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    Default Need advice on how to have the break up conversation.

    I feel bad because this guy really does treat me very well, but he's just so stupid. Like beyond human stupid. I find myself getting really annoyed at most of the stuff that comes out of his mouth. It's gotten to the point where I'm not even horny any more I just don't want thi sdumbass touching me. I really do feel bad though, he really goes out of his way to do nice things for me, and he's always respectful, just really really stupid. How do i break up with him without hurting him too badly?
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    Default Re: Need advice on how to have the break up conversation.

    Keep this is mind: it's better to just be a bitch than a bitch AND an indecisive tease. As hard as it is, concentrate more on being honest than being nice. We women are taught to put others over our own needs.

    I just did the same to a guy who would fart in front of me after sex, ate in bed when he was supposed to be cuddling, and actually said, "But foreplay takes effort, and I'm really horny right now." He was sweet and naive, but I was sick of his dumb ass. He IM'd me, and when he asked if we could hang, I responded, "I'm not keen on seeing you again. Your bed manners would be welcome in a pigsty, and your lack of enthusiasm for foreplay is inexcusable. Goodbye." Yeah, I was a bit harsh, but that little kick in the ass is probably going to get more of a point across than the sweet constructive criticism that was lost on him.
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    Default Re: Need advice on how to have the break up conversation.

    Ha ha "but foreplay takes for ever" omg I'd have dumped his ass in the exact same way. However, my boyfriend has done nothing mean to me, infact he might even be the sweetest person I've ever dated, he's just got the IQ of a jar or mayonaise. That's not something he can fix as easily as not eating in bed and taking a gas x before a date.
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    Default Re: Need advice on how to have the break up conversation.

    Quote Originally Posted by Fawn View Post
    he's just got the IQ of a jar or mayonaise.
    You got me laughing out loud for that one... lol
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    Default Re: Need advice on how to have the break up conversation.

    I don't think there is really an easy way to break up with him. No matter what, his feelings are going to be hurt and there is just no way around it. Just suck it up, meet him in person and tell him that the relationship isn't working out. I wouldn't tell him that he is a dumbass, just that you don't see it really going anywhere.

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    Default Re: Need advice on how to have the break up conversation.

    ^Agree 100%. Nice guy, but not the right one for you. Just not feeling the connection. Don't think you're going anywhere. Moving in a different direction. Keep it short and simple...you don't want to confuse him.


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