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    I've made up my mind. I want to check out some clubs and give stripping a try. The only problem is that I can't find any clubs! I'm only 19 and all the places I've looked up require you to be 21+. What I'm looking for is a topless club (not quite comfortable with the full nude yet) and NO CONTACT. I know I'm being a little picky, but I think that I would work better and feel more comfortable if I went at my pace. Anyways, I'm looking for something in San Jose, Fresno, Oakland, and anywhere around those areas. Calfornia.

    Have any of you heard of any clubs in those areas? If you have, please let me know. Thanks a bunch!

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    Granted, I have never danced in Cali but from what I know about it on here it doesn't sound like you will have much luck in your search.

    Also, 'no contact' in general is hard to find much anywhere anymore. It exists, but where? I don't know.
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    check out tuscl.com
    i think zbone.com is only so.cal
    im sure theres vu's and rhino over there

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    Topless bars serve alcohol so you have to be 21+.

    Just keep in mind that a tiny peice of cloth on your g-string is really the only difference between nude and topless... Also, I'm not familar with those areas but if you actually find a club where you can bank AND guys keep their grubby paws to themselves, let me know.
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    This really disapoints me. I called a place called "City Limits" in Sacramento, and the guy was totally nice to me. He told me to go in and talk to the manager and stuff, but I would be NAKED! I don't know why that tiny piece of cloth would really matter, but It's a mind block for me right now. I guess I'm afraid some guy is going to shove something in my cooch when I'm not paying attention to his hands. Gross.

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    You're only naked when you're onstage and it's really dark in there... You should at least go check the place out.
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    So you don't have to give naked lapdances? Good thing. Although I guess it could depend on the place. I'm gonna go check it out. And would you have to be naked during the entire shift? That's a lotta naked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyb View Post
    And would you have to be naked during the entire shift? That's a lotta naked.
    No, even in dirty, naked Canada land, you're not naked your whole shift. Unless you're getting lots and lots of money. Generally we wear clothes around the club, and then get paid to take them off in private dances. Nudity might sound scary, but believe me, once you've seen everyone doing it, it becomes easier. Contact is a different story though. It's something you'll figure right off the bat whether you're okay with it or not.

    I'm not from California, but I only weigh in because i had illusions of the same kind of stripping job as the one you mention, when I first started. I thought, like Natalie Portman in "Closer", no touching was the standard. Not so much, not in many places anyway. Unfortunately, it tends to be the region that dictates the standard of contact, not the individual clubs (more or less).

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    Sunny, you're going to have to ask your perspective clubs to get the bottom line, but as far as I know for CA, you don't do nakey lapdances. Even Vegas only does topless lapdances, right?

    If you're truly squemish about the whole contact thing, maybe start off with a peepshow club? Yes, you're going to be showing a WHOLE lotta naked, but with a glass divider, there is certainly no contact.
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    as far as I know for CA, you don't do nakey lapdances
    As long as the club doesn't serve alcohol, there are definitely naked lap dances in CA, including the club I'm about to audition at. They just cost twice as much as a topless dance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyb View Post
    So you don't have to give naked lapdances? Good thing. Although I guess it could depend on the place. I'm gonna go check it out. And would you have to be naked during the entire shift? That's a lotta naked.
    You don't have to give naked lapdances but its about making money and they are still not allowed to touch you as far as I know. Of course naked lap dances are only offered in certain counties in CA. Definitely not allowed down here. Check your local laws or ask the manager when you audition. No you are not naked the entire shift. You get on stage, dance, get naked, and put back on clothes. From what I remember about Sac, since you mentioned city limits (used to work there years ago), you do topless dances in thong only - no touching.

    Yes, I've done some naked lap dances before when I worked in Sac. Still, no touching.

    As far as grabby guys you just get real good at your stripper kung fu. You do have the right to stop the dance and ask to be paid (get a bouncer if needed) if a guy grabs you. He breaks the rules his dance ends right then and there.
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    ^Oh you know what, I take that back, you're right. I remember someone saying that there was a club in the City of Industry where they did naked bed dances.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk View Post

    As far as grabby guys you just get real good at your stripper kung fu. You do have the right to stop the dance and ask to be paid (get a bouncer if needed) if a guy grabs you. He breaks the rules his dance ends right then and there.
    Do you really get paid for the dance even if you don't finish, just because someone touches you?

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    It depends on where you are. I've worked in clubs where there are full nude friction dances and 2-way contact(though touching the crotch is still not TECHNICALLY allowed). Here in SE FL,contact is the norm. Scope out a few clubs..go as a custie if you can(or if you cant because you have to be 21...get a friend to check them out for you. Preferably a male friend who can tell you what happens in the back). THen pick the club you are most comfortable with.

    And yes,if the guy breaks the rules, you have every right to stop the dance AND get paid. Of course, enforcing that depends on the club as well. If you think the guy might get handsy..try to get paid up front. Then you can just walk away with your money if he gets out of line.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    ^Oh you know what, I take that back, you're right. I remember someone saying that there was a club in the City of Industry where they did naked bed dances.
    i do naked bed dances.
    some places it depends on the alcohol
    some places it depend on the city.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyb View Post
    This really disapoints me. I called a place called "City Limits" in Sacramento, and the guy was totally nice to me. He told me to go in and talk to the manager and stuff, but I would be NAKED! I don't know why that tiny piece of cloth would really matter, but It's a mind block for me right now. I guess I'm afraid some guy is going to shove something in my cooch when I'm not paying attention to his hands. Gross.
    you're only option is to work at a fully nude club since you are only 19. and sorry to say this, but that little piece of cloth DOES matter...that's the whole reason for having fully nude clubs separate from topless clubs. CA law says you can't have unclothed pussy and alcohol at the same time. and if you let guys know you aren't down for touching in the beginning and ALWAYS collect your cash first, you don't have too much to worry about. just make sure you have good bouncers.

    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    You're only naked when you're onstage and it's really dark in there... You should at least go check the place out.
    in CA, nude lapdances are allowed...that includes grinding in some clubs.


    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyb View Post
    So you don't have to give naked lapdances? Good thing. Although I guess it could depend on the place. I'm gonna go check it out. And would you have to be naked during the entire shift? That's a lotta naked.
    all SF clubs have nude lapdances...there are only two nude clubs in san jose...kit kat and pink poodle. not sure if they do nude LDs or not. call to double check


    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Sunny, you're going to have to ask your perspective clubs to get the bottom line, but as far as I know for CA, you don't do nakey lapdances. Even Vegas only does topless lapdances, right?

    If you're truly squemish about the whole contact thing, maybe start off with a peepshow club? Yes, you're going to be showing a WHOLE lotta naked, but with a glass divider, there is certainly no contact.
    like i said, CA does naked LDs...ALL nude clubs in SF have nude dances. period. SJ is what im not sure about. Also, you can only find a peepshow in SF...the club is called Lusty Lady. the girls are paid hourly. there aren't any private dances, and i'm not sure if you get tips...i'm not sure how you would get them if there is a wall with a window separating custy/dancer.


    good luck again!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnyb View Post
    Do you really get paid for the dance even if you don't finish, just because someone touches you?
    get your money BEFORE the dance...period. then you will never have to hear someone say "i lost my wallet" "im out of cash" "don't have my ATM card" or any other bullshit line. some girls say it kills the mood when they stop after every dance and collect....i personally don't care. because if the guy likes me and wants to continue, he will. and if he asks WHY you have to keep stopping, just tell him its club policy. let him know that he has the option of paying for multiple dances upfront...that way you won't have to stop. and if a guy touches you...you can either choose to give him a warning or stop the dance all together. just depends on his overall behavior, where/how he touched you, and whatever the hell YOU feel like doing.

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