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    I've been dancing for about a year and half now and my boyfriend has never had a problem with it. He's a co-op engineer, so over the summer he can't work his normal job, and he'll be in school full time. Now he wants to start dancing!! We're going to check out some clubs this weekend. I'm a little worried, I mean he's very conservitive. Kind of a goody-goody, never smoked a cigarette, very shy, doesn't drink, and I'm afraid he'll get overwhelmed. Does anyone know anything about male strippers? How different is it from what we do?

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    I don't know anything about male strippers, although other than the fact that I'm a chick he sounds like me, being shy and all.
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    I have been friends and dated for a brief period of time a male stripper. I also have a male cousin who was a stripper, (yes, strange family.)

    You think we have it bad with guys trying to grope us? Try being a male stripper. Males have women trying to grab them all the time. Especially when women get drunk, often they feel like they can do whatever they want just because they are women. Also, most of the male strippers that I knew did private dancing much more than female strippers.

    I would say it probably isn't the best venue for your boyfriend sounding like he is. I am an engineering student as well and most co-ops make good money (generally 70% of what a recent hire makes without the benefits). Can't he live off of what he has saved and then get loans and grants for the rest of the year? Or he could probably get a bartender (operator) license before summer starts? (Though I know co-ops tend to be slave driven so I don't know what his schedule is like).

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    I think he's excited about dancing. He's going to freak out when he gets grabbed though.

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    Let him try it. If it freaks him out too much, he'll quit. But do forewarn him about the kinds of things he'll be dealing with.

    He'll have to deal with men hitting on him too. Can he handle that?

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    Tell him to try it. The worst thing that could happen is he makes a little money, has an interesting life experience, and quits if he doesn't like it.

    Because he does sound like he's on the straight and narrow from what you described... he'd probably be ideal to get into the business--not easily influenced by negative people and drugs, etc. Having your head screwed on straight upon entering the business helps wonders. He already has his priorities... job.. education... not to mention the fact that he must have a place in his heart for the business seeing as he is accepting of you doing your job as a stripper.
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    My boyfriend wants to strip this summer to pay for college also! I told him to go right on ahead, most male dancers make more than females but have to deal with way worse shit. (Groping etc....)

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    After a whole weekend of having his package grabbed by aggressive female custies, he'll gladly return to his day job.

    I dated an ex-male stripper once. It was fun and he was incredibly hot. It might not be relevant to your question but male dancers are just as aware of their own attractiveness as much as female dancers are.

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    He is a lovely creature. My "Dilbert Gone Wild"

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    He definitely a hottie. Looks a lot like Matt Damon.

    Can he dance or at least follow some choreographed moves? The Chippendales are always hiring http://www.chippendales.com/company/recruitment.php

    I met some Chippies at my club on Saturday. They only wanted a massage, no lap dances.

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    he definately the bod for it! do you have alot of male strip clubs by you? we dont have any in san diego, guys have to just do private parties (you would think we would have one tho, we have a huge gay population)

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    The nearest club is a transvestite and gay place called GiGi's. He's not even bi, but he's a good actor. We were husband and wife in our high school play, lol. I'm getting worried that he may hate it and feel like he has to keep taking it.

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    Here in Australia the only strip clubs with men within them are not like Level 2 at Olympic Gardens in Las Vegas. They have male strippers who do shows. Pretty much it is more about being entertaining and entertainment than actual real sexy-ness with male strippers. Plus the money is NOT within male strippers for a female audience.. the money for male strippers (as far as I'm aware) is show work (so you have to be good at being able to do chereography) and/or gay nightclubs etc.

    Thus being able to be open to dancing for men not JUST women if he really want to make a go of it .. is a must.

    In the end, if he does it.. and doesn't like it.. where is the harm really?


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    how come theres no gay male strip clubs anywhere? seems like someboby could bank with one considering all the gay guys our cities have. the only male strip club here is Le Bare and i think its women custys only.

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