Being female and hot (I'm shy).
Okay more seriously things that make a dancer unapproachable to me:
- talking to anyone (I feel like I'm being rude and interrupting).
- sitting or standing anywhere adjacent to a coworker (I can't approach 2+ dancers, I feel like I'm rejecting the one I'm not approaching, interrupting your conversation, and it just feels way too much like approaching women at a bar, which I can't do).
- Looking bored, uninterested, frowning, slouching, etc. Anything that makes you look like you don't want to be there makes me take it personally.
- playing video poker.
- hanging out with the DJ.
- sitting near a customer.
I love when the dancers at my club exit the DR or finish making their rounds, and they just stand near the doorman/lap dance booths, waiting for a dance. It makes it so easy.
I don't know what's with the anti-gothic look sentiments. I'm ridiculously preppie and clean-cut, but I like the "goth slut" look. Maybe opposites attract, maybe I just like any look that's hot.

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