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    So this girl and I have the same regular. We both sit with him when he comes in and he pays us like $5 a song just to sit there. He stays for a few hours so trust me it adds up. Well anyways, the last time he was there he told me that he wanted to take just me to VIP the next time he comes in. So when this does happen how do I handle this?? Should I apologize to her afterward, before?? She's not exactly my "friend" but we do get along and I don't want any hard feelings!

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    No, you don't apologize for the way your guys' reg wants to spend his money.
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    hard one. I'd say just do it without telling her first and if she asks later then tell the truth; it wasnt your idea!

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    I wouldn't say anything to her. If he actually does what he said he would, then that is his choice. Besides, you might offend her by extending an appology out of pity.
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    I'd tell him to tell her rather than breaking the news yourself. That way she knows it was his idea rather than your machination.

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    I would... not make an issue of it, and if she says anything treat it "I know - weird, huh? Sort of out of character." Do you have some reason to anticipate that she is going to be really unreasonable about this?
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    Here's the situation:

    He first came into the club because he saw something positive about me on Stripclublist.com. Well the first night he decided to come in there I wasn't working so she sat with him. Well the next time he came in, I was working. By this time she considered him HER customer. She didn't even bother to tell me he had asked about me or anything. He wanted me to come sit with them so I did. That's when he told me about the whole SCL thing.Anyways, when he came in again I came in late and she was onstage. As I was going to get dressed she pulls me over and says "I saw him first." So she's somewhat territorial about him even though he came in there for me in the first place. I just know she'll get offended by all of this because technically she had sat with him first. Sorry for the life story!

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    You don't owe her anything. If she asks about it, just say, "He asked me!"

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    If you aoligise to her, ur admitting guilt. ur admtting guilt to something that you did not do wrong.

    of coarse she will have hard feeling, but its's the job

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    Sounds like she is going to throw a fit no matter what. "I saw him first"??? Is she kidding??He's a customer, not a tinker toy.

    I wouldnt say a word to her. If he does come in and just take you...and she says anything just tell the truth " he just wanted me today...he came in in the first place to see me and he wanted some alone time with me".

    I might give him the heads up in case she throws a screaming fit on the floor...do you know when she works? Can you tell him to come in on a night she wont be there?

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    I don't know that I'd worry so much about an "I saw him first." I would relax and not worry until it becomes an issue. If she says something I would go with "I know - kind of out of character, huh?" If she throws a fit, just don't engage with it. But first - don't anticipate a problem.
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    by the way, when ur giving him that vip, don't think about her. Do the best job you can, that way when he comes back for more, it would have been worth it to possibly get her upset.

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    Thanks guys! This kind of stemmed off the other thread of making friends at work. It's not always a good idea.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kisskiss View Post
    As I was going to get dressed she pulls me over and says "I saw him first." So she's somewhat territorial about him even though he came in there for me in the first place. I just know she'll get offended by all of this because technically she had sat with him first.
    Oh fuck THAT! "I saw him first", what a bunch of crap! Let her know that he said that if you want but don't appologize. You shouldn't be sorry in any way for being hotter than her. She sounds like a bully.
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    Fuck her she does sound like BG said, a bully!!

    He came in to see YOU in the first place. Just tell her it's his money and he can do what he wants if she opens her big trap about it.
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    No reason to tell her or apologize. she's being a territorial bully. give him what he asked for and just enjoy that he wants you not her

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