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    This isn't supposed to happen to me! I'm a stripper!!!

    My boyfriend is a decent guy. We have similar backgrounds, interests, even taste in food and spending habits. He's nice to my pets even though he doesn't like animals and he's never criticizes me. I get clingy once in a while and I yell at him when I'm upset, but overall I am a cool chic. I look my best so he's proud of me when we go out... his friends like me and ask about me when I'm not around... I go pick him up when he's out drinking and he needs a ride.

    He says he loves me but then he totally ignores me.

    Example: If I call he never answers the phone. He always calls me back.
    I don't even want to elaborate on our (pathetic) sex life. Ok, I will. Can you say "one minute man?" I am NEVER satisfied.

    The obvious solution is to ignore him back and let him bounce back to me like a rubber band but I'm afraid... he's just boneheaded enough he might let me go! And besides, that seems like more of a punishment to me than to him...

    Help! What's a girl to do?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Cypress Shade View Post
    This isn't supposed to happen to me! I'm a stripper!!!

    He's nice to my pets even though he doesn't like animals .
    BIG RED FLAG

    He says he loves me but then he totally ignores me.
    Becuse he dosnt care



    he's just boneheaded enough he might let me go!

    if thats the case LET HIM

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    Ooooooh, I don`t want, I don`t need, I can`t stand no minute man! I don`t want no minute man!

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    At the very least, you should talk to him about what would satisfy you in regards to your sex life. Its silly to just lay there and accept shitty sex when you could talk to him about what you want and have him fix what he's doing wrong.

    In regards to this and the other things you mentioned, it sounds to me like you like him a lot and you're afraid that he'll leave you if you speak up about what you want. Just do it. Be diplomatic and all of course, but really, the kind of men that are worth having don't like doormats.

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    Ask him why he never answers his phone.

    I dont know what u can do about the sex thing. Premature ejaculation can be hard to fix.
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    Honestly? I'd forget him but thats just me.

    Its unacceptble for him to ignore you and not pick up the phone when you call. How busy can he be?

    Also the sex thing is a big red flag. Does he know that its bad or does he think everythngs great? Is he willing to work on it?

    All women get clingy and emotional and yell at their partners sometimes, we're women, thats what we do. That is no excuse for bad sex and ignorance.



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    He ignores you and is a lousy lay?

    Dump him.

    If he was really into you, btw, he wouldnt ignore u. There are plenty of boys out there.
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    Yes I agree, you shouldn't waste your time with someone that ignores you or neglects to answer your calls. He ignores your calls but calls you back himself?...sounds like he's hiding something, and waits until it's a convenient time(i.e., he's out of a potentially sticky situation to explain) to call you back. Or maybe he's just really busy throughout the day? I don't know. The lack of good sex is a big red flag too.

    Now here's the important thing to answer -- Has he ALWAYS been this way, or is it a recent development? If he used to answer his phone and put more effort into sex and giving you attention, but now he's not doing any of those things, then perhaps that is a BIG sign that he is growing aloof. As much as it might suck to hear it, perhaps he found another girl or is becomming less interested in the relationship. Now if he was ALWAYS aloof and a 1-minute man, it simply being the way he is as a person, that isn't as much of a big warning sign BUT be prepared that he might never change and if you're already unhappy with how things are going, do you really want to stay and let it continue??

    I do not know all the details, but speaking from a similar experience of my own -- I honestly think he's disregarding you a bit or becomming less interested in you. He might even be "using" you a little to look good in front of his friends(since they like you) or to get rides from the bar. I agree with Velvet that if he says "I love you" then ignores you, he doesn't mean it. His lack of effort into sexually pleasing you sounds like he's selfish and only cares about his needs...right?(assuming he doesn't have a serious E.D. problem) You pick him up from the bar at night??...that almost sounds like you're being somewhat of a doormat. I've found that NO good EVER comes from being counted upon to give people rides...ESPECIALLY not boyfriends! What happened to guys treating a girl like a "lady," not having them chauffeur them from the bar?

    Okay so bottom line -- I have a feeling that he's just not that into you(sorry to quote a book title LOL), you're unhappy with him, therefore you should move on and find a guy who treats you better.

    You sound rather needy and indeed clingy. Why do you feel the need to have him around if he's not accomodating you respectfully? You said that having him dump you is more of a "punishment" than having him around but being ignored. WHY do you feel this way? There are other fish in the sea...go fish!

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