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    Ladies,

    I am not the type of guy that typically approaches women. I usually end up dating friends or friends of friends. I can never decode a woman's body language. A lot of times when I am walking through a department store, restaurant, or mall a woman will give me a little eye contact and a smile. I always assumed it was a silent hello and they were just being nice. I have at times even checked my fly to make sure it wasn't down and that wasn't what she was smirking at. However I was reading a post Phil-W made in response to exotica268 about getting stared at/checked out in random places.

    Basically Phil posted that:
    "When a woman wants to indicate interest in a man in another part of the room (consciously or sub-consciously) and he's momentarily looking at her, she'll hold his gaze for a few seconds, then look away and down."

    so what do you ladies feel about this in general...when you want to show interest, and would like a man to approach you do you do the little eye contact and smile thing or is it just a silent howdy....of course this is an OTC thing, and not directed at just dancers, but women in general. I know one or even 10 women cannot speak for the entire sex, but an small insight please.

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    I know a lot of women like to play little seduction games, but I've never been good at subtlety. This is probably why I can't get women. If I'm interested in a man, I'm embarrassingly blunt about it. That's just me though.

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    If you look back at her and shes looking back at you...say hi to her. If she isnt..its just a little flirty game she prob plays with everyone or she was just being polite.


    And Yek..I cant ever get girls either. Drives hubby nuts because he knows I love 3-somes as much as he does(well maybe not..NOBODY loves them as much as he does!!LOL) AND he knows damn well that he cant initiate it or he'll just seem like a perv. So I have to....but I"m just not good at reading other women when it comes to myself( I can tell other people how to...but when it comse to me I"m clueless!)

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    ^^^ Yup, exactly the same thing here, except I'm the one who gets really excited about threesomes and I just can't make it happen! K is so much better at picking up women than I am. I don't know how he does it. He just intuitively knows exactly what each woman wants to hear and what she'll get off on. It's amazing.

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    Will K be there in May? Cause...ummm....yeah....

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    First, stop asking women how to approach them. It's just not good form and you won't get good information.

    Second, to be succinct, grow some balls and start approaching women--even if all you can manage to coherently mutter out of your mouth is, "Hi. I'm ______." Part of being a man is learning to be rejected, because you can't be accepted sometimes without being rejected sometimes (even many times).

    Basically Phil posted that:
    "When a woman wants to indicate interest in a man in another part of the room (consciously or sub-consciously) and he's momentarily looking at her, she'll hold his gaze for a few seconds, then look away and down."
    That's a fine indicator. But again, why are you waiting for some chick to hold a sandwich board over herself reading, "Hey, __________, please hit on me. Thank you for your cooperation."?

    Cowboy up and take a chance, dude. They can't say no if you don't ask, but they can't say yes either.
    Idealism is fine, but as it approaches reality, the costs become prohibitive.

    William F. Buckley, Jr.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Will K be there in May? Cause...ummm....yeah....
    I believe he will be, yes!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Casual Observer View Post
    First, stop asking women how to approach them. It's just not good form and you won't get good information.

    Second, to be succinct, grow some balls and start approaching women--even if all you can manage to coherently mutter out of your mouth is, "Hi. I'm ______." Part of being a man is learning to be rejected, because you can't be accepted sometimes without being rejected sometimes (even many times).



    That's a fine indicator. But again, why are you waiting for some chick to hold a sandwich board over herself reading, "Hey, __________, please hit on me. Thank you for your cooperation."?

    Cowboy up and take a chance, dude. They can't say no if you don't ask, but they can't say yes either.

    Geez you must be a real stud.......I just kind of assumed this might be a decent place to get an answer this question...seeing how it's crawling with women.
    Last edited by Thump; 03-14-2008 at 10:47 PM.

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