This is by far one of the worst breakups I've had. And I've been stalked, thrown down stairs, threatening phone calls- somehow, this takes the cake.
My ex's crazy baby momma came by to drop off his son the other day. She started yelling and saying horrible things about me right in front of me. I finally lost it and yelled back. We kept yelling and then she decided to hide behind her kid and said *I* was
scaring him, and how DARE I raise my voice in front of her child (this, the woman who's gotten high on meth while watching her child, left him alone in the house multiple times when he was as young as five, gone to a spa and left him waiting to be picked up from school for three hours...
Worst of all, *steve* turned on me and told me it was my fault. Even though I had kept trying to walk away, and she followed me nearly half way home still yelling. I don't know how to describe how horrible it was. He defended her, not me. It was one of the most degrading experiences ever. I can't get over it, I'm still shaking and crying two days later.
Then he leaves to get drunk with his friends, then comes home and tells me he forgives me but it's still my fault above everyone elses. I feel so crappy. I've been putting up with this woman for two years, staying silent in the face of her abuse, and I finally lost it and said something back and she's pardoned and it's all my fault.
Then we get a call this morning. She's filing for a RESTRAINING order because I yelled in front of her child. I'm already moving out but now I have to fight this because otherwise it will stay it will show for a YEAR if anyone does a background check on me for a job, etc.
Then today he tells me he wants us all (me, him, his son) to run off together after this mess is over and get away from her. I feel so much better and think everything is going to me ok. But then I want him to get rid of her paintings that are around everywhere. I want him to just throw them out but he wants to give them "to a good home" because that's "not fair to her." I say that's a lot of consideration to offer her considering the things she said to me last night and he says if she hurt his son that way he'd "rip them up himself"...but not for me.
We talked about it and he basically admitted i'm a second tier family member. He said maybe if I ran off with him and helped him raise his son and did a really good job MAYBE eventually he'd love me as much.



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