people outside and inside the strip clubs. ABQ is developing rapidly but the clubs have been really, really slow for the last 5-6 months. I've never seen it like this.
    Man.....my words were so harsh on the 505. Hey, it ain't middle America, and we're a liberal college town....I still totally love this place, but whenever I get frustrated I take it out on the hicks, that's reasonable, right? It's not the most BFE place anyway, it's pretty awesome actually.


    But Shakti's point is exactly right....it's sc customers, which aren't a good representation of any population. That's what I should have said. (Tho so far, they have not been arrogant or complete time wasters....but I only have <5 months experience dancing here, so what do I know.)


    I forgot to say: Right after the "is it for free" guy, I went on stage, and the most amount of ppl I've EVER seen up there, about 15, were all drooling all up close, including a group of co-eds....I made one dollar and when I asked the guy group if they planned on tipping since they are sitting so close, they flat out bullshitted me with the "ask him, no ask him, no ask him" and laughing. Unbelievable so I walked off middle of set.










    And now it's time for a rant about after-hours food:

    I think we are really feeling the economy---the only 24 hour joint recently now is closed from 1-5am. Pita Pit is open tilll 3am, and the last time I went there they actually told me NO they couldn't put more hummus on (you pay extra for the hummus just like you do for the giant amounts of grilled beef) and they had spread it thin like it was mayo, and it didn't even cover the pita!!! And I haven't been to McDonalds in years, but I was starving at 4am. They were only serving breakfast!! Did it always start at 4, not 5?? I don't eat eggs. I'm wondering if they switched to 4am bc eggs are cheaper than beef, but I'm just speculating and being a bitch.

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    Yes I should have said it better: My manager tolerated straight up verbal abuse and non-payment of 2 girls, let Mr. Houston stay. (Not even crowded in the club, totally uncomfortable.)





    AND got on a power trip with me, for no reason at all. It was funny...it was like he was trying his hardest to do whatever he thinks a power trip entails, as he's usually not one to walk around with a personality like that. Poor loser.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alaska View Post
    Yes I should have said it better: My manager tolerated straight up verbal abuse and non-payment of 2 girls, let Mr. Houston stay. (Not even crowded in the club, totally uncomfortable.)





    AND got on a power trip with me, for no reason at all. It was funny...it was like he was trying his hardest to do whatever he thinks a power trip entails, as he's usually not one to walk around with a personality like that. Poor loser.
    sounds like saturday at my club. a girl didnt get paid for 7 dances, and they told her it was her fault.

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    Ughhh.

    Hehe I'm glad no one brought up the "make sure you get paid upfront." I'm sure you all know that's rarely how it works anymore (not that I ever lived the 'glory days', lol) and also when a customer is so ready to get agitated over anything that it might lose the sale.

    Dances in VIP (not a CR) are $25 per song, and he knew he was paying both of us that song. We actually did 2 songs b4 I stopped to collect $$---$100 IS scary to run up w/o getting paid first.

    Ideally I make them pay after every 2 songs, but def always stop at 4 LD's max, even tho they are $10 here.




    It was esp. shitty, bc the girl was a BRAND new dancer, her 2nd day ever, I couldn't help but wonder if she thought I did something wrong. (like she didn't realize you must get paid for every LD you do, even if it's on a chick.)

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    ^ oh the owner and manager all yelled at her for not getting her money upfront and told her no girl in that place would EVER do dances and not get money. i told my ex, who happens to be one of the managers, later, that i thought he was SO wrong, and not ONCE have i gotten my money upfront there.

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    NO. This is NOT a guy who isnt BUYING lapdances...this is a guy who isnt PAYING for the lapdances he BOUGHT. I checked no before reading...but in this instance, I"d have him kicked out. Many clubs here still wouldnt if hes buying drinks...but the clubs I DO work at would.

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