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    because I dont .At least not friends that I call on the phone and go out and stuff like that.I've always wondered if im the only one that's like this or what.I've always been a loner so I dont really know "how" to have friends .Does that make sense?Sometimes I would like to have them just to know what it feels like or what.

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    I'm the same way. I've got a few best friends but 1 lives in AZ one in Dallas, and the other 2 have very young kids and live 1 hr away from me (since I moved for school). The rest are just aquaintences whom I don't really find all that interesting.
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    not many at the moment. My boyfriend is my best friend, which isn't really healthy, but I've made a conscious decision and effort to be more social and make friends. I'm chalking my lack of friends ATM up to the cold antisocial portland winter... no one wants to go out. I had more friends when i first moved here when it was summer/fall, and then I went away for awhile and it seems like everyone disappeared. I've got a good friend here i just reconnected with last night, and another friend that I work with that I'm pretty close with, so it's getting better for me socially.

    I've never been one to have tons of friends though, in high school I had one best girl friend and then was popular with boys but was pretty much a loner. I've always been like that though, I have 1 or 2 super close friends and then the rest are all acquaintances.

    it will get better in the spring!! I keep telling myself that, i think it's true. winter is where everyone hibernates.

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    I have friends, but most have moved away over the years so we dont see each other much. My true friends are very few, but I know that if I needed ANYTHING all I have to do is call and they'd be there for me and vice versa.

    My father always said that if you can count your true friends on one hand, you are lucky. One of the few things we agree on. I have a lot of good aquaintences...but my actual real FRIENDS are few.

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    Quote Originally Posted by beauty21queen View Post
    because I dont .At least not friends that I call on the phone and go out and stuff like that.I've always wondered if im the only one that's like this or what.I've always been a loner so I dont really know "how" to have friends .Does that make sense?Sometimes I would like to have them just to know what it feels like or what.
    I've always been a loner too. I have a few good friends I could count on but we don't see or talk to each other everyday. I think mass quantities of friends are overrated. In terms of friends its quality not quantity for me. I do like knowing that I can get up and move any day without feeling the burden that all my friends might miss me or be mad. Ha! because I don't have that many.
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    I go on spurts, sometimes I will have a best friend or a few best friends or we will even have couple friends and sometimes noone. We have the types of friends that we will always be able to pick up right where we left off, we are just reallly bad about staying in touch and making plans. I don't have the kind of girlfriend I can call everyday either, we moved to Texas from Oklahoma and even though it's been a few years I haven't made any quality friends. I don't feel like im missing anything but drama.

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    My friends are in England and even then there are very very few of them. I haven't made have any 'real' friends since moving to the US.... esp females.

    I'm cool with it though. I like being a loner. I'm an only child and have always enjoyed my own company. I was one of those real popular girls in school; always had a bunch of people surrounding me but I was never really happy.. I prefer to be alone a lot of the time.

    Actually the older I have gotten the more anti-social I have become.


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    I dont really like people enough to have them as constant friends . My mom is always pushing someone she knows on me because she thinks they are nice and I could really just care less . I have my daughter which is more important , I hang out with my mom alot which is kool because she loves hanging with my daughter too .......friends get old fast , they start dating or they want to go out and chase guys all the time and I am over that scene . I like to read and I am really into my pagan thing .....I like my pets and my garden , I like to travel and go on date trips .....these are things you can do so much with GFs ......I dunno I feel like I enjoy life since I have moved and have no friends . When I lived in one place for a long time I had friends , except for that stretch when I had a loser BF and none of my GFs liked him so I didnt hang with them .........see how much trouble friends cause ? Nope no friends and happy about it , I hate it when the phone rings
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    I'm definitely a bit of a loner. I have a few close friends that don't live very close by. Even last night, or tonight let's say, I wanted to go out, but have nobody to go out with unless I drive into the city. And if I'm driving into the city, I might as well go to work at the club. At least I'm not the only one who goes through this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by seraya View Post

    Actually the older I have gotten the more anti-social I have become.
    Yeah me too. I find the older I get the less I want to waste time on people I dont really enjoy being around.

    Some of my best friends are the people on here! You all know me better then most people!

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    No. I used to have quite a few. After moving twice in seven years and having two kids I've lost all my close friends though. Right after I moved in with my hubby and settled down most of my single friends started just drifting away.

    I would love to make some new friends, but we live in an area that is primarily older, retired couples. Doesn't give me much of a chance to meet people.

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    I have one friend, and we don't really do things, go places....every great once in a while we'll venture out together, but it works for us.

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    The wife and I have a ton of aquantainces but actual true friends..... 3
    These are people that would do anything for me, and I would do anything for.
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    No. I have a couple, I guess, one that I hang out with alot (and work with), one that I rarely see anymore, and that's about it. I'm anti-social. Someone at work said it best last night "You're hilarious, you hate everyone and have zero tolerance for stupidity". Yup, might be why I don't have friends.
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    Woah! way too big! sorry ! .....I dont know how to make it smaller though. I was always popular with guys but I dont really view tham as friends because I think they all want to get in my pants .In highschool I would always hear a bunch of things like "oh I know her!" or some other crap .They were kinda like groupies or something . I guess I was popular in highschool in the "standing out" kinda thing but never made much conversation with anyone.

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    Almost all of my friend are back at home in the states. I sorta made two friends/acquaintances a week ago.
    I like friends but i like my solitude too.




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    I don't have friends in my state, so I'm used to not having anyone to talk to or hang out with. :0)
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    I used to have a ton. Then I moved out of Philly..now I have like 4 from that city that I really know I can count on, which I actually think is great. And now I'm making new friends in the new city. When I moved here I was like how the heck do I make new friends, but now it's like a year later and I've got one super solid girl she on here actually and then a handful of others that are pretty awesome.

    I feel like guy friends always end up getting the wrong impression though so I don't have many of them. At least not for a while.

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    I don't have alot of girlfriends because I don't go out alot outside of work or do the typical friend stuff like go shopping etc. I go alone. I do have my best friend ever who lives in CA. One Baltimore and a few here that are on the path but not 100% there yet. I would also say that Cameron is moving into the dangerous friend territory as well.

    I have a few random guy friends but most of them are more like acquaintances. When you think about it it's hard to draw the line between the two.

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    I have friends. They're all different. Some are flaky, some are solid. Some I see all of the time, others not so much. Some I can be honest with about everything, others I have to watch it with. Some are my party friends, some are my work-out friends, some are my video game friends, some are my laid-back friends, and a couple are everything friends... I likez my friends... I just wish that more were girls!
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    Quote Originally Posted by desavirsire View Post
    . I would also say that Cameron is moving into the dangerous friend territory as well.

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    I have close girlfriends back in Memphis who I can just call for no damn reason, but I'm too shy to randomly call other people. I'm trying hard to make close friends but I get these attacks of shyness where I wish someone would call me but I can't work up the nerve to call them myself. I feel like if they wanted to talk to me, they would call. It's a stupid neurosis.

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    I have no real friends in my town.. Everytime I try to make friends with a girl, I find out that she does drugs or parties a lot.. which I don't so I give up. I moved here to a big city from a small one a while ago and still have tons of awesome friends back home.


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