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    I have only been dancing for a week and a half. So far, MOST of the girls are nice and respectful but some are down right dramatic. Whats the best way to go about with the girls that indirectly talk about others in the same room, or that have stuck up attitudes? I realize a lot of them are just putting up a defense but then again I don't want to kiss any @$$ with the ones that are difficult to deal with.
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    Ignore it. Stay out of the drama, stick to yourself. Maybe those "stuck up" girls have the right idea. Stripclub drama is the worst kind of drama to be in. It always hurts your money and it isn't worth it.

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    kisskiss is totally right: stay out of the drama. It might seem hard, and sometimes it is...but do it at all costs.

    Look, you've got a lot of estrogen and a lot of egos in one dressing room...and everyone is competing for the money. It can get vicious. Just mind your own business, treat it like you would any other job, and you'll be fine.

    There are going to be girls whom you really like...whom you bond with...but the most important thing to do is keep a ground rule of, "No matter how much I like you, your drama is your own." It's tough.

    My favorite favorite favorite girl in the club is a drama queen. She's the best dancer we've got; she throws her weight around. She dates dj's. She gets vendettas. She "quits" in a blaze of furious glory at least once every three months. I love her to pieces and she loves me back, but she knows that her shit is her own...and she's never held it against me.

    If you let the drama get to you, it will wreck you. Don't let it. You'll do great.

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    Yep..ignore ignore ignore. When I first started, I felt bad for some of the girls who would always get harassed by others. I'd stand up for them. Bad idea for the new, young, inexperienced girl...bad idea in general (tho i'm sure some would disagree). I'm not talking about life-threatening harassment either.

    Anyhow, you go to work to make money, not friends. While it's nice to be "on good terms" with your coworkers so you don't feel like you have to watch your back all the time, it's not a neccessity.

    If people talk trash about others around you, ignore them. If you join in/take sides, people will bring you into the drama. If you're quiet, what can they do, besides say that you're, well, quiet?

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    Yup everyone said it right just come in and work and ignore anyone who has an attitude. Try to stay out on the floor whenever possible. I would rather sit and chat with a guy if it's slow then sit in the dressing room and listen to that bullshit. Maybe chat up the bartender or staff since you are new if it's slow.

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    Just like there are certain things in strip clubs ( lights , poles , stages ect. ) , there are also certain behaviors that won't ever go away. It very rare ( it seems nearly impossible ) to find a club without drama. Just accept it as part of the environment. That seemed to be the best way for me to get my head around it.

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    **** STAY OUT!!!!****

    that is all i have to say
    SEXY SUNNY

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    I always tried to remember that I was there for the money and never to make friends. The dancer drama seems to be in every club and I always liked to think of that as my entertainment on the slow nights if I happened to have forgot a book.

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