I've been at my current club for nearly two years. It's the biggest club in town, and I like a lot of things about it. The other girls are very cool, and management is pretty easy to deal with. I make my own schedule and come and go as I please. I have some good regulars, though not any whales right now.
I really haven't been feeling dancing for many months now. I worked hard in the fall and burned out, then took the winter off. I went back this spring with many good resolatuion, but am already sick of it. I think my biggest problem is boredom.
I also have a kinda weird situation with a customer who's a little obsessive. He's just this guy who buys one or two dances once in a while. He says really flowery things to me, but I've always assumed that was just his way of talking to dancers. I don't particularly encourage him...in fact, I'm kinda blunt about getting up and leaving him when he's done buying dances, or when his comments get over the top. A few weeks ago he came in and spent all evening in the club. I did two dances for him, and he kept waving me over through the night to make random comments to me. A couple of girls who sat with him said he was talking about me all night, how sexy I am and "how much I love his touch." (Wtf?)I feel minorly weird about this. Like, it's almost like he's spreading rumors about me. Girls who know me at the club know I'm a straight-shooter and don't do any extras...but still...icky.
All together, I've been thinking about working a few different clubs around town to see if I like them. In the end, I might come back to this club, because I do love it there. But I wonder if being out of my comfort zone will get my ass in gear again. Then again, I don't wanna leave my comfort zone because...it's comfortable.
Anybody tried switching clubs for a couple of weeks? Good experiences? Bad experiences?



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