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    I've been at my current club for nearly two years. It's the biggest club in town, and I like a lot of things about it. The other girls are very cool, and management is pretty easy to deal with. I make my own schedule and come and go as I please. I have some good regulars, though not any whales right now.

    I really haven't been feeling dancing for many months now. I worked hard in the fall and burned out, then took the winter off. I went back this spring with many good resolatuion, but am already sick of it. I think my biggest problem is boredom.

    I also have a kinda weird situation with a customer who's a little obsessive. He's just this guy who buys one or two dances once in a while. He says really flowery things to me, but I've always assumed that was just his way of talking to dancers. I don't particularly encourage him...in fact, I'm kinda blunt about getting up and leaving him when he's done buying dances, or when his comments get over the top. A few weeks ago he came in and spent all evening in the club. I did two dances for him, and he kept waving me over through the night to make random comments to me. A couple of girls who sat with him said he was talking about me all night, how sexy I am and "how much I love his touch." (Wtf?)I feel minorly weird about this. Like, it's almost like he's spreading rumors about me. Girls who know me at the club know I'm a straight-shooter and don't do any extras...but still...icky.

    All together, I've been thinking about working a few different clubs around town to see if I like them. In the end, I might come back to this club, because I do love it there. But I wonder if being out of my comfort zone will get my ass in gear again. Then again, I don't wanna leave my comfort zone because...it's comfortable.

    Anybody tried switching clubs for a couple of weeks? Good experiences? Bad experiences?

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    Default Re: when do you change clubs?

    I'm skeered to, but I know your club and I know a couple other clubs in your city, and I bet you'd have fun trying them out. Don't you know some of the SWers at the other clubs? That would help me feel like I had a security blankie if I went club hopping.

    All that being said, ewww your reg sounds weird, sad and lonely. Don't let it get you down!


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    Default Re: when do you change clubs?

    i had a bad experience going from a club where i made alotta money to a club where i didn't make alot (earnings were about cut in half). even tho those earnings were GOOD, i didn't think they were good b/c i was spoiled from the other place. i then went to another club where the earnings were slightly better, but got tired of dancing, so waitressed and bartended. i then go tired of doing that and wanted more money so i went to my current club. now that i think about it, if i had went to the club where i made the most money, and then directly went to my current club, i prolly wouldn't be there anymore. i did horribly my 1st week...i'm talking like $150 - $250 in a club where there's obvious potential to make much more. but i didn't care...that was good compared to what i had previously been making.

    so...just keep in mind that a club may take getting used to. and you're most likely going to be comparing it to your previous club, even tho u might not be aware of doing so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post
    i did horribly my 1st week...i'm talking like $150 - $250 in a club where there's obvious potential to make much more. but i didn't care...that was good compared to what i had previously been making.
    Yeah, it usually takes me a few weeks to get a club figured out. "New girl money" hasn't usually materialized for me. At the club I'm at now, I made crappy money ($150 - $250) for the first week or so, then started banking. This is another reason I hesitate to go club-hopping...you never know, though. I have the feeling I'm a medium-sized fish in a big pond at my current club. Maybe it's be worth trying a smaller club for a while.

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    yeah def. you never know if you don't try! maybe try to work both clubs at the same time, if you can? maybe try to get info about other clubs from custies, while keeping in mind that their opinions are just that...opinions.

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    Burnout is usually a good time to change clubs even if it's just a temporary change. The new enviroment, new faces etc. can sometime inspire you to do more or do better. If nothing else it requires you to stay on your toes a bit more than in the old comfy enviroment.

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    Default Re: when do you change clubs?

    I'm sorry you're dealing with all that stuff, Grace.

    I started a similar thread a little while back, maybe you can find some wisdom in it.

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...d.php?t=103342
    Quote Originally Posted by Jay12 View Post
    ^What Sophia said.
    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I wish there was an "auto-like" setting that I could just have applied to all of your posts Sophia....

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