i agree with damage on the 2nd and 3rd points. definitely, uncomfortable and harsh personality. i've been friends with guys capable of this degree of...merciless(?), cavalier attitude and they can somehow just "turn it off" when just days (or minutes!) before were all lovey-dovey.
don't get me wrong, i've seen this in women too. i don't think it's a gender thing, just personality. people like this can still be good friends (if you're the same sex) but terrible lovers/mates (no way i'd let friends or family date them).
but i disagree with the cheating thing. i definitely think the guy has something lined up on the side. just something in how you described his coldness and attitude even with a year-long relationship there (the v-day card is really messed up, nice mind-fuck. sheesh.).
good luck, there are penty of other fish in the sea. this one was rotting on the inside, it wouldn't have been pretty once he opened up. like the others say, it saved you a LOT more grief down the road!




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