View Poll Results: Where do you want his hands during a bj

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  • Gently on my head

    20 46.51%
  • Tightly tangled in my hair

    13 30.23%
  • Using my ears as handles

    1 2.33%
  • He can keep his damn hands to himself

    13 30.23%
  • Other

    11 25.58%
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Thread: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

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    Default Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    I was thinking about this last night and I'm curious what you all think too.


    Your thoughts?

    For me, If we are roleplaying or i'm in submissive mode he can put his hands on my head or in my hair. If its just a vanilla blowjob He can keep his damn hands to himself! Its actually really annoying to have him "help" me when i'm not in the mood, and i will stop and tell him so.



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    cameron_keys
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    Hands to himself please. I HATE HATE HATE hands on my head....I'm always afraid someone will push too far and make me puke(its happened once before),not to mention that I am SOOOO not submissive so I dont like this at all. You can touch my hair, you can touch my face or shoulders or whatever...but dont keep your hands there or push down or the BJ STOPS.

    I HATE it in movies when they want the guys hand on my head....I have to resist the urge to yank away.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    It depends... sometimes I like to see him touching himself, sometimes I want him pulling my hair, gently petting me, touching my boobs, gripping the blankets in ecstasy.

    Man. I love giving head. LOL

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    I'm okay with his hands on my head or face during IF he doesn't start pushing. I HATE when he does that, stupid porn makes guys think it's fun to gag on a penis and it's NOT! Ick. My man plays with his nipples a lot, too, or tries to touch me so it's just whateva. Not into hair pulling during a BJ either. During intercourse, I like it rough, but during a BJ it seems rude to me.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    not. on. my. fucking. head.
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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    Preferably between my legs getting me more warmed up.

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    Gently stroking my hair.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    Anywhere! I think it's hot when he's pushing my head, but it's great when he can play with me as well (if we're positioned correctly).
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    On my tits, behind my head pushing or pulling my hair if it's forceful.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Hands to himself please. I HATE HATE HATE hands on my head....I'm always afraid someone will push too far and make me puke(its happened once before),not to mention that I am SOOOO not submissive so I dont like this at all. You can touch my hair, you can touch my face or shoulders or whatever...but dont keep your hands there or push down or the BJ STOPS.

    I HATE it in movies when they want the guys hand on my head....I have to resist the urge to yank away.
    What she said.

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    I like when a man just lightly strokes the back of my head and tells me I'm a good girl.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1 View Post
    Preferably between my legs getting me more warmed up.
    That's my OTHER vote ^^^

    Otherwise, gently on my head is okay. Even "guiding" me once we have established how much he can do so.. as in he is respectful that I do have a gag reflex.

    Otherwise, hands off.. yet I would prefer hands on me .. between my legs.


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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    As long as he isn't using my ears as handles I'm happy! Hate that shit.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    That's my OTHER vote ^^^

    Otherwise, hands off.. yet I would prefer hands on me .. between my legs.
    That's a good one too.

    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine View Post
    As long as he isn't using my ears as handles I'm happy! Hate that shit.
    I've never had a guy to this to me and I have to say I'm really glad. I'm very sensitive behind my ears and if someone were to forcefully tug on them I would probably have a fit.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    On rare occasion I want him to keep his hands to himself, but 99.9999999% of the time I want his hands on my head! I love it. I especially like it when he grips the back of my neck so hard it's pulling my hair and his fingers are all tangled in my hair, and he just fucks my mouth all deep and slow. Unfortunately K is a fan of the passive blowjob and would rather just lie back and make me do all the work instead.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    On the steering wheel.


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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    On the steering wheel.
    GOOD ONE!!!!

    I did this for the first time the other day. It was super hot.

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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    Gently stroking my hair.

    YES! I love it when he holds my hair back and away from my face so I can fully concentrate on the task.



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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    On rare occasion I want him to keep his hands to himself, but 99.9999999% of the time I want his hands on my head! I love it. I especially like it when he grips the back of my neck so hard it's pulling my hair and his fingers are all tangled in my hair, and he just fucks my mouth all deep and slow. Unfortunately K is a fan of the passive blowjob and would rather just lie back and make me do all the work instead.
    Quote Originally Posted by TheTempest View Post
    It depends... sometimes I like to see him touching himself, sometimes I want him pulling my hair, gently petting me, touching my boobs, gripping the blankets in ecstasy.

    Man. I love giving head. LOL

    Fuck ya!



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    Default Re: Ladies, where do you want his hands during a bj

    I ticked "other" anywhere can be good, it all depends on what position youre in and the heat of the moment.
    Im not a fan of having my ears used as handles though, I dont think anyones seriously done that to me though!

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