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    My family is going through a rough time right now. My brother tried to commit suicide last night, and I hate that they won't give info cause we have no clue where he is or how he is. The police took him and that is all we know.

    My BIL and his wife are going through some rough shit and we don't know what to do.

    If you have good thoughts and or prayers to spare we would really appreciate it. I'm so sorry I have a crazy family and shit happens often but what can you do right? My mom is not well, she is blaming herself but it really isn't her fault, he's a schizophrenic and he doesn't take his meds. BIL well lets just say an intervention is needed cause we think he is in what basically is a cult. His parents know nothing and hubby and the other brother are in the talk of having to go see the little bro.

    This kills me guys, I don't know how to help and it kills me inside.

    Happy news is welcomed if you have anything, I have my kids and my pets and my husband to give me a little love and happiness but it's just a rough time and until we know how my brother is I don't think I can relax.

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    You said happy news is welcomed:


    I did a rural fire-fighter on Friday... and I was sore in the right place.. and he gave me some minor chiro as well as a fabolous massage... and it was just oooooh soooo gooood!




    So now I have Fireman Tim (who's on his 6 week vacation) who is a "city" Firefighter... and Fireman Sam who is a rural fire-fighter...

    is that good news?

    will that help?



    i don't want to mock the seriousness of the shit happening in your life ... we are here.. as you know... we are real people typing these words on this forum


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    Hey HHL,

    I'm so sorry to hear all of it--I know you've dealt with some tough things for a while. But today you will have some answers and be able to deal with things one situation at a time; try and make sure you take care of yourself and get rest in the midst of trying to take care of everyone else. You can't solve these problems all at once, much as you would like to. Just do the best you can.

    My thoughts are with you and your family.

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    Yes GoldCoastGirl, thanks.

    And I know J, I know. it just sucks not being able to do anything! well not knowing is the worst part you know cause your mind races, but thank you.

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    I'm sorry HHL. Why do the police have him-shouldn't he be in a hospital? I hope it turns out well, soon. *hug*

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    Did they involuntarily commit him? I hope he's getting the help he needs...good vibes coming your way honey. Call me if you need me.

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    Hoping your brother gets the treatment he needs to find peace and safety.

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    sorry to hear this HHL. Will pray for you

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    I always have time to pray

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    I'm sorry to hear about everything, hang in there, it can only get better.

    Animals are my friends, and I don't eat my friends.
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    Ok he called, they are now taking him to a facility. He called the police himself, calmly according to his gfriend. He called and said what he had done. Now we wait and see.

    I hope they keep him for a while so he can get the help he needs. He's being going down for a long time, not sure if anyone remembers but he lived with us and he was the one who had my car for a while well I didn't know he was ill but for this long he's not had any care and the things that he's done are just really, I should of taken him some place or done something but I can't dwell on that, he's not an ass he's sick! God I'm so stupid!

    Anyway thank you very much for the love and support.

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    *Hugs* I'm so sorry. I have family drama myself and I know how sad you feel when the people you love most are sad. I hope everything works out for them.

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    I will keep you and your entire family in my prayers hun.
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    You are in my thoughts. The only reason this is different from any other moment is that you have clothing on now in my mental image.

    I wish I had good news. It seems like really bad things, beyond the control of the good people they are affecting, are just popping up like weeds this week.

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    We saw him today, I bought him some clothes, socks, undies, shirts so he could be comfy. He looks ok, not really himself but ok.

    My BIL, don't know much but we are waiting for some news, thanks for keeping my family in your thoughts and prayers.

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    I am so sorry to hear about your brother. He is lucky to have a loving supportive sister like you. I am not close to my family- the most important thing in the world to me is my puppy. Today was the 5th day in a row of she hasn't eaten. I could barely even get her to drink water. I took her to the vet for the 2nd time this week and she is being treated at the animal hospital now. If whatever is upsetting her tummy isn't better by monday she's scheduled for surgery. Yesterday I woke up with a cold. Next week, I'm turning 25, still single, heavily in debt, and if my dog dies I will die too of a broken heart. I don't even want to think about it. Seriously, I'm just sitting at home popping tranquilizers and trying to distract myself. Take care of your brother sweetie. You and your family are in my prayers.

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    Oh Luckyone!


    :hugs:

    I swear this week has been hell for us.

    I can see a lot of people have had a bad week too and it sucks!

    When I spoke to him he said he had no one, not a mother or a sister, he feels so alone but I live in a small home, 2 br and there is 4 of us plus the dog and cat and he lived with us for a while and we didn't know he was ill, apparently he has multiple personality disorder almost too close to tell of schizo and that and well it isn't like I don't love him you know I just have 2 small kids and we rent, then what all 5 of us in the st? I can't let that happen you know.

    Anyway I'm sorry you are going through some bad stuff also, I hope your dog pulls through babe and about being single, take it easy, I know you are like "whatever" but sometimes being in a relationship makes things even more complicated than what they have to be.

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    Awww, thanks. I'm ok. As long as my dog doesn't die. If I lost her I would have a meltdown. I don't understand- is it your brother-in-law instead of your brother that's having the issues? Then you're even more of a sweetie for being so kind to someone you don't have to be. I've always noticed you write the nicest posts. You must have the best karma.

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    Oh

    No my BIL is having issues but no this severe.

    My brother is the one who is now at a facility and is who I can't have in my home.

    BIL and SIL I don't know if they are going to make it but looks pretty bad right now, some things are just not right and my husband and his other brother are going to try and help. BIL has gotten in to some weird stuff, not drugs but lets say one of those places where they kinda brain wash you and it is getting to the point where an intervention is probably needed cause the crap that they are feeding him is beyond oh man it's just out there.

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    ^^Yep HHL is one of the nicest people on the site LuckyOne! I hope your puppy gets better. I know how you feel. I lost a kitty this week

    Hopefully now your brother can get treatment HHL. It was terrible when I had to commit my mother but she got a lot better when they found the best medication combo for her - it just took a long time. Hang in there, maybe this is for the best.

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    Thanks honey, how are you doing today?

    Did you email Norm? he got an email about Baxter babe and I wasn't sure if it was you. Anyway how are you?


    Sorry you had to do that about your mom but it really is the best thing to do. It's just weird seeing them so, I guess strange, I mean kind alike a zombie but I guess they have to find what works for his body. Anyway I am actually sitting here listening to some Sade, drinking some Rum cause I need to relax and I am trying to process what he said to me and see how I can help but it's going to take time, lots of it.

    Group hug, very big group hug is what I can say cause some times life is so hard.

    I keep thinking of so many here who are going through some really hard times and I don't believe in God any more but I hope that if God does exist he can do something about all the pain we have to go through, you know?

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