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    Default How much touching is allowed?

    I'm totally new to this whole idea- I'm still in high school and I just decided that I wanted to dance through college to pay for grad school. How much are guys allowed to touch you? Also, is it ever possible to give a customer a free lap dance to get the ball rolling? Or would that be against club rules? Merci beaucoup mes cheries. xoxo

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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    1. I hope you are at least 18 to be on this site.

    2. Touching all depends on your state, your city, and county laws. Also club rules. Overall I would say that it is what you feel comfortable with .

    3. Giving a free lap dance is NOT a good idea because its setting the wrong precident. Often I charge higher than the club price. It will piss other girls off and often it is against club rules to give free lap dances.

    You are a very pretty girl if that is you in the pic. I don't know where you plan on going to college but if it is Orange County I suggest you do anything other than stripping. LA is the worst place in the US to strip according ot many on this site.

    Please read more about the site as well as hustle hut. Even though I have stripped for a good chunk of the time I have been legal, I would never recommend it to someone your age. (I know I'm not much older than you. I am only 22.) But stripping can honestly eat you alive if you don't have the maturity or know how for it. (And don't take that as an insult. I was so burnt out on it I stayed away for a year myself and have yet to go back in.)

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    If you are concerned about how much touching is involved then California is the wrong place for you to dance. It is extremely difficult to make any money (maybe even impossible) without doing contact. Even if you don't do contact you must be prepared to be groped and prodded repeatedly while trying to fend off hands. Girls next you will be doing illegal activities or far more than you are comfy with and you'll have to just look the other way. Your customers may see this and then wonder why you aren't doing the same. Its not all bad but you do have to be prepared to stand up for yourself and its difficult when the girl in the next booth over is blatantly a prostitute.

    I thought I'd be able to dance my way all through college and grad school. I was wrong. I could if I lived in another area. Last year I was so frustrated with the levels of contact in LA and the low pay that I took some time off the travel. There are places where you could dance and go to school. California is not one.

    I'd suggest starting now on hording scholarships and applying for everything possible. I hardly pay tuition because I looked everywhere possible for grants, funding, and loans so that I don't have to dance a lot to survive.

    If I had college to do all over again I would still go to a junior college to save money and transfer to a California public college (the UCs are great!).

    It worries me when I see girls counting on dancing to pay their way through school without trying it first. You may love it, but boy is LA a rough place to be.

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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    You're in California.

    So... full sex?



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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    free dance?
    hahahahahahahahaha

    no seriously.
    hahaha

    back on point:
    contact varies by state, city, even by club. California is notorious for high contact, low money, though.

    Any idea where you will go to college?

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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    Actually, doesn't it depend on where? Last I checked, the Silicon Valley area was still low-contact.
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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    Look into it a lot first.... if you're over 18, go visit clubs first and get dances or talk to girls that work there....

    I wish you the best of luck... I hope it works out for you

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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    Sorry... I'd also like to add....

    please be aware that when it is said "allowed to touch you" that is a very big gray area...

    Some clubs will say no touching but with certain girls it'll slide...

    some clubs will say no touching and mean it.... but not all guys will listen. Even if you work in a "no contact" or "air dance" club... there will be at least one asshole that will grab you anyway, and THEN be thrown out.

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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    Quote Originally Posted by austinatalie View Post
    free dance?
    hahahahahahahahaha

    no seriously.
    hahaha
    ahah my thoughts exactly!

    To get things rolling I tell them to start handing me money not giving stuff away for free

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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    NEVER give a free dance!

    Also, just because you see a girl allowing more contact than you are confortable with doesn't mean you need to follow her lead.







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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    Please do not give free dances no matter how new you are or how slow it is. That will fuck things up for the rest of us.

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    Default Re: How much touching is allowed?

    Also, in most clubs, the dancers have to give the club a certain percentage of their money from lapdances, such as giving the club $5 for each $20 lap dance that a dancer does. Do you really want to get naked for someone not only for free, but actually pay for it yourself?

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