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    So, my boyfriend went to jail this morning.
    He had DUI stuff from almost three years ago. He didn't finish the stuff for his diversion. Then they revoked it and he didn't finish that either. (There were extenuating circumstances, this is not the norm for him.)
    Anyway, we want to move so he's trying to get all loose ends tied up before we go. He went to court with a lawyer, but of course he has to do some jail time.
    He's got 240 hours, work release, that started this morning at 0800, so I just got back from dropping him off. Since he's on work release I'll still see him, but still, I can't remember the last time I slept alone, and I'm dreading it.

    I don't want to sit around being all depressed though. It's spring break so my little bro is gone from the apartment, I'm using this week to spring clean. My apartment and my boyfriends. He's not here so he can't stop me from finally getting rid of some of his crap. (He's a pack rat, for real.)

    But, I have to get some sad mushy stuff out first, so that's what I'm doing.
    Sorry for the rambling.






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    Default Re: I'm sad, and just wanted to ramble about it

    Aww I'm sorry to hear that. It'll be a lonely/tough week for you. But at least you still get to see him! It could be worse.

    *gives a hug*
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    sorry to hear. I'm sending hugs and happiness your way.

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    Default Re: I'm sad, and just wanted to ramble about it

    Thanks guys, appreciate the hugs.

    But hey, I'm already through a ton of laundry and the bathroom has been thoroughly scrubbed and re-organized. It was a little bathroom. After all the cleaning, maybe I can tackle the projects list I've got going.
    Plus, I'll be working a ton, time to get ahead on some bills.

    So maybe it's a good thing in disguise.






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    Hopefully some better things will come your way!

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    That sucks.. maybe you could reach out to your girlfriends and spend some time with them!

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    sounds like it is a good thing in disguise! good luck! *sending hugs*
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    Tough times. Things will even out though! Just stick with it.

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    Awww, sweetie! I'm sorry. But as was previously said, it'll all work out for the better.
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    Default Re: I'm sad, and just wanted to ramble about it

    I had the same sort of thing happen with an ex. He got two DUIs back to back, got arrested and served time for violating probation. What he failed to realize that while he was in jail for the probation violation (for committing another DUI while on probation for the first one) is that he had a court date for the second DUI which he missed. They didn't take him to court (same county too) for the first one and released him. Two years later he got pulled over with a warrant for missing court and had to serve time that he wasn't planning on. It was a mess.

    The blessing in disguise is that I needed time to myself. I was able to get my own life sorted out a bit more and worked like crazy. I actually realized during this time that I was much better off without him (he had a huge laundry list of problems in addition to the DUI) and ended up dumping him. I'm not saying you should do something that drastic but definitely take the time to yourself. Worrying about him ain't going to do anything

    Sleeping alone is the worst feeling if you aren't used to it imo. I just feel like something isn't right. When my current boy (I never lived with the ex) goes on a trip I always do the most girly shit ever before bed. I blast Girls Next Door or a chick flick, buy some face mask from Wal Mart that probably doesn't work and drink wine. Anything but cleaning! It helps keep my mind off of it and relax.

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    i'm sorry.

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