my boyfriend broke up with me today. over the phone.
we've been together for a year. a happy year. we've argued twice. he's always been sweet to me. i've been sweet to him. supportive and patient as he finished school and started his career.
he made me the most lovely card for vaentine's day. last sunday we had dinner and frozen yogurt and i scratched his back like i always do.
our phone conversations during the week were good. i'm very sensitive to peopls moods and i sensed nothing at all out of the ordinary.
then yesterday he ignored my calls until late last night. and today, "i think we should break up."
why? because he just moved and he says it's too far and he's tired of me dancing. both pathetic excuses because 1. we had already discussed my plans to stop dancing in the next few months and 2. we had already discussed plans for me to move closer to him.
and the whole time on the phone he is talking to me in this cold and apathetic tone, which i have never in a year heard before. not the smallest hint of remorse or sadness on his part.
what the fuck? it's like he was posessed by a pod person. i can't get my head around it.
i don't want to get back together with him...i just want to know what happened.
i put this in the lounge because i'd love a male perspective or two also. thanks...
*sigh*




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