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    I feel ugly when men at the club won't tip me but tip another girl. I dont mind because I know for every one customer who doesnt like me there are others that will and tip me. I feel ugly when the ugly skinny crackhead looking chick makes money but Im struggling trying to make money for the night. i know everyone has good nights and bad nights but today i feel like crap. I went into the club makeup done, looking sexy and ready to go. I go in and see money to be made.....chicks who barely look like they even took a shower come in and make cash. ughh....i know it seems like im making assumptions but this is really what happens and in nj where contact is on a high level especially in minority clubs. i have my limitations of where you can touch me....and thats never going to change. But today, i just feel like im not attractive.

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    Do you know that I would KILL for your body? If those crackhead chicks where making money and you weren't, they were probably allowing a lot more contact than you were and if that's the case, it's not worth it.
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    Everyone has good days and bad days. And men all like different things. Don't take it personally.

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    well... not to sound really mean... but if you feel ugly, it will show and you will most likely not get tipped. you are gorgeous!! flaunt it!

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    yes, I hate those days too. where I feel so fat and unattractive, because I'm not the "type" of girl most the guys like in the city I worked at. its frustating, but u have just flaunt ur stuff like Corgan said, and look confident.
    Even though humbeley speaking I think I'm one of the prettiest girls working, but something about the crackhead look does something for custies (like more contact, ect) I dunno, I feel u though.

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    We've all been there hon. You know your gorgeous and you know you can make money, your just having an off day. Treat yourslf to somthing nice, a bath or a manicue, forget about how your feling and make yourself feel pretty, it always works for me.



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    Thanks ladies.....all the comments made me appreciate who i am. This week was just an off week, Im going to Scotland for school on the 23rd for 10 days...and wanted to have some spending money. The past few days was full of female patrons not tipping and then male patrons not tipping or drinking. I think I need to evaluate a new club...Im too sexy and too damn smart for this bullshit. but this industry makes you second guess sometimes.

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    I feel you. But if that is you in your avatar, you look really pretty.

    Funny thing is, I am the one who is considered 'crack head skinny' at my club and I am so not. I have even gained a couple of lbs. since i have started working there. At 5'2" and almost 110, I'm pretty damned healthy!

    But most of the Latin guys that come into my club like ripples and folds and weight to 'play with'.

    But like what the ladies said, you have your good days and bad days.
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    LOL....no there is a difference between skinny women, whom I appreciate and then chicks who looked like they were smoking crack working. Yet you are so right...we have our good days and our bad days.

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    yea i feel u. I just came back to dancing again...and all the girls are a size 0 and im more of a 6. i used to weigh 20 pounds less over 2 years ago..but i wasnt eating. I hate how guys want girls who look like they havent eaten in 4 years. Starving myself to death or developing other bad habits to keep my weight down isnt worth it. Im 5'4" and weigh 135. I work out as well. Idk its not worth it to look like a skelton and be like everyone else. I am who I am now I dont want to be anyone else. Just me.

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    Some days just have trends, and I guess this week you haven't really been included in them. I've been there too but you have to keep your head up because the second you start to doubt yourself it's all over. Try to look at it as a challenge because if there is one time when you really need to master your hustle it's on a day where you don't seem to be the type. Show those guys what their missing!

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    hmmm. for a while there, the girls i'd see making bank at my club were the types who wouldn't wear makeup or wash their hair or bother with anything at all. some of them looked really trashy. i don't know if they were or not, but i do know that there's always a guy willing to find out. and the nasty girl is an easier gamble than the girl who looks like she's got some dignity.

    experiment with your look. i've done pretty well since i started wearing plainer makeup. don't think i'm as hot, but the money sure makes me feel sexy.

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    Baby, I feel you. I KNOW what you look like- (this is bb from sg if u didn't know) and you should be cleaning up where you are at!

    I know your pain. One night I had to lock myself in the bathroom to cry after being completely ignored at a club I worked at. I barely made anything over tipout and I was lucky to get that from a regular and only because I lied and promised him he could take me out for breakfast!

    That was my last night at that place, the next club I did better and rarely felt unattractive.

    Don't give up just yet- I know the odds are stacked against us in a way because of other people's hang-ups.....but maybe you should look elsewhere.
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    this is how i feel after tonight too wednesday and friday night i felt like the dancing queen of the night, but tonight i get ignored and every other chick in the club was bankin,... ah well :/ we have our days!!

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    Well, you're just going to have to start allowing more contact and that's all there is too it missy



    I am so kidding. Seriously, we all have days like this. And not to be mean, but I can think of more than one occassion where it seems like every damn girl in the club BUT you is giving a dance, and you got rejected for the millionth time, and then suddldenly you look over and see the nastiest ugliest fugliest thugliest girl in the club walk towards VIP. And you feel hideous and WHY ME!!

    I would like to add that the night I made the most money in my life EVER (3500 bucks ) I was totally unable to get a dance all night. I was walking around aimlessly when this guy grabbed me and said lets do a dance in VIP... and the rest is history.

    So no matter how you feel, no matter how broke as a joke you are...... there will be somebody around the corner waiting to sweep you off your feet.

    And PS who cares if you're not every man's type? Again all you need is ONE man to make your night.
    Sexy Jasmine after getting fucked over at work:

    God loves strippers and when guys do things like that its an automatic ticket to HELL!


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    Perhaps you stopped spending money on her. Strippers need money to operate. They are like coin operated juke-boxes of love.

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    I know it's hard to keep this in perspective, because it's human nature to feel personally rejected when guys don't spend money. But you have to think
    A) what type of people go to strip clubs?
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    B) do you really deep down care what they think of you?
    Most of these men are mileage hounds, honey and lots more of them are SCUMBAGS. Who are these assholes, anyway? Do not let them take up space in your head or in your heart! They don't deserve the beauty that is you. Remember this and it will hurt a lot less.

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    I can relate to feeling irked because a girl who does'nt put as much effort into her routine or show and takes alot of the business in the club from my recent experience some of these girls are offering alot more. I found out later that this certain new girl in this club I work at was offering more than just a dance when she approached a regular of mine and immediately offered him over and above what other girls in the club offer, which also explains why the other girls in the club are so cold towards her and its because she is new at the club.

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    this happens to the best of us. what ever you do don't let it get you down becaus guys will sense it. you have one hot body so you have absolutely nothing to worry about!
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