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    So I'm reading the new issue of Marie Claire. Theres an article that really hits home with me..about a brother finding out his sister did porn. And apparently this is something he needed to tell the world...why exactly? Because he's SOOO ashamed of her he needs everyone to know???
    He tells how their father died when they were young, their brother started molesting her when she was 6 and kept doing it til he was sent to jail, Their mother was too busy to care.(and apparently so was he since he's older then her and even as adults he did NOTHING to help her overcome anything) How she was a hard core bulemic and a crystal meth addict who just disappeared with random men. How their family didnt like her because she had no grace or class...like she wore a skintight cutout stripper dress to his wedding...blah blah blah.

    He says he hasnt heard from her in 10 years but he still has the porno mag he first saw her in.He doesnt look at it though...not just because of her but because ALL THE WOMEN IN IT HAVE STORIES JUST LIKE HER.

    Ummm...yeah. We're not individuals or people or anything. We're all just abused drugged out classless clones.


    It's SHIT LIKE THIS that makes my life difficult. It's shit like this that made my brother disown me.

    fuck them all.

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    your brother and that guy are both morons.

    living successfully is the best revenge.

    go do something right now that will make you happy, like rock out to "dance like an egyptian" or something.

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    what a douch-y loser.

    that's all.

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    I couldnt help myself..I sent a letter to the editor:

    I doubt highly that you will publish this, but it needed to be said regardless. This article was poignant and personal and I was with the author for most of it. Up until this quote at the end"I know that each one of them has a story similar to my sister's"

    I've been in the adult industry for years. Believe me,the women are not soulless automaton sex clones. We are all individuals with very different backgrounds and stories. I have a college degree, am happily married and do no drugs whatsover...I dont even smoke pot,which I'm quite sure you cant say even about your own staff. I have never been raped or abused. I CHOSE this career because of the financial and personal freedom it offered.

    Articles like this that paint adult industry workers as being all the same.... drugged out, classless, whores... is EXACTLY why people in this country remain so closed minded and judgemental. It is why my own brother disowned me...because they believe this drivel.


    If you are as female empowering as you claimed to be...you wouldnt have printed this. Thanks for taking female choice and freedom down a notch.

    Cameron Keys,porn star.

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    I love it , I hope she reads it and sends it around the office at least . My brother wont speak to me either , mostly I think because his latest is an insecure COW and was intimidated by my freedom and confidence ....I am not sure though since they never even had the decency to tell me why they hate me . Anyhoo Cam it sounds like you know where you are in life and that guy that wrote that article is the one with issues , ya know ?? My mom works in a large SUPER large retail chain and 99% of the people she works with are disgusting human beings ......the stories she tells me are crazy !! They dont even know my mom that well but they tell her about being on drugs , having multiple babies taken away from them and then having more to sell them ......a guys she works with has triplets and seems so happy with his family but he cheats on his wife ......my point is that people everywhere are scum its not the career you chose that makes make bad choices . Has that man ever thought that maybe being in the adult industry gives his sister self confidence for the first time in her life ??? I bet she is finally happy .
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    Ya know what else Cam , you should forward this link to her aswell ......your not alone .
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sindi View Post
    Ya know what else Cam , you should forward this link to her aswell ......your not alone .
    Nah..I dont want to draw judgemental a-holes to SW to come riding in on their high horses!

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    Well written Cam! I hope they post it

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    Well written Cam! I hope they post it
    Thanks. It was kind of off the top of my head and I was irritated..I wish I had waited to send it until I was calm enough to tweak it, but it is what it is.I doubt they will print it. Cant show adult workers as having brains or being happy..THAT wont sell magazines.

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    Oh..and he recalls a conversation with another brother who said how shes a whore and is doing nasty stuff..."girls, black guys...."

    So they arent just judgemental and closed minded....they are also homophobic and racist. Lovely.

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    ^^

    I think the fact that you can tell you're pissed but still be able to present collected thoughts is what makes it great! When I'm mad, I can never choke ANYTHING out in words that sounds vaguely cohesive lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aubreyyy View Post
    ^^

    I think the fact that you can tell you're pissed but still be able to present collected thoughts is what makes it great! When I'm mad, I can never choke ANYTHING out in words that sounds vaguely cohesive lol.
    Very true. I'm much the same way. I really hope they pubish your letter.

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    Ughh I hate it when people talk like they know everything just because of one person in their lives works in the sex industry

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    Shit like this is the reason I don't read those crappy magazines anymore. Fuck them Cam. And yeah, if that guy really cared about his sister why didn't he stop the abuse? For all we know, HE was the one abusing her. And also, if his sister had no grace or class, why would be invite her to his wedding. D.U.M.B.A.S.S.

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    I, too, am tired of the overgeneralizations.

    But I'm also pissed off at that guy in the article...first his sister takes a beating from her indiffertent family, then they all criticize her for being the way she is?

    Stupid.
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    Cam, you didn't get the memo that was sent around the porn industry about all of us being stupid, drug addicted, desperate, and just awful in general? I swear I forwarded it to you!

    But seriously, that article is straight up bullshit. I hate being lumped in with every other girl in porn, or the adult industry in geneal. Fuckin' A.

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    EXCELLENT response, Cam. Good for you.

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    I hoe the print it, it's very will written and from the heart.

    But why would they want to, it'll just prove that women in the adult entertainment business have a brain and then uptight housewives wouldn't buy their magazine.

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    what I dont get is if he cares about his sister so much, why didnt he try to stop the abuse? why doesnt he write an article about his psycopath brother and what a scumbag he was instead of his sister? If I was that girl, I would never talk to my family either.

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    I'm just here to offer support, Cam. You've gone through a rough time with all of this, and of course such an article would bother you--it seems to attack your identity, with all that you've been through lately. But the person who wrote this doesn't know who you are when you wake in the morning or make breakfast or when you're watching something out the window and thinking--they know nothing of the journey you've taken or what you are about. They know only about their own ambition, and they climb on others to make themselves look intelligent. Sometimes, as I think you've found out, even people who have grown up around you have no idea of what your journey has been or what you're thinking. So the generalizations they come up with mean nothing about you, and everything about them. Righteous thinking is tough to deal with: it goes right for your heart, but if you were to find out about this person, this writer, I think you would see many, many dark things--his generalizations are a mask for all that he doesn't want to know about himself. That is an old and sad story.

    So I wouldn't get mixed up in his story, Cam. It was good to write back, but I wouldn't get too caught up in it all. You won't change these kinds of minds. Better, as someone has said, to live well, and let that be your answer. Those of us who know you a little better, through SW, know that you are good-hearted, strong, and fierce in your defense of those (like Michael Vick's dogs) who can't defend themselves. And I am sure those lucky enough to be friends of yours are very glad to have you on their side. That is the true test of identity, I think: that people who have some knowledge of you think highly of you. I would not get lost in the chaos of those who don't bother to know your journey--who don't know their OWN journey, when it gets down to it. You keep on keepin' on, Cam.
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    wtf... everyone has a fucking story.


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    So all he can say about his entire fucked up family situation is that his sister is a dirty whore for doing porn? That's pathetic. He didn't divulge her identity did he? Whatever we think of pornography, there is a fucked up young woman out there who needs support, not judgement.

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    So, various members of her family abused her and probably did some pretty severe emotional damage to a little girl who had lost her daddy, and then they bitch that she has no grace or class?

    umm, yeah ok, what's so classy and graceful about letting your son rape your daughter, or letting your brother rape your sister?

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    Also, he keeps the magazine?! Oh yeah, I'm sure he doesn't look at it and beat off, he just keeps it for sentimental reasons. Jesus, if I was thumbing through a porn mag and found a spread of one of my relatives I'd probably scream and throw it up in the air yelling "My eyes! Oh god, my eyes!" It's not that I think my relatives are unattractive, but damn, I don't need to see that.

    God, I didn't even read the whole article but your synopsis of it just pisses me off! What kind of screwed up, backwoods, incestuous family is this?

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    Yeah...now I'm wondering if my brother kept the movie of mine he saw...you know for sentimental reasons. Ew. Just ew.

    He doesnt name her...but he put his own name on it, so anyone that knows him or the family will know who she is.

    The really bad thing is that he has nothing but excuses for his raping jailbird brother ( he says he watched him lying on top of her naked when she was 6,but a 9 year old couldnt really be molesting anyone....and that he knew he spent the night in her room for years) and his POS mother who,when he mentioned this to her she said she was too busy because she had to support her kids. Oh ok...so go ahead and abuse my sister because your secretary job wears you out.

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