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    It can be more than one. How long did it/they last? What did you like and dislike about it. How long did the others last? Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex? Or if it wasn't great but not bad? What would make you leave a person? If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not? For those of you who married, what made you choose this person above all others? What is your dream date? What is your dream wedding or how was it? do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    do you want a white picket fence?

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    It can be more than one. How long did it/they last?

    6 years

    What did you like and dislike about it.
    He made me laugh, made me smile, could make me feel like the most loved person in the world. I always had fun around him.

    He also had the ability to make me feel worthless, like a piece of shit. I cried a lot. He was verbally very abusive.

    How long did the others last? 3 and 1/2 years, 3 years (current relationship)

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    Yes, sex isn't very important to me

    What would make you leave a person?
    I don't know.
    I have stayed in an abusive relationship for years and I always thought ok this time i'll leave but never did. I also stayedi n another relationship where I was bored and unhappy for about a year too long so this question is a tough one for me.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    It depends. If I wanted marriage and they didn't then I guess I would question why they didn't want to commit to me. But it's never happened so Im not sure.

    What is your dream date?
    I'm not really sure. I'd like the be surprised with something fantastic! I imagine something really cool would be if a guy told me he was taking me to his favourite restaurant and that turned out to be in another country LOL.

    What is your dream wedding?
    A gathering of my closest friends and family. A beautiful dress and just to feel like I was 100% doing the right thing and feel so in love with the man I was marrying.

    do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    I would never propose to a man, no way I want the old fashioned style man proposes.

    do you want a white picket fence?
    Nope, just want to be happy and content.
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    Oh thats a good way to do it Jaizaine!

    How long did it/they last?
    4 years though I think it lingered a bit for 7 years, then we didnt see each other really for a couple of years but occasionally we have brief flings and are best friends now. We just know that its all wonderful so long as we dont spend too much time under the same roof.

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    It was so much fun, we had really crazy times always partying and going out to gigs and bbqs etc. We had the same taste in almost everything and lead the perfect punk rock lifestyle. We were like side kicks too bouncing jokes and humour around. We both really liked each other for 10 whole years before we got the guts to actually talk to one another. On the downside we fought like cat and dog. The first year was wonderful and then each year after that got worse and worse.

    How long did the others last?

    18 months or less.

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?

    Yes but open relationships are good

    What would make you leave a person?

    My inability to settle down usually...

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    Yes. Marriage isnt really important to me.

    What is your dream date?

    Nikki Sixx

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    Nude BYO - seriously!

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?

    I dont think it would ever cross my mind to propose to anyone, lol.

    do you want a white picket fence?

    God no!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by pookie View Post
    It can be more than one. How long did it/they last? What did you like and dislike about it. How long did the others last? Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex? Or if it wasn't great but not bad? What would make you leave a person? If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not? For those of you who married, what made you choose this person above all others? What is your dream date? What is your dream wedding or how was it? do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    do you want a white picket fence?

    just curious
    Been with the Hubby for almost 6 years. Prior longest relationship was 3 years (yeah that's me from 16-25, I'm a commitophiliac).

    Combining a couple of questions here...our relationship is open, which is something I need, something that makes me secure in our marriage and helped me feel comfortable agreeing to marry him, and why "not getting enough sex" will probably never be a problem.

    I need change so when I feel a relationship stagnating, I get the feeling it's time to move on. I HAVE stayed in relationships that weren't great but were ok, but I would hope that I'm more grown up now and wouldn't do it again.

    What made me choose him: similar ethical life, his dependability and ambition to live up to his dreams, how multifaceted he is so I don't get bored, his excellent communication, the fact that he's fine with our relationship being open, and that he is my #1 fan and is always 100% supportive, honest and respectful with me. He gives me his best and expects the same of me. Whew!

    We did have our dream wedding. We had just under 100 guests. What made it our "dream wedding" was that we personalized every part of the ceremony. The music was hand-selected; his fraternity brothers sang Biebl's Ave Maria as I came down the aisle. The officiant was my godparent and we co-wrote the ceremony together to avoid any exclusions based on religion, sexual orientation or patriarchal language defaults. The Hubby and I wrote our own vows. Our fathers read passages that they found personally significant and NO it was not from Corinthians or John. My dad read an Apache blessing; his dad read from the 7 Habits of Highly Effective Families. (I lol.) Every moment was focused on the personal, the immediate, the truest elements of who we are. It was totally full of love and everyone in the room felt it because they were a part of it. *sighs happily*

    White picket fence? Hardly. I'd rather have a St Andrew's cross, thanks!


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    How long did it/they last?
    Been with hubby over 10 years..married almost 8

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    I married him because we "got" each other. Even though we are so differant on the outside that people predicted we'd be divorced in a year..we are still going strong. We dont limit each other..we support each other and we have similar goals in life. I know I can truly be myself in every way and he loves me anyway..and vice versa. I can be 100% honest with him about everything I do and feel and loves me for it.I dont ever feel like I have to censor myself or hide anything from him and that in itself is so amazingly freeing!

    How long did the others last?
    my longest before him was my ex...together 5 years, angaged for 3

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    I stayed with my ex much longer then I should have even though we had sex about once every 3 months. Eventually I figured out that I didnt love him as much as I thought I did which is why I had no sex drive with him. It was all about comfort and not wanting to change things that I stayed. Plus my family liked him and I was pleasing THEM....finally I realized that I had to be with someone who made ME happy.

    What would make you leave a person?
    abuse

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    Yes.I love being married, but I would be with my hubby even without the paperwork

    What is your dream date?
    I'm pretty simple..a day of going to the park on a picnic or to the zoo,then massages, then a great dinner on the beach somewhere with champagne....then home for mind blowing sex and cuddling in bed watching tv or a movie is HEAVEN!

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    I'd like to renew my vows on a beach somewhere...flowers everywhere, all our friends attending..and a kick ass party on hte beach with a bonfire afterwards

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    I loved how my husband proposed. It was on valentines Day(cheesy I know..but it was SO romantic). We had dinner at my place, then he said we had to go somewhere. We got in the car and he blindfolded me. Drove to the beach, we walked out onto the boardwalk..it was cold so we were all alone..he took the ring out. I had mentioned months earlier that I'd alwas wanted an Irish Cladddagh ring, but didnt feel right getting one since it is an Irish engagement/wedding ring. He got me a gorgeous one with diamonds..he said " According to tradition, when this is pointed away from you,you are looking for love..when its pointed towards you, you are taken. I want you to be taken" I admit..I teared up. He isnt Irish so he actually researched it before giving it to me..not to mention remembering an offhanded comment I had made months before.

    do you want a white picket fence?
    God no!!!

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    My marriage has been the longest.

    How long did it/they last? Still going. Married 2 years, 1 month, 6 days together2 years, 3 months. Yeah, we rushed but never regretted it!

    What did you like and dislike about it? I always have somebody there for me. Sometimes he drives me nuts! He has the power to make me feel the best....and the
    worst.
    How long did the others last? Longest before that was 8 months, and that was an on and off relationship. Before that I think 6 months, and then a lot of 3 month-ers. I used to get bored with guys and lose interest really fast.

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex? Since my sex drive is extremely low, that would be a hard situation to get into. But I wouldn't totally forgo the relationship before trying to resolve the problem.

    Or if it wasn't great but not bad? Depends. My marriage has been like that. It goes through cycles. What I really ask myself is if this is the person I want to work on things with. So far, yes every time

    What would make you leave a person? Cheating, abuse, constant fighting, no happy times.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not? Not sure. I have never had that problem. But I suppose if I did I'd evaluate whether or not the relationship was important enough to me to forgo marriage.

    For those of you who married, what made you choose this person above all others? He was more mature than most, very intelligent, easy to talk to, and we shared a lot of interests. And I've never felt so loved by a man in my life.

    What is your dream date? No idea.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it? I gave up on a nice 2nd wedding. The money just isn't there and I've decided it's not about the wedding, but the person I married. I got married in Vegas in one of those little chapels.

    do you want to be proposed to or propose to? Doesn't matter. I got proposed to very informally, and now thinking of it makes me laugh.

    do you want a white picket fence? I'd like financial stability really.

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    How long did it/they last?
    2 years

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    Liked everything

    How long did the others last?
    I've only had one relationship

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    Yes. Sex is not a big deal for me.

    What would make you leave a person?
    Pressuring for kids when the wrong time

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    Sure.


    What is your dream date?
    Discussing politics while eating cheesecake, our motorcycles' brakes cooling in the parking lot of the diner. Mmm cheesecake

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    Small, intimate, food, merriment, and at-night cart racing followed by dancing.

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    I'll do the proposing.

    Do you want a white picket fence?
    Metaphorically, yes. Literally, no(tacky imo). My dream house has a very big garage where we can work on our cars and motorcycles together. That's the white picket fence of my dreams.
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    My longest relationship was two years. We were engaged. Looking back, I was insane, because it was a miserable relationship. We had fights constantly, I hated myself, we never had sex (well, not never, but once or twice a month was exciting), he always turned me down. Eventually, he cheated on me...and poste dpictures of facebook. I never looked back after that, other to go "what the hell was I thinking?"

    My other relationships were fairly insignificant, nothing serious, lasting only a few weeks or a few months. Nothing substantial.

    Until my current one. We celebrate our one year anniversary next week, so yay.


    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    I tried it before, and I dont thnk I could do it again. I feel that fi a sex life tapers off, there has to be somethign else wrong. Luckily, my current boyfriend has a drive that matches my own

    What would make you leave a person?
    For me to leave the current one, he would have to snap and cheat on me, hit me, etc (before anyone asks, NO, he is not the type to do either, he is very sweet and considerate, I'm just saying, those 2 things are my absolute deal breakers, no questions asked)...but I suppose, if we continue on, and maybe we grow apart, or we change (as people do), it happens. We'll see.

    Also, what their plans are for a family. For instance, if my current bouyfriend wanted children, and wanted a wife to stay at home, I would have to leave. I never want children, and I want to work, that's a major issue to me. Luckily, my boyfriend also can't stand children, so we're safe.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    I think it depends on WHY they dont marry me. If it's becaus ethey find marriage archaic and think that having a government deem you "partners" is silly, fine. If it's becaus ethey are unsure they can be committed to me, than thats the real issue.

    What is your dream date?
    I'm very low key, so snuggling on the couch watching old movies, binge eating on junk food, and curling up in bed.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    Something very small and simple (I'm talking a maximum fo 10 people present), followed by one hell of a reception.

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    Egh. I tend to be pretty "forward", for instance, I'm th eone that asked out my boyfriend...but I think on this one issue, I want him to do the work.

    do you want a white picket fence?
    No...but I do want the American Dream dog

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    sh0t just surprised the hell out of me....

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    How long did it/they last?
    2.5 years

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    hmm. i liked the companionship. i still have a lot of respect for him and would never say a bad word about him, but by the end of it we'd just grown into two totally different people and had nothing in common any more, and i was not happy

    How long did the others last?
    only a few months

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    no

    What would make you leave a person?
    lots of things. i'm quite flaky

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    i don't believe in marriage, so yes

    What is your dream date?
    beer. pizza. sex.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    hate the idea of a wedding. never getting married

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    neither

    Do you want a white picket fence?
    fuck no

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    Q: How long did it/they last?

    26 years (yes, twenty six)

    Q: What did you like and dislike about it?

    Liked the stability, dislike the lack of common interests.

    Q: How long did the others last?

    I didn't have time for others - busy with school and work

    Q: Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?

    Depends on too many factors to explain here.

    Q: What would make you leave a person?

    Cheating, but mostly because of how it affects the quality of the relationship when two people have something to hide.

    Q: If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?

    Sure.

    Q: What is your dream date?

    I've had this one, but again, too long to explain here.

    Q: What is your dream wedding or how was it?

    I can't say I think much about weddings... it's the days before and after the are on my mind.

    Q: Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?

    I prefer to do the proposing.

    Q: Do you want a white picket fence?

    Yes, but not exactly. I want a place I'm comfy in, with room for my stuff, and a garage for the car.

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    How long did it/they last?

    4 years with my ex-husband.

    What did you like and dislike about it?

    Meeting and marrying in one of the most romantic places in the world... Italy. All the traveling we did and the kinky, nonstop SEXXINZ'.

    I didn't like that we were both too immature and inexperienced to handle the relationship, and eventually we grew apart. I was devastated.


    How long did the others last?

    The last one lasted for a year.

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?

    No, I like sex too much. I think it's very important in a relationship. I'm very passionate and nasty.

    What would make you leave a person?

    If they are emotionally unavailable or unfaithful, I will leave.


    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?

    It depends... Sometimes I really want to get married again, sometimes I am horrified of the idea.


    What is your dream date?

    Riding motorcycles together with a group and then stopping for a delicious outdoor lunch before riding home to go see a movie.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?

    DREAM WEDDING- Out on a beautiful white sand beach (in Hawaii, of course) with all of our closest friends and family members. A big barbeque feast served afterwards with lots of dancing and alcohol.

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?

    I'm old fashioned... I want to be proposed to.

    Do you want a white picket fence?

    Sure, why not.



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    How long did it/they last?
    10 years (1-year of dating and 9-years of marriage)

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    i absolutely loved her. she was gorgeous. we had fun.

    BUT, she wasn't what she presented herself to be and i found that out after we were married (she's somewhat mean/nasty temper/stubborn - shockingly, she was even more stubborn than me! ).

    How long did the others last?
    usually a year or so.

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex? yes, it's called marriage.

    but seriously, i think healthy/fun sex is critical to a successful relationship. my 2nd ex-wife and i had bad sex after marriage but good sex before. my 1st ex-wife and previous relationships had great sex...but then again i was a lot younger then. that could've been part of it.

    What would make you leave a person?
    cheating, lying, and lack of romantic love. the first two goes with the 1st ex-wife. the third belongs to the 2nd ex-wife.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    of course, marriage is more than just the paper it's printed on. love should be the most important aspect.


    What is your dream date?
    hmmm, are we talking "romantic lovey-dovey" date or "gonna-bang-you-deliriously" date? i prefer the second choice at this point in my life.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    unfortunately, i've already had the dream wedding with the 2nd ex-wife. the wedding was great. the marriage was good for 5-years. the rest of the time was crap.

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    N/A

    Do you want a white picket fence?
    no, the beach house on maui is more preferable.

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    Alright i'll play too.

    How long did it/they last?
    With my last exbf, 2.9 years to be exact. He was the only long term relationship i've had. The rest didn't even make it to 6 months.

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    He charmed the hell out of me when we first met. He was not only good looking he was charming, smart & successful. The way he took care of me, I felt protected with him. The sex, we had a strong sexual chemistry. We also had a lot of things in common. I also discovered a lot of good things about myself being in that relationship.

    What I disliked about him, the lying!! He lied to me twice. I gave him a 2nd chance...And they weren't any small lies either. That made me lose trust. I also believe deep down inside he was still in love with his exgf(his 1st gf) while with me... and well, that shit also made me feel like I came 2nd place. I also didn't like it when he'd insult me when we'd fight, and sometimes he was a chauvinistic pig who liked to have his cake and eat it too. lol.

    How long did the others last?

    Under 6 months, not even close.

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    Yes. But with my nympho ass, i'll be raping him when I need it!

    What would make you leave a person?

    If I didn't trust him.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    Yes, I would. That's like marriage already. lol.

    What is your dream date?

    I don't have one, but if i'm feeling this guy he can do no wrong with anything. Yes, i'm a hopeless romantic mush like that. lol.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    A simple one on a beautiful beach in Puerto Rico(where my family is from).

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?

    Man, i've thought of me doing it. haha. But really, I rather the guy propose to me. Marriage scares men, and that MF'er better want it more than me if he's gonna ask me. haha.

    do you want a white picket fence?
    I don't care, as long as there's a pole & spinning bed in my bedroom.







    Alright, now i'm depressed.
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    How long did it/they last?
    18 years, with my wife (2 years dating/shacked, married 16 years and still counting).

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    I cherish ("like") the bond of companionate love, the trust and the freedom that's been created after years of our relationship evolving. I regret ("dislike") the occasions on which egos come first and create unnecessary conflict.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    I have exes that I loved and with whom I lived long-term--but would never have married. IMO, some couples simply aren't "built" for marriage.

    How long did the others last?
    Varying lengths of time, from weeks to 3 years (you're asking an old Pisces ).

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    Or if it wasn't great but not bad?
    That changed for me when, after several relationships, I recognized that sex was (for me) an addiction.

    For those of you who married, what made you choose this person above all others?
    The combination of her honesty, intelligence and charm. Oh, yeah, and she was hawt!

    do you want a white picket fence?
    We have an ornate, white gate, instead...

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    We were married on Palos Verdes Peninsula, above the ocean, on a dramatically cloudy day just before twilight (see below). I didn't realize that I was nervous until I jumped the gun and started speaking her vows..
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    Budai..what a gorgeous picture!! And BTW..you are BOTH hot!

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    How long did it/they last?
    I have been with Justin for somewhere between 6 and 7 years. (I never remember when we got together. oops!)

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    I dislike the lack of sex and lack of presents....everything else is perfect.

    How long did the others last?

    one month, three months, and a year off and on.

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    I am. Sex is good but Justin is better.

    What would make you leave a person?

    If he cheated on me, I would probably kick him out.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    Well, neither of us believe in marriage, so that is the preferred way for us.

    What is your dream date?

    I love the park...maybe the museum followed by a picnic!

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    NO wedding, but if we went crazy and changed our minds it would be a rave wedding.

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?

    No.

    do you want a white picket fence?

    yuck.

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    How long did it/they last?
    This one - 17 months and were married

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    Im diskiling most of it. I think its because of the year thing, its something in my head. Im trying to work it out.

    How long did the others last?
    i tend to get bored at the 1 year mark. With my ex it was a year on, a year off and then a year on again...

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    Yea

    What would make you leave a person?
    A lot of things

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    Well, Im married but previously, yes I would because I didnt believe in marriage so its a win win

    What is your dream date?
    Carnival - I love love local traveling carnivals. The corndogs are to die for.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    My dream wedding is in a park or large backyard - casual - with a pool party/bbq reception - I want fun not stuffy

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    Never was.... still waiting for the ring (even to im married)

    do you want a white picket fence?
    Yes. Very much! I want a nice home in the burbs with a sunroom, pool and small grassy area. Im sick like that.
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    How long did it/they last?
    7 years

    What did you like and dislike about it?um...we are ideologically identical. We even change our minds the same. But I don't think we like each other very much any more.

    How long did the others last?Had one other that lasted 3 weeks, one that lasted 2, and a whole slew that lasted 1 week before I said "fuck this shit."

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    obviously yes. Though I'm not happy about it.

    What would make you leave a person?before my current it could have been anything, right down to the most trivial. With him, nothing apparently.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    of course. wish I'd done this.

    What is your dream date?hopping on a passing train and going wherever it goes.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    my wedding sucked ass. I wish we'd have done it alone somewhere beautiful, just the two of us.

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    I wanted him to propose to me. It was actually very important to me for personal reasons. I didn't get it.

    Do you want a white picket fence?
    fuck no.

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    Default Re: whats your longest relationship?

    my longest relationship was with a girl. My current relationship is going to be my last one though, i know it, so the one i'm writing about is really the second to longest.

    How long did it/they last?

    13 months

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    She was really artistic and laid back and taught me how to relax and have fun and not worry about things so much. She was kind of controlling and would get jealous really easily, she lied a lot about trivial things too.

    How long did the others last?
    right before her, another girl- 6 months
    right after her, a guy- 1 month
    went relationship-less for 4ish months and now i'm in another one

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    whenever i want it, he wants it, and I don't really want it that often, he wants it more than me most of the time, so i dont see how that would ever be a problem, unless he gets old and has problems with his dick, and i'm younger than him and super horny, then it might be a problem, but that's why there's kava kava.

    What would make you leave a person?
    cheating. no ambition. stagnancy. lies. pretty much lack of communication and trust.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    yes. marriage doesn't mean THAT much to me, but I still want a ceremony of some sort, even if it isn't legal and has papers and all that.

    What is your dream date?
    swimming in the ocean all day, building a tree house together, and having sex in the tree house.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    my dream wedding is on/by the beach in the summer/spring with lots of little kids wearing flowers in their hair throwing flowers all over the aisle, a little kid as the ring-bearer, and everyone we know and love. Maybe a big grassy meadow with everyone sitting cross legged. idk. but someplace outside and peaceful and natural. the reception would be a big drum circle with lots of dancing.

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    proposed to

    Do you want a white picket fence?
    no i want a treehouse.

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    Default Re: whats your longest relationship?

    2 years and 6 months and COUNTING !!!!!.

    I will answer the other question later :-)

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    Never had one. It would get in the way of other guys lol.

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    Default Re: whats your longest relationship?

    I'm writing about Rob

    How long did it/they last?
    We've been together 11 month, and are getting married April 9th

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    I love everything about our relationship. I love his support and dedication to me, I love how he hold me, I love how I don't even need to hear it to know that he loves me more then anything. We can and do talk about everything, and we have our own lives, but they overlap perfectly.

    How long did the others last?
    too long!!!

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    I can't imagine that happening with us, but yes.

    What would make you leave a person?
    once the problems get too big to fix or overcome, the relationship is dead. I can't say if I'd leave then, I think I'd just try to work harder.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    We're getting married. I would not stay in a relationship forever or even for a few years if we weren't getting married.

    What is your dream date?
    A lovely dinner and a great conversation. Then maybe a sweet movie that makes us laugh, and also cry, with him holding me tight. Then going home and being made love to.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    the one I'm having in a month!!! Pics to come

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    I would not propose. I was proposed to.

    Do you want a white picket fence?
    yep, literally!!!! I want a nice house with 4 bedrooms and a classrom. The house has a big master with a window seat and a beautiful master bath. 2 of the rooms are for children, a boys and a girls room. Then a small guest room. The classroom is nice and big. The yard is large, and has a big garden, and a lanai, where we do lessons sometimes. The backyard is fenced in and private, with a pool and fruit trees. there's a treehouse, and a swingset with a sandbox. There's a formal dining room, and a craft/office room. We play more then we watch tv, and everyone eats dinner together.

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    Im gonna move in with Lola....

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    How long did it/they last?

    My longest relationship was 2 years, although we broke up at the year mark for about two months. I moved in with him after I knew him only for about a week, and we were engaged in a few months.

    What did you like and dislike about it?
    God, I was so blind - he was crazy! Okay, I liked his ambition, but he was way to stubborn and dogmatic and boring.

    How long did the others last?
    A year or less.

    Would you stay with somebody you loved if you didn't get enough sex?
    No way. Not unless there was an understanding of an open relationship or something but even then, I dont know why I would be in a sexually unsatisfying relationship.

    What would make you leave a person?
    No sex, no ambition, no fun, not paying attention to me.

    If you are with a person for a long time and they want to be with you forever but they don't want to marry you would you stay with them or not?
    Um, maybe. I tell myself that a piece of paper is not that important to me, but I think I would feel like there was something missing maybe.

    What is your dream date?
    good food, good wine, good conversation.

    What is your dream wedding or how was it?
    I don't know if I want a wedding. Maybe for the pictures and the bachelorette party!

    Do you want to be proposed to or propose to?
    I definitely want to be proposed to!

    do you want a white picket fence?
    LOL, yes I want the "white picket fence" - close knit loving family that supports each other sure!
    "I will not be just a tourist in the world of images, just watching images passing by which I cannot live in, make love to, possess as permanent sources of joy and ecstasy. -Anais Nin"

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