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    As a minor, I am banished to the dressing room a good part of my shift, unless it's super busy and I'm giving dances all night. Tonight it was not super busy, thus I was in the dressing room when I wasn't on stage or giving my 5 measly lap dances.

    I know that we all get naked for a living, but is it too much to ask to be a little classy when it comes to personal hygiene, bodily functions, and conversations?? I overhear dancers talking shit about other dancers bodies, other dancers dancing, other dancers outfits, I hear them burp loudly, walk around wiping their vag's while talking about how their bf fucked them so hard in the ass last night they had to masturbate excessively so it wouldnt hurt and now their "cunt" is all scratched from their nails ( i have no idea how that would work by the way)... Loud drunk off their ass falling over girls being obnoxious and annoying, violating my personal space. It's just annoying.

    I don't understand why girls feel like all rules of etiquette are automatically null and void once they step into the dressing room.

    I want my own private dressing room. *primadonna* i know.......

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    class and classy aren't the same thing. it is a common misconception.

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    Have a good book and go to your happy place.

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    Wait... why are you banished to the dressing room??
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    you'd hate working with me. i have no shame in the DR.

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    uhh.... while personal hygiene/being plastered are health concerns and in a completely different category, how is talking about being sexually satisfied not "classy?" I personally think one of the greatest things about being a stripper (and having worked long enough in a place to where you are comfortable talking about that stuff with your co-workers) is that we are ABLE to talk about these taboo subjects honestly and openly! If anything, it's very empowering! For you to say "it's not classy" to talk about certain subjects is the same argument people have been making for years to keep women quiet about certain subjects, citing how "un-ladylike" it was.

    If being "classy" is your schtick/misnomer, then fine, but don't rain on other peoples' parades.

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    Write it all down and post it up in "Overheard in the Dressing Room." You should have some good ones by now.
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    This is one of the reasons I love my job! I love being in the dressing room and being able to talk crudely about my sex life with the other girls! And btw - this doesn't just happen in strip clubs, I used to work in a doctor's office with all female staff and we were the same way.

    Although I am against people talking cruel things about their coworkers.

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    Amen. There are times we need to be ladies, just like there are times men need to be gentlemen. But they have the locker room where they can drop social decorum amongst each other, and we have the dressing room where we can drop it amongst ourselves. Besides, what's the alternative to wiping one's vag? Sometimes you need to freshen up and that's what the dressing room is for.

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    I don't see any problem with this. I agree that it is the equivalent of a locker room. Its not reasonable to want every woman to walk to the ladies room every time they need to use a baby wipe.

    I don't agree that doing the required acts to perform your job in front of other people who have to do the same things in a closed setting in lack of class. Between the fact that we are generally open people and there are time constraints and friendships, I think most of this is OK. Your body is part of your job.

    I will even be so bold as to say the DR is where you are supposed to get to speak your mind, occassionally even about other dancers. We shouldn't talk shit about others, but it is an intense and competitive environment where tempers flare and sometimes people just don't like each other. People have to let off steam and I think the dressing room IS the place to do it. Nothing less classy than women trashing each other on the floor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ColetteCalahan View Post
    I personally think one of the greatest things about being a stripper (and having worked long enough in a place to where you are comfortable talking about that stuff with your co-workers) is that we are ABLE to talk about these taboo subjects honestly and openly! If anything, it's very empowering! For you to say "it's not classy" to talk about certain subjects is the same argument people have been making for years to keep women quiet about certain subjects, citing how "un-ladylike" it was.
    Ditto.



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    I agree some of the things heard back there aren't exactly pleasant
    It's part of the biz, though. I doubt you'll ever get your own dressing room anywhere (unless you become a feature dancer or something) SO, my suggestion to you, since these things bother you so much, is to learn to put your "blinders" on .....visual and audible. It's a skill that you get better at over time. Start practicing it asap.

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    well I guess I'm bringing headphones next time, I've already tried books.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gypsy74 View Post
    well I guess I'm bringing headphones next time, I've already tried books.
    No no....you are missing my point. Blinders aren't actual things like headphones and books. It's a mental state you put yourself in. Almost like meditation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    No no....you are missing my point. Blinders aren't actual things like headphones and books. It's a mental state you put yourself in. Almost like meditation.
    oh wow. like meditation?? thank you for that important lesson.

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    ^^I agree that mental blinders are awesome, Gypsy. It IS about putting yourself mentally in a good state. I think meditation is a good analogy.

    What else can you do, try to change the behavior of others? I agree with many other posts about the unique freedom of the dancer dressing room.

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    I know I can't change their behavior, I can only change mine. I do put on mental blinders and I am very good at putting myself in a meditative like state, it takes a long time for someone to snap me out of my concentration when I'm reading a book or thinking hard (sometimes a couple minutes before i realize they're trying to get my attention).

    But that's not the point.

    This was a rant about loud obnoxious inconsiderate drunk dancers. That is all.

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    ^ so what if theyre loud and annoying and talking about their sex lives and theyre SOBER? is that ok?

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    [quote=Gypsy74;1424127]As a minorquote]



    Like minor as in under 18!? If so, wtf are you doing working at a stripclub, that can't be legal. And how come nobody else caught this? I'd say as a minor go home till you're 18. ??? NO?

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    lol. google "OLCC stripclub" or something like that because i'm sick of explaining it.

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    As a minorquote]



    Like minor as in under 18!? If so, wtf are you doing working at a stripclub, that can't be legal. And how come nobody else caught this? I'd say as a minor go home till you're 18. ??? NO?

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    minor in this case means under 21...

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    I still think that stripping shouldn't be legal until 18.

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    Are you sure Joplin? Cos I just googled it and they're talking bout 16 in the page I just read.... I mean yeah, I graduated hs early too, but I still didn't strip till 18.

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    um, yes, she's over 18. where she lives unless youre 21 you cant hustle the floor because of alcohol.

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    she is over 18, but under 21. a better phrase is needed, but we don't have one.

    OBVIOUSLY you can't strip at under 18!!!! duh. Seriously.

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