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    Default Re: after 6 years of dancing, im head over heels for a regular.

    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    My ability or desire to simply dance and collect money from the guy I fell in love with went away a while ago. It was painful and a lapdance had never felt more fake.

    exactly the last time he came in, it was really awkward and we both stopped and looked at each other and was like lets not do that again that was wierd haha.

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    Default Re: after 6 years of dancing, im head over heels for a regular.

    i just wanted to update my old thread and say that we have been together for about 2 months now and he is so totally wonderful...im so glad that i gave him a chance!
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    Default Re: after 6 years of dancing, im head over heels for a regular.

    So cool ! I was going to ask " what happened " , but you just answered my question. The blues are going to say "see .... see ... see ... it DOES happen.

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    Default Re: after 6 years of dancing, im head over heels for a regular.

    Aww how cute im glad your happy and that you took a chance!

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    He's adorable!! Congratulations!
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    I'm so happy for you! The exact same thing happened to me. Almost a year now and things are still going strong. We're talking about kids and marriage even! I love him SO much and it horrifies me to even think if I had shot him down. I would have missed out on the most wonderful man ever-I couldn't even begin to imagine life without him.

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    Default Re: after 6 years of dancing, im head over heels for a regular.

    its funny becuase he said he was so nervous he almost didnt pick me up for our first date, lol so we were both terrified haha.

    things are fabulous though.

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    Congratulations!! I'm so happy for you

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    Quote Originally Posted by carmen_b View Post
    So cool ! I was going to ask " what happened " , but you just answered my question. The blues are going to say "see .... see ... see ... it DOES happen.

    Of course it does happen......... it happens on and off the internet in all sorts of places that people mix/mingle lol!

    btw.. i put "in love" as my mood today because it is the closest mood to "i'm dating someone .. and possibly be in love thus off the market soon"


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    I met the love of my life in the SC. He used to be my regular, then we fell in love. I took it very very slow with him so I could see what his intentions were. Turns out he only has the best of intentions...

    We've been going strong for almost 3 years. I see a happy marriage and kids in the future. He's gorgeous and awesome and my dream man and I'm stoked to marry him someday soon when the time is right. He's everything I've ever dreamed of and more. How ironic to have met him in a SC!!
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    Default Re: after 6 years of dancing, im head over heels for a regular.

    Dating customers has always been a #1 no-no to me. I've always felt very strongly about that rule. Hearing many of your positive stories however, maybe if I did meet someone I clicked with enough, I may consider it. Hmmm.... most likely not, but I'd at least give it a little more consideration depending on the situation, of course.
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    ^^ I agree. This is where you have to really use your discretion and best judgement.
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    Default Re: after 6 years of dancing, im head over heels for a regular.

    oh trust me it was not an easy choice for me. but i guess i have pretty good instincts. i had never dated anyone who had ever come into my work before him.

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    I have done it once. Just once in all the time I've been dancing. It didn't work out yet I don't regret that decision. Never will. It happened. I just don't make a "habit" of it happening as such.

    Looking for a date or someone to do via work is not recommended - just like if you worked in an office... dating co-workers is looked down upon (esp. if you work the same department as such!).

    In the end, we are all individuals. Be open.


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    Quote Originally Posted by i.breathe.in View Post
    oh trust me it was not an easy choice for me. but i guess i have pretty good instincts. i had never dated anyone who had ever come into my work before him.
    Awww!! That's cool it's working out. See? They are not all PLs/out to just fuck a stripper. Just goes to show...

    My guy is the only one I dated too. Everyone else *barf*.

    You guys make a cute couple!
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    Trust your intuition. If all of it says yes then do it. I have a couple really good friends that yes I met in the club. Of course we dont have a relationship other than friends, but if it wasnt for my job I wouldnt have met them. I would try it. You only live once, why pass up what could be a good thing.

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    Sigh. I'm fighting some strong feelings I have for my reg right now. Problem is, I'm not single.

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