Why do people do this? Where they ask you to hang out, set up a vague time, and then don't call back on specifics? Or when they promise to call later, or in a few minutes, etc.
Its the ONE thing that truly turns me OFF of someone, in any capacity. I'm TIRED of friends and possible dates doing this... like WTF my time is VALUABLE, and how can i consider you a "friend" when I"M the one doing the chasing for plans, and you can't even give me a simple call?
Yet somehow... if i DIDNT get all irritated and chase, there would be literally no one who would talk to me.
I guess i dont rank high enough on the worlds priorities for a simple call.
But it seems to me to be a respect thing. Respect me, and my time, and SHOW it, by making an effort for a change!
URCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Was supposed to go on a date. He calls, says "I just got off work, where do you want to meet?" I said "I dont know, what are we doing?" he said "Umm, Let me call the theatre and get some showtimes for stuff, or see if there's any concerts. Call you back in a minute"
Hours later? Still here, no call, no texts. Fucking RUDE!
Its like... i dont bite, i dont care if you want to cancel, or move it to another time, or cant talk now, or WHATTHEFUCKEVER.... So long as you TELL me, and then STICK to it.
Sooooo RUDE!
Even most of my FRIENDS do this... Is this something wrong with ME? Is this NOT considered basic courtesy?




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