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    You must become so convinced of the benefits of your product or service that you feel you'd be unjustly depriving people by not doing everything in your power to get the word out.
    So what are the benefits a customer gets from buying a lapdance/VIP room or conversation? How does it improve his life to justify the expense? When you concider that the average income is abotu $40,000 a year, 3000 a month or only $800 per week...your service has to be greatly beneficial to justify a purchase that is 1/4 or even half of a customer's weekly pay. ( vip room) Espicially with the economy in it's current state, where people are makign cut backs to luxury purchases.

    So..what benefit does a VIP, lapdance or paying for conversation have for a customer?

    Aside from it's fun...there has to be more.....

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    Luxury interactive entertainment.
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    I think its an impulse buy. Get dance, dick gets hard, get more dances because dick is being stimulated. Men are pretty simple that way.
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    I'll bite...

    For many of our customers, the stripclub is the ONE place that's still a "boys club". There are beautiful, scantily-clad women who aren't nagging them or whining. Instead of the bitchy 200-pound hag in a housecoat waiting at home for them with a rolling pin, we're standing in front of them handing them another beer.

    The fact is that men NEED that kind of release. They NEED to have a chance to just relax without bitchy wives and girlfriends around. It's a chance for them to release some of that testosterone in a safe and responsible manner.

    Plus, it gives them something to fantasize about later on. Personally, I don't care if he's thinking about me or Angelina Jolie, as long as I'm getting GREAT sex! And if he's single, then that's all the more reason he needs some fantasy material.

    Finally, I get a lot of customers that are just plain lonely. They're away from home on business, or they're new in town, or they're just passing through. I meet a lot of widowers and divorcees. A lot of times, they just want me to sit on their lap so that they can have a warm body to hold for a few minutes. All they want is hugs because they are SO STARVED for human affection/contact that they're willing to pay for it.

    I think strippers serve a valuable purpose in society!

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    the hope or knowledge that he'll get an orgasm, for some guys.

    interaction and flirting and fantasy and touch, for some guys.

    the hope that he'll get her number or whatever if he spends enough, for some guys.

    hmmmmm.......

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    Morgan's right. There are fewer and fewer places nowadays where a man can be a man. We live in an emasculating culture and they're constantly being told not to do everything that their biological nature is telling them to do. It must be extremely frustrating and confusing for a lot of them. Even the good guys don't know how they're supposed to act half the time. A VIP room (or even a lapdance) provides them with a segment of time in which they can openly appreciate a sexualized naked woman without a ton of emotional bullshit. A VIP makes them feel like successful, desired, powerful men for a little while. Every man wants to feel that way and most of them never get the opportunity outside of a strip club.

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    I get lapdances because naked girls are hot and when they dance for me, they smell nice.


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    Default Re: What benefits does a lapdance give to a customer?

    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    So..what benefit does a VIP, lapdance or paying for conversation have for a customer?

    Aside from it's fun...there has to be more.....
    I'll say simply this and get lost.

    If you REALLY want to know the answer to this you'd ask it where men could answer it.

    Women don't know what men get from a lap dance anymore than men know what women doing the dancing are feeling when giving it.

    For that reason any answer you get in this thread is apt to be sheer speculation.

    My suggestion would be to take it to Blue and ask there.

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    BTW, while we are on the subject, is it needed to point out the obvious: That it is just possible that if you are willing to judge the worth of someone simply by what you read on a website about them it might say a whole hell of a lot more about you than it says about the person you are judging?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
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    So what are the benefits a customer gets from buying a lapdance/VIP room or conversation? How does it improve his life to justify the expense? When you concider that the average income is abotu $40,000 a year, 3000 a month or only $800 per week...your service has to be greatly beneficial to justify a purchase that is 1/4 or even half of a customer's weekly pay. ( vip room) Espicially with the economy in it's current state, where people are makign cut backs to luxury purchases.

    So..what benefit does a VIP, lapdance or paying for conversation have for a customer?

    Aside from it's fun...there has to be more.....

    Well I personally would hope that the guy buying the lap dances and VIPs makes a hell of a lot more than 800 per week....

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    I wouldn't even glance most guys' way in real life, it's worth every penny for them to get my attention and they know it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Morgan's right. There are fewer and fewer places nowadays where a man can be a man. We live in an emasculating culture and they're constantly being told not to do everything that their biological nature is telling them to do. It must be extremely frustrating and confusing for a lot of them. Even the good guys don't know how they're supposed to act half the time. A VIP room (or even a lapdance) provides them with a segment of time in which they can openly appreciate a sexualized naked woman without a ton of emotional bullshit. A VIP makes them feel like successful, desired, powerful men for a little while. Every man wants to feel that way and most of them never get the opportunity outside of a strip club.
    Really? In LA plenty of men think they can be men (aka asshole vulgar nasty jerks) everywhere, including on the street (especially), in a park, at a restaurant, in night clubs (especially), at a store, etc, etc.
    If demanding respect is emasculating then i guess im gonna be stomping on some balls.
    I would like to think men just go for entertainment but you are probably right, they do it for release and for the fantasy and to be deluded and lied to, one thing i could never understand as being a positive experience as a woman. Probably why there arent as many male strip clubs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by iluvbjork View Post
    Really? In LA plenty of men think they can be men (aka asshole vulgar nasty jerks) everywhere, including on the street (especially), in a park, at a restaurant, in night clubs (especially), at a store, etc, etc.
    If demanding respect is emasculating then i guess im gonna be stomping on some balls.
    I would like to think men just go for entertainment but you are probably right, they do it for release and for the fantasy and to be deluded and lied to, one thing i could never understand as being a positive experience as a woman. Probably why there arent as many male strip clubs.
    You're really bitter and it's so sad. Are you okay? Did someone in a strip club hurt you?

    And there's probably less male strip clubs because it's a bit more difficult for men to be sexy to women and much easier to be sexy to men for women....

    women are picky, y0. Average dudes could never work the clubs with women fickleness.


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    well, here is what i think. for those guys who s not attractive, who can not get girls in the normal life, they should all get lapdance, so they can spend a lil time with girls hot like u.

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    There are many reasons and I agree with all the above but I used it for "training" during my divorce. You know how many guys can't even talk around a hot women let alone actually act correctly on a date? Well, if you spend x amount of minutes around said hot women, then you can relax more when/if it ever actually happens to you in "real life". It worked great for me. I met a woman with a playboy model body, and spent an extended weekend with her right after meeting her(with no sex LOL). And we are still together nearly 3 years later.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're really bitter and it's so sad. Are you okay? Did someone in a strip club hurt you?

    And there's probably less male strip clubs because it's a bit more difficult for men to be sexy to women and much easier to be sexy to men for women....

    women are picky, y0. Average dudes could never work the clubs with women fickleness.
    So far men in my club have been far more respectful than men outside the club
    Anyway the reason could also be that women arent into men who would never give them a chance outside the club giving them dances and lying to them? Could be that....but if you think women enjoy being seen as tricks and enjoy being made fun of behind their backs like male customers are, w/e. i personally would not feel comfortable getting a dance from a male stripper because id be wondering the whole time if he thought i was ugly and if he was disgusted dancing for me. then if i got turned on i would feel bad for getting turned on by a man who thinks nothing of me and only wanted my money. men seem to be able to cope with being ugly and unwanted way more than girls do. afterall a lot of men dont mind being used for only their money... i dont get why. thats why so many men flaunt it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HailToTheBoob View Post
    There are many reasons and I agree with all the above but I used it for "training" during my divorce. You know how many guys can't even talk around a hot women let alone actually act correctly on a date? Well, if you spend x amount of minutes around said hot women, then you can relax more when/if it ever actually happens to you in "real life". It worked great for me. I met a woman with a playboy model body, and spent an extended weekend with her right after meeting her(with no sex LOL). And we are still together nearly 3 years later.
    i love how you mention her body but not her face lol.
    most guys can get a butterface, this is true.

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    Aww, it's a self-esteem issue you seem to have. You need to not feel ugly or disgusting, it's a horrid thing. I'm sorry you feel so badly about yourself that you'd think that.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Morgan's right. There are fewer and fewer places nowadays where a man can be a man. We live in an emasculating culture and they're constantly being told not to do everything that their biological nature is telling them to do. It must be extremely frustrating and confusing for a lot of them. Even the good guys don't know how they're supposed to act half the time. A VIP room (or even a lapdance) provides them with a segment of time in which they can openly appreciate a sexualized naked woman without a ton of emotional bullshit. A VIP makes them feel like successful, desired, powerful men for a little while. Every man wants to feel that way and most of them never get the opportunity outside of a strip club.
    You are so right - I guess/hope !?

    So many of my my g/friends are so demanding to their boyfriends It's like they don't have a live on their own. Sometimes they give up any thing just to be with him !? Get a life !!

    I'm trying to give my bf plenty of room to do guy/stuff. Fishing, bowling, sports what/ever. I don't mind. I have plenty to do on my own. Could be by me self or by me g/friends ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by iluvbjork View Post
    Really? In LA plenty of men think they can be men (aka asshole vulgar nasty jerks) everywhere...
    That's L.A., and yes, most people tend to be extremely rude there. But being a man does NOT equate to being an "asshole vulgar nasty jerk." There are a lot of good men out there, decent respectful wonderful men. Demanding respect is certainly not emasculating, but designing a culture around hugs and makeup and fluffy kittens with no acceptable outlets for aggression or sexuality IS emasculating. That's what I meant.

    There is certainly no excuse for an "asshole vulgar nasty jerk" anywhere, neither in nor out of the strip club. Please don't assume that I was condoning such behavior, or that all men want to act that way. Most of them don't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    I think its an impulse buy. Get dance, dick gets hard, get more dances because dick is being stimulated. Men are pretty simple that way.
    I agree.
    People equate sexy with promiscuous. They think that because I'm shaped this way, I must be scandalous - like running around and bringing men into my hotel room. But it's just the opposite.

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    There are fewer and fewer places nowadays where a man can be a man. We live in an emasculating culture and they're constantly being told not to do everything that their biological nature is telling them to do.
    This is an interesting take, but I'm not sure I completely agree. I tend to think our society isn't emasculating so much as depersonalized and desexualized. There's very, very little room for anyone to express their sexuality in the course of a normal day. Men who do it may be seen as threatening or aggressive; women who express themselves sexually are likely not to be taken seriously, to be seen as a silly sluts.

    Maybe that's the way it has to be. I mean, in a normal workplace, I really DON'T want a random guy "expressing himself sexually" by slapping me on the ass, or describing his sex life to me. I WOULD feel uncomfortable with that. Likewise, I wouldn't go to the office and talk about how sore my pussy is from last night's brutal fucking. Maybe I'm a square, but that just doesn't seem cool to me.

    At the same time, I'm not in denial. Everyone has a sexual side. We keep them under wraps, because that's what considered appropriate and courteous in our culture. But yeah, of course, a guy might very well want to be in an atmosphere where he can openly stare at attractive women and compliment their tits without getting slapped.

    As to a lapdance itself, I do think it provides a valuable service. Human-beings desperately need contact. Without physical contact, people get depressed and anxious. Some guys are just not getting that contact in real life.

    My all-time, all-star best regular who spent an ungodly ammount of money on me over the course of a year, was a very shy man who hadn't been laid in eight years, and had panic attacks around women he was attracted to. He basically wanted to spend some time with a pretty, sympathetic, naked girl, without fear of rejection. I think it really was therapeutic for him. I'm not sure it fixed all his problems, but I think it might have done some good for his confidence.

    I had another high-dollar customer last week, who spent several hours with me and told me that his wife had just gone through menopause and lost interest in sex and intimacy. He loved her very much, and was really wistful about how great their sex life had been when they were younger. He said he had never cheated on her in 38 years, and never would cheat on her, but he still wanted to touch and be touched. He was a very nice customer.

    Another married customer last week also told me he loved his wife and wouldn't cheat on her, but he liked variety. She wasn't 28 anymore, and he wanted to look at someone who was. Made sense to me.

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    It's an escape for the guys. For a few songs they can think about boobs and ass rather than bills, bitchy wives, work, money problems, etc.

    It's a chance to get lost in the moment.
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    Quote Originally Posted by iluvbjork View Post
    i love how you mention her body but not her face lol.
    most guys can get a butterface, this is true.
    I had nothing but face on the wife, so of course I'm focusing on the "new" thing. But since you asked, she has stunning triple-colored eyes. A guy commented on it just last week.

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    I think it all depends on the customer. Sometimes it's boys night out and it may be an impulse buy because they just click with you, or they are pressured by friends, so really, that still equates to fun though.

    For a lot of guys it's a social ritual for business and a strip club makes a great bonding place for men. Having a good time together in VIP can bring people together, the social atmosphere helps you to get to know each other, and you can really impress/treat clients when you're footing the bill. I've seen many business deals being discussed/finalized either before entering the champagne room or while in there, and it gives them all the more reason to celebrate, and lapdances just go hand in hand with the impressing and celebrating. Obviously, these people have a lot of disposable income, or they are benefitting from being there, or a lot of times the company they work for covers the bill, but this is becoming a lot rarer.

    One of my best regulars who I've seen for a couple years doesn't have sex with his wife, and is waiting for the right time to divorce her(financially). He's a smart and articulate lawyer who basically wants extra excitement in his life that can come from great convo, talking dirty, getting drunk and talking about fantasies. It's a break from the everyday and something to look forward to.

    Some guys want to feel like they're helping a girl out, and they like feeling needed. I had a customer who got attached to hearing about drama in my life and I guess he liked thinking he was making a difference.

    We get a ton of guys from out of town on business or a convention, and I guess coming to a strip club and being enticed into getting a lapdance is a lot more entertaining than sitting in your hotel room. So I guess they are there for the social aspect initially.

    I personally just go to strip clubs/get dances for the fun experience that comes from the visual, social, sensual, alcohol induced atmosphere. There are a lot of different reasons people go to strip clubs, I guess it just comes down to the individual. As long as they have fun, or their needs are fulfilled, they'll be back, and that's all that matters.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HailToTheBoob View Post
    There are many reasons and I agree with all the above but I used it for "training" during my divorce. You know how many guys can't even talk around a hot women let alone actually act correctly on a date? Well, if you spend x amount of minutes around said hot women, then you can relax more when/if it ever actually happens to you in "real life". It worked great for me. I met a woman with a playboy model body, and spent an extended weekend with her right after meeting her(with no sex LOL). And we are still together nearly 3 years later.

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