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    I went back to my club after three weeks off and was surprised to find that last night we had three girls (including me) from a few weeks ago and SIX girls that were new (within the past week). Apparently there's been a lot of turnover lately.

    Now I'm always nice to new girls, especially to the ones with little to no dancing experience, but there's a couple of these new girls that are about to find themselves on the receiving end of a very painfully-learned lesson. Me and the two veterans were talking last night at the end of the night in the DR.

    One of the new dancers will come sit on your customer's lap while you're hustling. I was at a table and the guys actually said, "Oh, no! I thought she wasn't working tonight!" when she walked in. Additionally, she steals money from the customer's tables. The customers she butted in on left about ten minutes after she hit the floor (and their lap), whispering to me on the way out that they didn't want to be there if she was there.

    Another of the new girls was trash-talking other dancers (I overheard her trash-talking to a customer and pulled her aside to tell her politely to knock it off), doing $10 lapdances (when our club sets our minimum LD price at $20; I got really tired of trying to explain to custies that "Our club says we're not allowed to charge less than $20," and hearing, "But so-and-so gave me a dance for $10." And she admitted openly that she does $10 dances.), and letting guys suck her tits and touch her cookie (through the T-back). That bitch was getting on my LAST nerve.

    So me and the two veterans were discussing it, and one of the veterans said, "These new bitches are about to find out what a dressing room party is if they don't watch out." I'm guessing that a "dressing room party" is probably not like Girls Gone Wild? These girls are "old-school" dancers; what are they actually referring to?

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    Default Re: New girls that need to be taught a lesson...

    It sounds like shes referring to a fight.

    Have yall told management?

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    ^^^ Management at this club is pretty hands-off. I spoke with one of the managers last night and he said, "If you girls want to, take care of it. If you can't handle it, let me know and I will."

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    wow. thats classy. a club with management that would allow girls to fight and look the other way.

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    ^^^ agreed. I wouldn't want to work there- what if some crackhead bitch made something up, attacked you over it, and the management just "looked the other way"?

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    The only times I've attended any "dressing room parties" there hasn't been any actual fighting. It's more like the older girls getting in someones face and bitching them out. Calling them on there bullshit.
    The club that happened at, the manager had the girls take care of it themselves first, and she stepped in if they didn't listen to the intimidation. I knew of of one instance where it came to blows and both girls got fired for it.






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    well, even if they were fighting.. 3 old girls against 6 new ones. those old girls sound really smart.

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    I think that the manager meant, "You girls talk to them and see what you can do, and if it doesn't work, let me know." Just a guess, because this manager is actually a pretty good guy. Either that, or he was just having an "off" night.

    If they'd been here awhile, I'd be madder. But as it stands, maybe they just honestly don't KNOW the rules?

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    ok, this is just my opinion, but if someone got in my face and was rude to me, i'd get rude right back and nothing would change. i'd keep doing what i was doing.

    on the other hand, if someone pulled me aside and calmly, politely, explained things to me (because some girls really DON'T know. some clubs what theyre doing is OK.) that would be a different story. maybe they don't care. either way, is getting in their face going to stop them? probably not. just because theyre new doesnt meant they'll be scared.

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    So maybe I can suggest a "kinder, gentler" way of approaching these girls?

    Is there a nice way to say, "Quit being a $10 whore"?

    (Sorry, PMS-ing and just feeling in a general bitchy mood.)

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    I'll admit I did some things in the beginning that are big no-nos. Not as bad as you listed, but some misunderstandings. I never allowed additional touching, cheaper prices or butting in on hustles, but I've made mistakes. I appreciate the girls that took me aside and nicely explained to me what I did wrong. I apologized and felt guilty and they understood I didn't MEAN it. I'd say try to talk to them. At the club I work at now, the DJ usually brings it up (I don't particularly care for this method) but it seems to work. Ah well.

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    Girls get defensive very easily. I think your best bet to get these girls to stop being idiots is to befriend them, instead of attacking them.

    I know that when I danced, I was making some mistakes that I just didn't know about. One of the older girls sat beside me at the bar one night and gave me a bunch of pointers. After that, I felt like I'd made a friend. Its easy for someone to be like "Fuck that, shes just jealous".

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    ^^^That's one of the reasons why I always make it a point to be-friend new girls in general. They are (IME) then more likely to come to you with questions or seeking advice, and more likely to listen to you.

    These two we're having problems with, though, I didn't really have much chance to actually talk to last night. Maybe tonight we can chat...

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    I'd just explain basic stripper logic. Sometimes the most basic stuff is the hardest for new girls to understand. Just say something like, "You don't have to give so much away for so little money. You'll actually make more if you give them less. IIf a guy gets everything he wants from you for $10, why would he spend more than that? Plus, we all make more money if everyone's doing basically the same thing in the back."
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    Yha girls getting in my face yelling at me wouldn't get the point across as well as just talking to them.

    Unless they are intentionally being shiesty they'll probably be happy to here they can get 20$ instead of 10. If they're all working as a pack (got hired together) maybe they jump to different clubs a lot and just undercut the veterans and then move on when they're kicked out.

    Either way yelling or fighting with them isn't going to make any thing better especially if they hold the majority.

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    A dressing room party is a fight.

    Some people are not bright and they are not that responsive to reason. This is the very reason that I have little or nothing to do with the flock of know it all I'm better than you young girls that seems to flow through my club.

    Its like a mule and a two by four. You can talk to that mule untill you are blue in the face. But when that thick slab of wood hits that hard head. You have that mules undivided attention.

    My club is my workplace. Where I conduct business. My house. When someone acts in an unacetable manners it disrupts my calm and that is just not a good thing. IF after a polite discussion of said unacceptable behavior does not resolve the issue. Things change and I'm forced to deal with it my way.

    Let the beatings begin untill morale improves and or I receive satisfaction.

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    Man... I feel like I'm being misunderstood all over the place today!

    I simply just was commenting on what i had seen. By attended, i meant happened to be there when it happened, not that I participated.

    I really do agree with talking to someone first, I was just getting the vibe from the posts that it wasn't working. Just saying what I had seen folks.






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    Quote Originally Posted by Crow2 View Post
    A dressing room party is a fight.

    Some people are not bright and they are not that responsive to reason. This is the very reason that I have little or nothing to do with the flock of know it all I'm better than you young girls that seems to flow through my club.

    Its like a mule and a two by four. You can talk to that mule untill you are blue in the face. But when that thick slab of wood hits that hard head. You have that mules undivided attention.

    My club is my workplace. Where I conduct business. My house. When someone acts in an unacetable manners it disrupts my calm and that is just not a good thing. IF after a polite discussion of said unacceptable behavior does not resolve the issue. Things change and I'm forced to deal with it my way.

    Let the beatings begin untill morale improves and or I receive satisfaction.
    See, I was wondering about this, honestly... In talking with "old-school" strippers, they almost universally have one or two stories about beating up some arrogant newbie who was screwing with their business (usually as a group). Perhaps then (as now) it depended on the club and the situation, but I feel like the "old-school" wasn't nearly as hesitant to whoop some a** as the younger folks are.

    I don't know whether that's good or bad... I do know that if I can get these whores to knock it off without ruining my manicure, it would save me a lot of trouble.

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    Yeah, when I was young I was on the receiving end of those. I was bitched out by older dancers and told everything from "stop talking to the customers when I'm on stage" to "stop wearing that costume." You can imagine how much it ever affected my behaviour. The first time I was very upset, and all the other girls told me to ignore it, so I began a campaign of "I see your point" and then forgetting about it. If you're just looking to bitch someone out, like, for fun... sure. If you are looking to solve a problem... this won't. If anyone had ever physically attacked me... police would have been called. I wouldn't rely on her passively agreeing to be anyone's punching bag.

    Here's the thing. If customers hate her, she won't make money. If all the girls hate her... that is a very hostile work environment relatively few girls stick out. You can explain the rules if she doesn't understand them, but if the club doesn't enforce them, you guys can't. Like if she is not inclined to obey them out of a "rule following instinct", or her own sense of pride and dignity, she is not going to just because you tell her to.
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    ^ really. i mean, does anybody honestly think theyre going to beat some chicks up and they'll say "oh OK! i get it now! i'll shape up. thank you oh so much " ??

    and if youre the type of person who just gets pleasure from kicking someones ass(and why else would you do it? to scare them off? there will always be new girls who piss you off).. uh, good for you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Yeah, when I was young I was on the receiving end of those. I was bitched out by older dancers and told everything from "stop talking to the customers when I'm on stage" to "stop wearing that costume." You can imagine how much it ever affected my behaviour. The first time I was very upset, and all the other girls told me to ignore it, so I began a campaign of "I see your point" and then forgetting about it. If you're just looking to bitch someone out, like, for fun... sure. If you are looking to solve a problem... this won't. If anyone had ever physically attacked me... police would have been called. I wouldn't rely on her passively agreeing to be anyone's punching bag.

    Here's the thing. If customers hate her, she won't make money. If all the girls hate her... that is a very hostile work environment relatively few girls stick out. You can explain the rules if she doesn't understand them, but if the club doesn't enforce them, you guys can't. Like if she is not inclined to obey them out of a "rule following instinct", or her own sense of pride and dignity, she is not going to just because you tell her to.
    Exactly.

    Ten plus years and I've never had the need to get into a physical altercation to solve things. I think there are more civilized ways to solve your problems than hitting someone. It sounds like a great way to spend the night in jail--and a great way to lose your job!
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    ^ really. i mean, does anybody honestly think theyre going to beat some chicks up and they'll say "oh OK! i get it now! i'll shape up. thank you oh so much " ??
    Lol- I've seen that happen before....it is possible. Usually the dancers don't come back though.

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    I don't think the point of a "dressing room party" is to get the offending dancers to change what they're doing...isn't the idea just to run them out of the club entirely?

    (and no, I've never been in a fight. Just saying...I don't think anyone is thinking "maybe if I beat her ass, she'll see that I'm right and she'll apologize and stop being a $10 whore!" More like "just get this bitch out of my club.")

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    Oh good lord.. I'm speaking of some new chick letting herself get fingered and so forth on lds.

    That bitch will get snatched up by her hair right then and there. I've done it. I've also had polite conversations with young ladies and gotten my point across very well.

    Who cares what somebody wears/. That's dumb to even be concerned with someone elses choice of stripper gear. Bah.

    I'm certianly not going to worry about some dorky young broad who can't get her head out of her butt long enough to realise that this is a job. Not find a boyfriend lets all party like rock stars social hour.

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    I want to apologize for being so aggressive yesterday. I don't know what was wrong with me, but I was in this very weird mood.

    After last night, I stuck around after closing to chat with the manager. I normally do get along really well with this manager, and I started telling him what I've been seeing. We talked for about 20 minutes, and he promised to be more vigilant about watching things. He also said, "When you see these girls doing this, don't hesitate to call them on it. If they don't respond to your admonitions, then bring them to me."

    I know I'm going to have to have the same talk with our other manager tonight, since he's usually the one who lets the girls get away with murder. Maybe I can prevail upon him to actually get the dancers to knock it off.

    Plus, I found out that in three weeks, my new club gets wired, the same as its sister club, so I can't WAIT for that to happen. Hopefully it'll keep things under control once we get the surveillance in place.

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    I don't want to touch your pee-pee. And that's what you want. I guarantee you didn't approach because of my sparkling character.
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