Ok, this is NOT meant to sound stalkerish. I am wondering if any scj has ever met a girl at her club.
Now with more Uncoolness




Ok, this is NOT meant to sound stalkerish. I am wondering if any scj has ever met a girl at her club.
Now with more Uncoolness
Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.





<double-take> ROTFLMAO...oh, don't worry about sounding stalkerish. a fan boy meeting his favorite shill from SW is one of the biggest reasons why guys hang around SW. so, keep sending out those PMs and let's make it happen, captain.
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Alan Marciano: Oh, man...(to himself) Why did I get mixed up with that bitch?
Lt. Vincent Hanna: Cause she's got a great ass and you got your head all the way up it! - from the movie "Heat".




Actually, I would be nervous about sending a PM regarding meeting a girl. I veiw that as almost stalkerish (not quite, but close). There are some interesting personalities and I'd like to meet them at their club (NOT OTC), assuming that I happen to be in the city that I am in at that moment.
For example, I have read where girls discuss Camelot and CCR in Washington, DC. I have been to both clubs. I might go to either club if I was interested in meeting the girl. I also spend a lot of time in Atlanta, so I might go to a different place than where #5 works, just to meet an interesting personality. Other cities are on a hit or miss basis. Honestly, I'm not going to come in and blow thousands in one time, but I might come in for a drink and some dances if the club fits my demographic.
Mr. Too Uncool
Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.





Is it not a problem that the woman have a smaller brain than a man? The government scientist Dr. Yamuka has proved it is size of squirrel. - Borat
Alan Marciano: Oh, man...(to himself) Why did I get mixed up with that bitch?
Lt. Vincent Hanna: Cause she's got a great ass and you got your head all the way up it! - from the movie "Heat".
It's really not a big deal to ask. I'm sure they'd appreciate the guaranteed business.
I've met many SW girls at their clubs. As far as I know, all of them are still alive and certainly no worse for the wear.
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Ditto. I've met, ummm, three or so at their clubs. It's fine, provided you are polite and, above all, generous. Oh, and you don't stalk them afterward.




Ok, what was the process? PM? Did you trip over them in a club? How do u find out what city/club a girl works at?
BTW, I won't stalk them if they won't stalk me.
Mr. Uncool
Have we not heard the chimes at midnight?
Once more, unto the breach, dear friends.
If you prick us do we not bleed? If you tickle us do we not laugh? If you poison us do we not die? And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
-- Its always amazed me how no one learns the lines from Shakespeare. I guess it is true that people don't learn history's lessons until something become's their history.
You may PM. Many girls do appreciate the business; some, however, will say "No thank you." In order to come across the right way I would suggest that if you don't know where she is that you ask about her general location before asking for specifics, and don't take it personally if she either doesn't reply or says "No thanks".
I have taught that the sky in all its zones is mortal and its substance was formed by a process of birth




I always wonder if I've danced for anyone from SW. Or if my coworkers are here. So I'm pretty carefull about what I say. I'm also certain that at least one person I've met is actually a robot in disguise.





If a gal has revealed her general location, a cool way to go about it is to ask about clubs in her area. Its not all that uncommon for them to recommend the one they work at. I mean, in that environment are you going to be possibly going to be any more dangerous than a random stranger walking in the door?
I've met four of the ladies since joining and they were all cool about it. As long as you have a good rep on here, its no big deal.
Former SCJ now in rehab.
Hmmm, mildly awkward, although there are a few women on SW I think I would enjoy a few dances from. I guess it can't hurt to ask, so long as you are not stalkerish about it.
I've met a few SW women but it was always after exchanging several PM's. I tend to let them PM me first once they notice that I am located in their area.
FBR
Once again I have embraced my addiction and have put off the moral dilemma to another day.
I PM'd one of the SW women on here asking about clubs in the area since I have been out of the SC scene for 13 years due to marriage. I am now back due to a divorce.
Anyway she PM'd me back and suggested to come see her at her club. Well I have been there about 4 times and she is awesome, she is my new ATF. We use the SW lingo when talking and usually sit/dance together for about two hours each night.





Is it not a problem that the woman have a smaller brain than a man? The government scientist Dr. Yamuka has proved it is size of squirrel. - Borat
Alan Marciano: Oh, man...(to himself) Why did I get mixed up with that bitch?
Lt. Vincent Hanna: Cause she's got a great ass and you got your head all the way up it! - from the movie "Heat".





mikez has it right. When traveling out of town on business, I have PM'd pinkies asking for recommendations of clubs in the area. Most suggest seeing them at their club but the question is open enough for them to make club recommendations without revealing themselves if they don't want to.





I've met a couple SW gals, I had a good time, I don't see a problem with it if she's comfortable with it (although obviously, if she's not comfortable with it, probably best not to push the issue). The PM function works like a charm.
I'v met pinkies as a customer, and have had scj meet me at the club. Its all good. Just don't start dating one if they have seriousl mental issues. Its a recipe for disaster. Trust me here.
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Originally Posted by Mia M




I've hit it off with SW girls in Portland, obviously. It's all good. They were the ones to invite me to come meet them first, actually.
I think.
It's kinda lost in the mists of time of several weeks ago, actually.
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Yeah, I agree completely with RH. Send a PM and ask if they are OK with meeting SCJs at their club. Some are way cool about it, and some aren't. There are plenty of dancers on SW that rightfully want to keep their online persona completely separated from their club identity for their own privacy. If you don't get a response to the PM, then that's your response.
I've met a handful of SW gals and all were great experiences. One is now a regular fave of mine that I enjoy seeing regularly. If you are lucky enough to get to know a SW gal, don't read anything into it. It's no different than with any other dancer. You are a customer only, period, end of story.





Kat...didn't you see Moonstruck? "we're not here to be perfect...the snowflakes are perfect...the moon and the stars are perfect. We're here to fall in love with the wrong people, and break our hearts, and wreck our lives..." That scene resonates with me.
I don't think I know anyone without issues, including me. I think you mean be careful, but I've never personally been good at that. Shit happens.![]()
I think Kat was talking about someone with serious mental issues a la substance abuse and insanity; not like smoking or thinking you're fat when you're not. And she totally wasn't talking about me.
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