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    A few months ago i moved to a new city to work in this club and the club is great and im making good money and im in a good head space as far as work and my hustle are concerned but recently i have began to feel a bit homesick and lonely. I would like to have some nights out but most of the girls at work who i get on with have boyfriends and are busy with them. Im trying to work up the nerve to go to a club by myself but i ve never done this before, has anyone else ever been this brave? I just wanted to get that out, i guess im just feeling a bit sorry for myself, thanks for listening xx

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    Well don't feel bad, when I moved here and went to work in the first club, no one was very friendly, it took forever to make friends there. When I was younger I used to go out all the time but these days I'm not as crazy about doing that, and I don't like drinking alone, and also all there is to do here at night is drink, lol. During the day there's lots of galleries and all kinds of cool things going on but being a night person I missed out on all that.

    Good luck! The one thing I could advise is that some clubs waitstaff will look out for you to some extent. If you go out by yourself obviously the meat market/pickup bars are going to be the worst places to go. The best places will be clubs that maybe serve food and also you can hang out in afterwards.

    If you have any galleries in town where you live they will often have openings for new shows where they serve wine, etc., and a lot of people will come to those. Another thing you could try would be community theatre--acting in plays for fun, or helping with sets, etc.
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