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    my nipples still seem to get their share of being licked. I don't let customers do this, but you guys know how it is...sometimes it's too late and they've already have got you. Of course I tell them they can't do it, and they won't do it any more after I tell them not to, but....
    I'd say it happens maybe once/twice a night. It got me to thinking, can I get a disease from this? Does anyone know if things can be transmitted through the nipple? In particular aids/hiv? I'm sorry if this is a stupid question....but I am worried. I couldn't even imagine catching something and bringing it home to my husband. It makes me sick just to think about it. And all for a couple hundred dollars. Ugh...
    SO lets say it happens once a night, and I work 5 nights a week. That's 5 different nasty salivas on my nips. The more I think about it, the more I freak out. If anyone knows any medical facts or general info on this, please let me know.
    I have some liquid latex, I think I am going to start wearing it, especially if I find out that there are any risks in getting my nips licked. I am so fucking tired of it, I could scream. My club is full of what SW's have labeled as "bass mouth" men. I am out of options for clubs in my town, so finding another one isn't an option. I need a weapon against these fuckers.

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    Default Re: I don't let them, but....

    I think I read on another thread that hand sanitizer works well against the lickers.

    I don't think you can get a disease from them licking. Unless they are exchanging blood then I don't think there is a huge risk. The only thing would be risky is me poking out their eyes with my fingers for doing it.
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    While not quite the same as a random one time lick, I have had patients with cellulitis of the breast skin because of aggressive oral play by their partners, so I would definitely recommend washing with soap and water if you get licked.

    Maybe you could try a swipe of that no bite stuff they make for fingernails? That stuff is nasty tasting and would definitely deter any future lickings.

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    clear deodorant spray on the bewbs works really well too.

    My big peeve is actually my neck--I HATE HATE HATE custies licking, kissing, sucking on my neck. (They seem to think it's tender and romantic--I think I have to choke back vomit.) For that I either wear a really thick rhinestone choker, or smear on some of that stuff that keeps you from biting your nails. But do NOT put that on your nipples--it will BURN!

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    Quote Originally Posted by boxingdoc View Post

    Maybe you could try a swipe of that no bite stuff they make for fingernails? That stuff is nasty tasting and would definitely deter any future lickings.
    I've tried that..also Purell, hairspray and liquid latex. NOTHING deters some guys. Except maybe a quick slap to the face

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    It seems like I get it a lot too. I figured that its because I'm short and have small boobs. When a guy is sitting my nipples are already right at mouth height and when I do purposely stick them right in a guys face I guess I don't really have the projection to get them on either side of his face. Its like practically putting them right in his mouth. Soo I rarely do that anymore unless the guy is being very, very good.

    I usually slightly arch my back when dancing facing towards them and spend a good deal of time facing away since my ass is my selling point anyways. I've never had too much of an issue with guys who keep doing it after I've told them to knock it off. I suppose I've been lucky. I'd much rather deal with having my ass smacked (which seems to happen farrrr more) than deal with nipple lickers. It gives me the heebie jeebies just thinking about it and is one of the leading reasons I'm burnt out on dancing atm.

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    SO lets say it happens once a night, and I work 5 nights a week
    I hope I don't come across like a bitch or anything but that's a lot! Maybe you need to reevaluate the way you give your lap dances. Maybe don't stick your boobs right in there face. I always put mine around there eyes and I hold mine so as soon as they try to raise their face or turn so they can lick I cover. I've never heard of anyone getting a disease from that but who knows these days. I would advise changing your lap dances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by la429 View Post
    I hope I don't come across like a bitch or anything but that's a lot! Maybe you need to reevaluate the way you give your lap dances. Maybe don't stick your boobs right in there face. I always put mine around there eyes and I hold mine so as soon as they try to raise their face or turn so they can lick I cover. I've never heard of anyone getting a disease from that but who knows these days. I would advise changing your lap dances.

    Trust me, it doesn't matter where your tits are, guys WILL find a way to lick them. I've had that occasional drunk guy move his head around and follow my nipples until he caught me off guard and got it into his mouth.

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    Trust me, it doesn't matter where your tits are, guys WILL find a way to lick them. I've had that occasional drunk guy move his head around and follow my nipples until he caught me off guard and got it into his mouth.
    Your 100% right and OCCASIONAL is the key word. Like I said I wasn't trying to be a bitch. I was just pointing out that "once/twice a night" like the poster said is pretty frequent in my opinion. I'm not saying it's her fault. I just made a suggestion that she might reevaluate how she gives her lap dances.

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    This is icky, but probably not dangerous. HIV is transmitted through blood or semen, not through saliva. The only way you could get HIV by someone sucking on your nipples is if they have an open cut in their mouth and you have an open cut on your nipples and somehow you manage to get these two spots together...
    I think I'm right, but I'm not a trained medical professional, sooo.....

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    la429,
    I'm not sure how many different places you've danced, but it really depends on where she is in the country. Some places, no matter what you do, have really mouthy/licky guys. If you work at a LD factory in a place like Dallas, you're gonna have your nips licked at some point.

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    I don't really want to go back and forth since this isn't going to help the original poster resolve her issue so I'm not even going to look at this thread again. I've worked at enough clubs through the years to know that guys will try to see how far they can push you and some will out smart you and steal a lick or grab but in my experience I have never been licked once or twice a night. Maybe she works in a club that the other dancers are allowing that then my advise is don't put your boobs in their face because you already know what the outcome will be so try new things. I stick to my guns that OP should try some different moves so she doesn't keep ending up in this position. All of my advise in this post is from my experience and what has worked for me! So good luck.

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    Bitter Apple. Buy it at a pet store. Apply. Watch disgusting lickers make gaggy faces. As for disease, as long as your nipple skin isn'y inflamed or broken, you should be fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz View Post
    Bitter Apple. Buy it at a pet store. Apply. Watch disgusting lickers make gaggy faces. As for disease, as long as your nipple skin isn'y inflamed or broken, you should be fine.
    Doesn't that burn if you put it on your nipples?

    I read/heard somewhere (maybe on this board? I don't remember) that if you get bitter apple on your tongue, the only thing that really makes it go away is chocolate. Time to start selling hershey's kisses to disobedient suckers for $20 each?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    Doesn't that burn if you put it on your nipples?

    I read/heard somewhere (maybe on this board? I don't remember) that if you get bitter apple on your tongue, the only thing that really makes it go away is chocolate. Time to start selling hershey's kisses to disobedient suckers for $20 each?
    Doesn't hurt me, and I'm rather sensitive. I didn't know that chocolate might help. I sense a new hustle tactic.

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    I don't know about HIV but the thing I'd be worried about is the herpes virus. Thats extremley infectious and is a very common thing for people to have in their mouths. I got a herpes sore on my knee and I didn't even get that from a licker, I actually caught it from the carpet in work, (it looked clean but they never cleaned it.) Once you get the herpes virus you have it forever in that area and it can flare up at any time. I can't imagine how horrible it would be to get it on your nipples.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    clear deodorant spray on the bewbs works really well too.

    My big peeve is actually my neck--I HATE HATE HATE custies licking, kissing, sucking on my neck. (They seem to think it's tender and romantic--I think I have to choke back vomit.) For that I either wear a really thick rhinestone choker, or smear on some of that stuff that keeps you from biting your nails. But do NOT put that on your nipples--it will BURN!
    Does that anti-nail biting stuff have an effect (Like searing pain) if they are just trying to 'peck' on your neck as opposed to all out lick. Because that freaks me the hell out.

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    Threads like this make me grateful to work in San Diego, where the lap dances are not topless.

    Girls, I am so sorry you have to deal with this. God I would lose my mind...
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    I get that drunk guy that always trys this too. At least once a night. I've kinda just learned to move my body so it doesn't actually happen. I will admit though that on occasion they "get me"
    It doesn't help though that I can HEAR other girls telling guys "You can lick my nipples if you want to". Gah! Way to set the bar hi!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    I've tried that..also Purell, hairspray and liquid latex. NOTHING deters some guys. Except maybe a quick slap to the face
    disagree. I work with suntan oil in the vip room sometimes (to spread over my boobies all sexy like-- not for anything else!) guys have tried to lick me and after they get a mouthful of that they don't.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fancygirl View Post
    disagree. I work with suntan oil in the vip room sometimes (to spread over my boobies all sexy like-- not for anything else!) guys have tried to lick me and after they get a mouthful of that they don't.
    Trust me..some guys..NOTHING deters. I worked at one club where we had to wear latex on our nipples. It was actually sparkle paint stuff they got at the arts and crafts store. After a few hours it would peel a bit and looked AWFUL..like we all had some weird nipple disease. Guys would try to latch on to your nipple..pull back, peel the bits of paint out of their mouths,grimace...then GO BACK AND TRY IT AGAIN!!!

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    ^OMG, I SO KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN!!!

    I mean, here I am, sparkly bits of tulip paint hanging off my nipples like I have leprous mammary glands, and they act like I just put a mound of whip cream on my titties for them. Le sigh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten View Post
    I don't know about HIV but the thing I'd be worried about is the herpes virus. Thats extremley infectious and is a very common thing for people to have in their mouths. I got a herpes sore on my knee and I didn't even get that from a licker, I actually caught it from the carpet in work, (it looked clean but they never cleaned it.) Once you get the herpes virus you have it forever in that area and it can flare up at any time. I can't imagine how horrible it would be to get it on your nipples.
    Holy salt and vinegar!

    You can body-Herpes from kneeling on the carpet?! I'm doomed. Half the time this is the only position I can do to avoid the neck/ boob attacks. (Pic, I agree, the neck kissing is so gross!!).

    For the original post, all I can say is, you're probably okay. It's not ideal, but saliva can't spread as much as other bodily fluids...Let's just say that certain clubs I've been to, many, many girls have boob/tongue action as the norm. And they all seem to be walking around healthy enough. Maybe that's not very good evidence, but they seem no more diseased than others.

    For real though, why oh why do customers think we'd be okay with that kind of action? I can't tell you all how many times I lay down this rule, and they act whiny, or indignant about it. Like it's sooo much to ask.

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    Well, went in last night armed with hand sanitizer on my nips. Of course, no one even tried to go near them, haha. Just my luck. I mean I am glad, but at the same time wanted to see what would happen. For some reason last night the bass mouths weren't out. I am going to try it again tonight. It's Friday, so I'm sure someone is going to try.

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    ^^ omg! This happens all the time. It's like whenever I smear something disgusting on my boobs/neck, they can somehow sense that something's up, and they don't even try. Hey, whatever works!

    (side note re: lickers...can you imagine being so pathetically desperate? It's kind of funny, half of them acting like their whole world just came crashing down around them when you tell them they can't suck your nipple. Dude, get a grip.)

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