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    Ok...So I haven't posted in...forever...I think the last time I posted anything was before my life blew up... So august 2006 i got married...YAY....not so much... a month before our 1 year anniversary my husband shot himself(there was A LOT leading up to this)... I moved to Texas to live with my mother and am now back in Seattle...glad to be home... but it just seems that i cant get my life back on track...im working again and what not just... everything seems off... part of me thinks that maybe moving back home wasnt a good idea...I dunno... its been a long 7 months...everything is still all wrong... am I just being a whiner or what?
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    Default Needing to rant a bit...

    Ok...So I haven't posted in...forever...I think the last time I posted anything was before my life blew up... So august 2006 i got married...YAY....not so much... a month before our 1 year anniversary my husband shot himself(there was A LOT leading up to this)... I moved to Texas to live with my mother and am now back in Seattle...glad to be home... but it just seems that i cant get my life back on track...im working again and what not just... everything seems off... part of me thinks that maybe moving back home wasnt a good idea...I dunno... its been a long 7 months...everything is still all wrong... am I just being a whiner or what?
    ~Rhiannon~

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    Formerly GothicGoddess
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    Hardly a whiner. You had a hugely traumatic experience happen to you. Things are chaotic and you're not sure what is what anymore. Have you looked into therapy?

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    No youre not whining - thats a huge thing to move on from! Im sorry to hear youve had to go through this, do you have a support base?
    One day at a time is all you can do. Things will ge better.

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    My goodness honey! (That sounded so southern. Haha)

    Hardly a whiner. That's a lot to carry on one set of shoulders. I'd be doing a lot worse than you are.

    Have you got someone to talk to? It helps.
    One foot in front of the other. Deep breath!

    Of course your going to be discombobulated. Your not a light switch that flips on and off. Don't be so tough on yourself. This sounds cheesy, but its going to take time and don't be scared to get some professional help. If you think you need it.

    I wish you the very best plus I have an extra ear if you'd like to borrow it sometime.

    Rhiannon
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    Default Re: Needing to rant a bit...

    Are you just being a whiner? Uh - - - NO!!!!!!!!!!!!

    You have every ride to need support right now!

    Of course it is going to take time to get your life back together. That is so much to do deal with.

    I don't remember who it was but someone once the three hardest things for a person to deal with are (in a completley generalized sense): Divorce, Death, and Moving.

    You've been dealt 2 of them - and being as this was your husband...basically in another general sense all three of them. You need to take time for yourself, and get your thoughts together, maybe speak to a counselor if you haven't and feel comfortable - they can be really helpful.

    In the mean time here we are full of for you.

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