So this is the deal...
We were dating for 1 year before we decided to get engaged. A month after I found out I was pregnant. He never had a problem with me dancing before this. Now he says, "Your my wife and the mother of my child and I don't want you to do it." Well I haven't been working for 7 months now (and I have 2 to go) and I'll be honest our finances are lookin' shitty.
He has around $22k in debt (including his truck) that we can't afford to pay on. We don't have health insurance (I have Medicaid for now) and my parents pay for my car insurance, but he doesn't have any on his truck.
We want to move to Colorado (which would be $6k) and STILL he says he doesn't want me working for AT LEAST another year or so (saving on a dinky $7 an hour paycheck would take forever!)
I'm so frustrated with him... and it's making me question if his pride is worth making my son suffer in a one bedroom apartment with minimal for living... What do you ladies think?







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