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    Okay, I initially wanted to dance at a bikini bar in NJ; some friends of mine and I were supposed to go tonight (saturday night) but they decided that they would like to stay in PA. So, we're going to The Grandview. Well, now they are pressuring me to audition there. I called the club and asked if they were hiring dancers, they said to come in any time after 8 and audition on the main stage. Oy vey!!! Now, this is a totally nude club (big jump from bikini) and I'm SCARED TO DEATH! So, I'm gonna practice my ass off and I'll try to get the balls to audition. Any tips for dancing at a nude club? Is there really a difference between dancing nude and dancing in a bikini? Thanks everyone!

    P.S. They didn't tell me anything like no spreading legs, no touching the vajayjay, no floor work etc. I've been there as a customer before and all the girls did all of these things.

    Also, just wanted to let you all know, my stage name will be Dawn. (do you like it?)
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    In a nude bar, just act like you did in the bikini bar. The only difference is that you have to take off one more piece. I found that it is easier to dance in a nude clube. Why did you pick that name?

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    Why don't you try topless first? I'm auditioning at a club in Philly Sunday b/c I didn't have a legal thong when I went on Thursday. I think you would be more comfortable just topless first. I'm from jersey and was thinking about auditioning out here as well. Let me kno if you want someone to go with you. I'm down! PM me if anything! Good luck!

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    Even though all the girls were spreading and touching themselves that doesn't mean its not against the rule. Before you adition just double check the dos and don'ts. There are some rules that everyone in the club ignores but new girls are expected to adhear to. Good luck honey, I'm sure you'll be fine, keep us updated!



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    I picked the name Dawn because it's the name of a singer I like and I think it's really pretty.

    Oddly enough, it's not the nudity that makes me nervous, it's the fact that I'm going to be onstage, dancing by myself. That makes me super nervous. (LOL. I'm dumb.)

    Polekitten- thanks for the info, I didn't even think that the girls might be breaking the rules. I'll be sure to ask the rules before auditioning.
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    My stupid eye doctor had a "family emergency" and can't see me today. Now I have to wait until TUESDAY to get my contact lenses (my glasses are a 4 year old prescription and I'm blind in them.) I guess tuesday is a good day to audition, it shouldn't be too packed in there at 8pm on a tuesday.
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    That's probably better to go on a Tuesday, it's much easier to get up there your first time when you don't feel like a million people are watching you. I don't have any advice on being nude as I've only done topless but I wish you the best of luck!

    I would however assume that spreading and touching yourself are against the rules, not to mention that in a club you can wash your hands a million times and you'll still have some kind of germs that you won't want touching anywhere near an orifice so I'd recommend not doing those things anway. Keep us posted!

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    ^^^^Thans hun. I'll refrain from doing the spread eagle.
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    I have no idea about NJ. But it appears you want to dance in Vegas. The good clubs are topless so you don't have to worry about anyone looking at your vagina! Of course, you really should not be nervous about exposing your vagina. Its a natural beautiful body part women have. I recommend exposing it slowly like the very end of your last song if you do dance in the nude club. Still, if you are not comfortable doing that its not the end of the world. Really, customers are more concerned with your overall appearance, personality and conversation skills.

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    Ha, ha, I worked at the GV!!

    Either way, when I worked there I don't remember girls really touching themselves (but they totally did floor work and showed their pussies), except for this nasty drugged-out bitch who did this cute pole trick: Climb to top of pole, do a split so that each leg is vertical on the pole, and bang her pussy against it
    Thank god I couldn't climb that shit. Ugh

    All I can say about working nude is....don't be scared. You won't be the only one totally naked! The only difference between working topless and nude is a scrap of fabric equivalent to a really long piece of dental floss, that you keep having to pull in place so you don't get in trouble for having your pussy hanging out. Personally, I prefer nude because of that LOL.

    Don't get scared off at GV.... even though most of those girls are serious bitches, there is money to be made there. A good majority of them sit in the DR all night long, miss out on money, and then bitch later that they only made $75. So stay downstairs!


    Oh but lemme know how it goes!! I'd love to hear about how the place is doing....I actually miss it

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    Good luck! I started off in a nude club- so it just feels natural to me.
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    Okay, my friend and I went to The Grandview last night........we literally left 20 mins later because he was bored. The girls did absolutely NO dancing. The grabbed the pole, walked around it a few times and then walked to the tip rail. They ALL did only 3 things at the tip rail....grab the back of your head and rub our face in their boobs (ALL A-cups might I add.) and turn around and shake their ass a little bit, and the last move was to lay on their back, spread their legs and touch their pussy, then reach for their tip. There was almost NO eye contact with the tip rail until they were coming to you for a tip.

    Cutey- you were SOOOO right! The whole time we were there, not ONE girl approached either of us on the floor for a dance. We were all the way at the front of the stage where the girls come down the spiral stairs onto the stage, I got up and walked all the way to the front of the club for the bathroom and I didn't pass any dancers on the floor. I also saw the girl that climbs up the pole and bangs her pussy on it on the way down.

    It's also pretty high contact for a nude club. Some girls STARTED their set butt naked....seems like a little too much exposure for $1. The other thing I saw was, the girls (in an attempt to get a customer to buy a dance), would literally straddle him on his seat and talk to him. I didn't see anyone tipping them for their time and only 1 person bought a dance during the time we were there. But I think the guys are willing to pay, it's just that the girls lack any hustle. I think they give too much for $1 and/or in anticipation of a sale. If I've already seen you butt naked on stage, dancing and had your boobs in my face, why would I need to buy a $20 dance? To have you grind on me? You did that already before I even had the offer of buying a dance.

    So, I'm WAY less nervous because I obviously don't need any dance skill for this place. And this will obviously be a great place for me to start to develop my hustle and my skills. I don't think I'll have too many problems with the girls because I'll be on the floor too much, hustling. When I say that these girls didn't break a sweat, I mean there was not enough movement in the place for them to sweat, they didn't dance for tips, they smiled for them. However, the place STAYS packed (I'm assuming because it's the only club in the area); so there is definately money to be made. Plus, I'll be the only black girl, so I'll instantly stand out! YAY! I will update you ladies after my audition.

    P.S. They have these gel-like, bendy poles....Has anybody seen this before? Is it just for the look or does it serve a more practical purpose like to not hurt the girls as much as a stiff metal pole would? It looked like clear gel (air bubbles and all) in a flexible, clear plastic tube. The stage and set up are really nice though.
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    I'm not trying to scare you, but honestly I bet you'll get a lot of shit from the dancers there. Why? Because your gonna go home with the bank.

    New girls, unless they look really scared usually make good money on stage because they smile a lot and they don't look mechanical and of coarse are a fresh face and moves.

    If you are out hustling they are going to notice you getting dance after dance in a club where usually only a single dance was sold in the night. You better believe they are going to get pissy over that.

    Coming in with a new way of doing things and blowing them out of the water is going to spark up jealousy unless they are smart and decide to start coping you, but I kindda doubt that will happen or they would have been doing it a long time ago, so just watch out for that. You can look at the Melbourne girl thread, the new girls need to be taught a lesson thread that are flying around here recently and see a new girl with a new way of doing things isn't really appreciated.

    If I were you I'd head in there anyways and keep a real low profile, get ready before you get there so you can just jump on the floor and do your thing before they even notice, because as a newbie or even a vet things people say can really get to you (example bitchiest thing a dancers ever said thread).

    Who knows they may not even care your there, but I would be ready to handle a situation in case they do. Either way I think you can really dominate this club if the guys are willing to try something new.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joplin View Post
    I'm not trying to scare you, but honestly I bet you'll get a lot of shit from the dancers there. Why? Because your gonna go home with the bank.

    New girls, unless they look really scared usually make good money on stage because they smile a lot and they don't look mechanical and of coarse are a fresh face and moves.

    If you are out hustling they are going to notice you getting dance after dance in a club where usually only a single dance was sold in the night. You better believe they are going to get pissy over that.

    Coming in with a new way of doing things and blowing them out of the water is going to spark up jealousy unless they are smart and decide to start coping you, but I kindda doubt that will happen or they would have been doing it a long time ago, so just watch out for that. You can look at the Melbourne girl thread, the new girls need to be taught a lesson thread that are flying around here recently and see a new girl with a new way of doing things isn't really appreciated.

    If I were you I'd head in there anyways and keep a real low profile, get ready before you get there so you can just jump on the floor and do your thing before they even notice, because as a newbie or even a vet things people say can really get to you (example bitchiest thing a dancers ever said thread).

    Who knows they may not even care your there, but I would be ready to handle a situation in case they do. Either way I think you can really dominate this club if the guys are willing to try something new.

    Joplin- It's so funny that you mention the "nastiest thing a dancer has said to you" thread; I JUST finished reading it. I think you're right. I think there will be a lot of animosity and cattiness; but it's okay. I don't give a damn what anybody says to me. I've had to learn to deal with stuff like that my whole life. But I will make an example of any girl that's ballsy enough to put her hands on me. Whether I get fired or not, I'll fight her like she's trying to kill me. So as long as nobody gets physical with me (I'll never hit first, that's just me.) we won't have a problem.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joplin View Post
    I'm not trying to scare you, but honestly I bet you'll get a lot of shit from the dancers there. Why? Because your gonna go home with the bank.

    If you are out hustling they are going to notice you getting dance after dance in a club where usually only a single dance was sold in the night. You better believe they are going to get pissy over that.

    No offense but....it's their own fault that they don't make money. Jealous, maybe, but fuck that. If someone sits in the DR all night, then they have no right to pick fights with those who are doing what they are supposed to be doing, as long as the hustler isn't announcing how much money she's made or something.


    Oh yeah Sparkle just wanted to mention, being the only black girl will no doubt work in your favor!! There was only one black girl when I worked there, and she made a lot of money and was always in the lapdance booth.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cutey5032 View Post
    No offense but....it's their own fault that they don't make money. Jealous, maybe, but fuck that. If someone sits in the DR all night, then they have no right to pick fights with those who are doing what they are supposed to be doing, as long as the hustler isn't announcing how much money she's made or something.


    Oh yeah Sparkle just wanted to mention, being the only black girl will no doubt work in your favor!! There was only one black girl when I worked there, and she made a lot of money and was always in the lapdance booth.
    That sounds great! If all goes well at my Dr.'s office, I should be auditioning tomorrow night.
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