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    Default I want to go back into stripping

    I want to start dancing again. I had the most fun with that job and I was in the best shape in my life. I am not an extras girl and I don't really drink that much on the job. My problem...my boyfriend views strippers as a form of a prostitute. He knows I am loyal to him. I don't understand! It's a job that is well paying.

    I need some point of views to make him see that it's not all drugs and bullshit going on.

    Help!

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    Default Re: I want to go back into stripping

    If he feels that way after several real conversations about it, it is unlikely he will ever 'get used to it.' Even if you convince him to "let you" (ugh) do it, he will probably lord it over you like a bastard.

    My advice: make your finances work some other way, or lose him and do what you want.

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    ^What she said.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    I say lose him and do what you want.

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    Default Re: I want to go back into stripping

    but I love this guy! I have never met a guy that was able to put up with mebeing bipolar

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    Default Re: I want to go back into stripping

    well then don't strip.
    This problem comes up a lot, and always ends the same way. Guys like you are describing are so stubborn. Maybe go to the club you want to dance with him so he can see what it's really like, and if that still doesn't work, then you might just be screwed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ameris_rain View Post
    but I love this guy! I have never met a guy that was able to put up with mebeing bipolar
    'put up with'.... the way you said that is sad.
    hopefully its not as bad as it sounds.
    if he loves you he will lets you do what makes you happy,within reason. I think dancing is reasonable. Don't you?
    You are your own woman!you can do as you like!




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    Default Re: I want to go back into stripping

    I agree! Him and I just kinda split up and now we are just dating...what do you think I should do?

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    Default Re: I want to go back into stripping

    Cheer up: 2.6% of people in America -- that is, more than one in forty adults -- have bipolar disorder. That's five point seven million:

    http://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publi...lication.shtml

    Don't ever settle for less than what you need in a partner just because he "puts up" with you. That way lies low self esteem and badness.

    Someone who's right for you will support and accept you in all of your life, not just part of it. :-)
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    i think people like going to parties and clubs and looking like douchebags.

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