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    Lately I've been tossing the idea around in my head of escorting a little on the side. I've been trying to do a lot of research on the topic, and I've pretty much made up my mind that it's not something I would want to do a lot, but occasionally with a good regular would be fine with me.

    I've had this customer for about seven months now. He's a traveling business man and comes through my town once a month. He emails me a few days early, we make plans to meet for dinner. He always buys me great dinners, then I head to the club. He goes back to his motel for a bit, and by the time he comes in I'm all dolled up and out working the floor. Sometimes we'll only do $100 dollars of lap dances, once we did two hours CR ($1000). It always varies for him.

    I want to ask him about the possibility of extending our professional relationship into other territories (i.e. the escorting) Our in-club portions of our visits have become more and more sexual, (short of extras in the club, would never jeopardize my job like that) and in turn he's dropping more and more cash. I'm meeting him on Tuesday, so in my reply email I hinted about having something to talk about but didn't go into details.

    Sorry for this being long, so thanks if you're still hanging in there. My question is, how exactly do I ask him about this? Should I do it in the email before hand or wait till dinner and talk in person? Not quite sure how to approach the whole subject in general. Thanks in advance for any advice!






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    I just can't believe that you are the one doing the asking!

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    Default Re: Escorting with my Regular

    haha, yeah I didn't even think of it that way. He's pretty gentlemanly though, so for him to have not asked yet, he may never!
    I mostly want to ask him because I feel comfortable with him, and if I'm venturing into unknown territory hear, I would rather be with someone I feel good around. Ya know?






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    I would be lying if I said I never thought about this. There is one reg that I would do in a heartbeat for cash. He would never do that to his wife though. He has never cheated. Its like, we want to escort for the nice one, the one who would never want it.

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    This could be profitable,or could kill your money. Once he gets more of you OTC, he likely wont ever spend money in the club again..at least not on you. So if you decide you dont like it and dont want to do it again..you probably wont be able to go back with him.

    So if you decide to do it, be really sure and/or come to terms with the fact that you may lose him as a custie.

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    If I were with you I wouldn't discuss any of this in an e-mail.

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    Thought I would give an update.
    I saw J last night and we did discuss it. He told me it had crossed his, but would have never asked, and was glad I did.
    So, we worked out the particulars but decided to wait until his visit next month.
    Hmmm...






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    Good luck! I hope it all goes as planned

    Animals are my friends, and I don't eat my friends.
    - George Bernard Shaw

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    Quote Originally Posted by CollegeCutie21 View Post
    Thought I would give an update.
    I saw J last night and we did discuss it. He told me it had crossed his, but would have never asked, and was glad I did.
    So, we worked out the particulars but decided to wait until his visit next month.
    Hmmm...
    Be careful. Be VERY careful. Sounds like a gentleman but make sure someone knows where you are and with whom. Get his REAL Name and a cell number plus an e-mail. And bring condoms with you just in case he "forgets".

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    I'm intrigued, so how'd it go?

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    ^^ I won't see him again until April. I'll update then.






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    Discuss in person.

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    what exactly will the escorting entail?

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    I'd say to let HIM bring it up. Hint around but don't be direct.

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    Out of curiosity what does one charge for this sort of thing? I assume you would have to be charging more than what he would spend in a night at the club.

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    I'll tell you a funny story which demonstrates how utterly naive I was when I first started dancing. So it's, like week 3 of being a stripper, back in 2005. This businessman and his friends come in and I insult them all night, and this one little funny dude totally gets off on it, so we sit getting drunker and drunker and insulting each other in the CR. They're big spenders and it's funny as all hell and me and this guy totally hit it off. He starts coming in to see me regularly and we email each other, and sometimes he sends me home in his lincoln - like, sends the car to the club to pick me up and take me home. I always stopped a few blocks from my house just to be safe.

    Anyhow, he eventually, after maybe a couple months of back and forth, asks me out for dinner after work. I trust him by then and so I'm like 'yeah, sure'. So he picks me up after work at 8 pm (I worked a day shift) and we're driving to a restaurant in manhattan when he's like, 'oh, I need to stop at my apartment for a second. You wanna come up?' I'm like 'sure!' we go up, and he shows me round this apartment which is like brand spanking fucking new, and then he starts asking me questions and saying 'you could live here you know', and I'm like 'why would I wanna live here? I have a place!' and then he's like, 'we don't have to go out for dinner, we could stay in,' (bearing in mind this guy has received little more from me than a brief kiss on the lips when I was feeling charitable one night, a lot of insults and many dances) back and forth, back and forth. And then after like a half hour I'm like 'dude, I need to eat, let's leave', and then he hands me 200 bucks and is totally embarrassed. I'm like 'what's that for?' and he's all 'nothing'. And then of course he says he needs to meet his friends for dinner and maybe we'll do it another night, and sends me home in the lincoln. We stay friends and he comes in from time to time, until I move clubs and we lose touch. BUT WHY DID IT NEVER OCCUR TO ME THE POOR MAN WAS LOOKING FOR A GUMAR?!! I would have been totally up for that! Nice, rich, married cute jewish guy!

    Damn my English innocence!!!

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    Whats a GUMAR?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Whats a GUMAR?
    Slang for Mistress or kept woman.
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    ah..thanks. Thats a new one on me!

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    ^ so does escorting with the regular mean you'll have sex with him?? i'm confused. are there escorts who escort and don't have sex or any sexual relations or does that justn ot happen?

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    When I said escorting I did indeed mean sex.






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    I'm curious what the going rate is, too. I know here in Indianapolis I think the going rate for escorts is around $250/hour, which flips me out because that's less than a champagne room.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    I'm curious what the going rate is, too. I know here in Indianapolis I think the going rate for escorts is around $250/hour, which flips me out because that's less than a champagne room.
    I have no idea what the going rate is in Indiananapolis

    Going all the way on a date with a regular has to be worth something !!! $2000 !? IDK ... You have to compare how much money he is spending in the SC all-to-gether.

    Don't compare this to the rate for escorts around ... Two completely different things !!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gypsy74 View Post
    ^ so does escorting with the regular mean you'll have sex with him?? i'm confused. are there escorts who escort and don't have sex or any sexual relations or does that justn ot happen?
    Almost always. Escorting w/o sex is rare.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    I'm curious what the going rate is, too. I know here in Indianapolis I think the going rate for escorts is around $250/hour, which flips me out because that's less than a champagne room.
    Just a suggestion.
    Go on Eros-Guide (erosguide.com) for your locale and look to see what the "VIP escorts" are charging per hour and charge something comparable.

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