Ugh... I'm kind of stuck on how to handle this situation with my regular.
A little background: I used to give my phone number to "promising" customers, with the instructions that it was to be used only to talk about when we would meet at the club. I got pretty tired of my phone ringing all the time (boys can't follow instructions apparently) so I opened an email address specifically for work. Now I only give my phone number to people after they have had my email, and they're coming in at least once, if not twice, a week. There aren't many that have my number now, which is fine. The customers I see less often, their email comes to my phone anyway, I just don't have to answer it right away.
Sorry if that was confusing.
Anyway, This one custie has been coming to the club for years. He really liked this one girl, but after she left he quickly needed a new ATF. He's pretty into kinky, BDSM stuff, as am I. The girls know to send the hard core "I want a beating" customers my way, so they did. He immediately loved me. *grins*
He of course got the email address. About a month later, I was seeing him about once or twice a week and he invited me to a concert. He got the phone number, I went and had a great time. We text a few short messages every day, and about every two or three days have a phone conversation.
Now the problem is, I haven't seen him in almost two weeks. (He's good CR money, and I could really use that money!) He's been making all kinds of excuses. Like saying he'll be there, then not showing up, and waiting till the next day to call with the excuse, really stupid stuff.
Now, if he can't, or just doesn't want to come in that's fine. But he's making excuses like telling the truth would hurt my feelings or something. The biggest reason why it pisses me off is because I don't want to put energy into being cute with him on a daily basis, even if it is only five or ten minutes, if he's not backing it up with money in the club.
My question now is, how do I get the point across that it's not okay to contact me all the time if you're not interested in paying me? I honestly don't believe he's being all, I like you, or anything, we talk about our SO's together, and he treats me very much like we are just doing business. I don't want to lose him, he's a well-paying, super fun regular (when he is regualar)
Any ideas?





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