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    Along with being diagnosed with hypothyroidism today (see crisis # 1) I was also diagnosed with clamydia. I know that my boyfriend gave it to me because I was tested in september, and took anti-biotcs for foliculitis several months ago as well. I don't kno whow to tell him, I don't want to sound accusatory, and I don't want him to think I gave it to him either. Please advise. How do I tell him?
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    Sorry, just to double check, you got tested in September and you were clean and the only person you've had sex with since then is your bf?



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    ^That sounds like it to me.
    Fawn, just be straight out. "I have Chlamydia and I am being treated. You need to be tested for it." Its not a fun subject to talk about. And WTF is he giving you chlamydia for??? Where the hell has his dick been? He needs to come clean on some of his side sexual activities. I hope that you caught it in time so it did not cause any problems such as PID.
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    If I were you, I'd be rather pissed. You should kick him in the balls and send him packing.

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    Chlamydia doesn't cause symptoms in men most of the time. He could've had it for awhile and not known about it, but he does need to be treated or it could damage his testicles. And it's certainly possible he could've been cheating, so you guys should have a chat.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Chlamydia doesn't cause symptoms in men most of the time. He could've had it for awhile and not known about it, but he does need to be treated or it could damage his testicles. And it's certainly possible he could've been cheating, so you guys should have a chat.
    Damn, you're a much more diplomatic person than I am

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    Yes, I've only been with my bf since I was last tested. No, he's not cheating on me. I'm sure he gave it to me and not the other way around, but I doubt he knew he had it. I still don't know how I'm going to break it to him.
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    Its gonna suck but just tell him you got tested in Sept and ask him when he was last tested. Say you came positive this time and would like him to get tested. If hes a normal person hell just do it and move on.

    Well, be sure to let him know that he can now pee in a cup to get checked and that they dont do the swab in the pecker thing. I know that kept a LOT of men from getting checked and some think its still how its done.

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    Yeah, I guess your just going to have to suck it up and tell him. Just sit him down and tell him straight. He'll appreciate you telling him sooner rather than later as the sooner he gets it checked the better.



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    Make sure he gets the treatment and tests clean before you have unprotected sex again.
    I know it sounds so obvious, but it's hard to resist....

    I had clamydia and at first I was given a 2 week course of antibiotics, and needed to abstain from sex for 4 weeks. It didn't happen. We kept giving it back and forth to each other, until finally the doctor gave us both a one shot deal. You drink the antibiotic right there in the office, abstain from sex for 2 weeks and your good to go.

    But what I told him was....

    My tests came back from the doctor today. I tested positive for clamydia. I was given the drug to cure it, and you need to see the doctor and get medicine also.

    we came to the conclusion that he gave it to me, as I had previously been using condoms with the only other guy I had had sex with. I knew he hadn't cheated on me. I didnt accuse him or get mad. I just told him, we got treated, end of story.

    good luck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adrenaline View Post
    Damn, you're a much more diplomatic person than I am
    No doubt! Plus if you guy jumps to accuse you I'd smell a rat.

    Just my two cents.

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    Honestly y'all, I have HPV and I didn't know about it til I went to the gyno for my annual because there were no symptoms...

    Just sayin' he might actually not know.
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    I agree he could have been harboring it for awhile with no idea. I caught chlamydia once. It sucks,but as STD's go its no big deal. A handful of antibiotics and you're fine in a cpl days. I had been having a ton of unprotected sex with hubby and he tested negative.

    It doesnt mean he was cheating on you. Since it often shows no symptoms(I didnt) he could have had it for awhile and since there was no reason to get tested he never found out. I didnt pass it to my husband, but eventually I could have. SO maybe he just now passed it to you...

    It warrents a conversation,but dont be accusatory right off the bat.

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    I told him, it went pretty well. I think he's more shocked after having it sink in over night, but he's dealing with it just fine. Also, I was told not to have sex until I completed the meds and waited 1 week. Is this not how it normally goes?
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    yep...thats normal. No sex until you complete treatment. Is he getting tested too? Might as well do it now so if he is positive you dont have to wait ANOTHER week to get freaky!LOL

    Bu the treatment works perfectly. I took about 7 pills(yes at once), waited a week and got re-tested(at an expense of yet another $200 which is what really pissed me off. $400 in tests in one month killed my profit margin)and was clean. I was back on set in about 2 weeks(the length of time it took to get treated, then wait for the new test results)

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    i got clamydia without having sex with anybody. how weird is that?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sexysunny View Post
    i got clamydia without having sex with anybody. how weird is that?

    Do you mean actual intercourse? Cause you get it through sex, or other kinda of sexual acts.


    http://health.yahoo.com/sexualhealth...-hw146906.html

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    Quote Originally Posted by sexysunny View Post
    i got clamydia without having sex with anybody. how weird is that?
    Not weird at all. It can be transmitted through kissing, oral sex, anal sex, vaginal intercourse. It's an equal opportunity STD.

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