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    So after being ungraciously, rudely told no by the bunch of pathetic dickless snaggletooth greasy disgusting losers that were in my club last night, I'd had it. I checked in around 8:30 and by 11:30 still had not sold a dance. I walked up to a guy that looked halfway decent and once again, a rude turndown and a nasty look from him. I couldn't take it anymore at that point. I bent down and said "You know what, you are lucky I am even available to be out here asking you. I usually don't leave the VIP all night!!!" .....and stormed off. The guy had this shocked look on his face. I know it was rude, but I snapped! I went and sat with an aquaintance that comes in sometimes, and all of a sudden I felt a huge panic attack come on. I started shaking and crying. I went into full panic mode. He felt bad for me and actually went as fas as to find a xanax for me to take. Once it kicked in I was much better, but I hate the fact that I cried at work and had an anxiety attack.

    I feel like my shifts are this crazy bipolar rollercoater of highs and lows. I am either in the VIP all night or I can't sell a single dance or even get a dollar on stage, and people are treating me like shit. I am thankful for my good nights, but what sucks is that the bad nights I have are so bad, it kinda overshadows them. When my nights are good, they are really good. Like the "oh my god I can't believe I made that much!" nights. When they are bad, they are really bad, and there is never an in between. I never have one of those just decent nights anymore.
    It's driving me crazy. I mean Thursday night I had guys competing with stage tips to be the first one to take me to VIP! Then when I was in VIP, guys were actually coming in looking for me to see if I was done. The second I was done with one, I had another waiting in the wings.
    I just don't understand how I can go from that, to last night. No stage tips, no dances (until the last minute anyway). The only reason I took any money home is because there was a bachelor party that gave me a few dances right before closing and they hooked me up.
    The DJ even let me skip out on my tipout last night! He's a total sweetheart. He knew I had a bad night and just told me to "take care of him next time"

    So now here I am debating on whether to go in tonight. I really need to work and I need money. It's just kinda discouraging cause it's a total 50/50 shot for me. I am either going to come home with 500$ or 0$.

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    You know what helps is to look at the whole week as a whole and not on a night to night basis, you know?? Some nights are great, some suck ass and you really can't control who walks in the door (unfortunately) lol. I think it takes the pressure off to set a goal for the week, month etc and tp just chill and not feel bad or take it personal if u have a bad night too.

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    It happens to the best of us. The crowd is fickle. You've just gotta try your hardest not to take it personally. I know it's not as easy as it sounds.

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    I ditto VP.

    Everyone has their good nights and bad nights. Mine seem to rotate pretty consistently. Just remind yourself of how you felt when you spent the night in VIP. It'll keep your mood up and will help you make money even when you're having a crappy night.
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    Default Re: I snapped...

    When I'm having a bad night, asshat custies make me even angrier. I feel like killing sometimes, lol. At least your dj was being nice, that's rare sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CherryBomb954 View Post
    So after being ungraciously, rudely told no by the bunch of pathetic dickless snaggletooth greasy disgusting losers that were in my club last night, I'd had it. I checked in around 8:30 and by 11:30 still had not sold a dance. I walked up to a guy that looked halfway decent and once again, a rude turndown and a nasty look from him. I couldn't take it anymore at that point. I bent down and said "You know what, you are lucky I am even available to be out here asking you. I usually don't leave the VIP all night!!!" .....and stormed off. The guy had this shocked look on his face. I know it was rude, but I snapped! I went and sat with an aquaintance that comes in sometimes, and all of a sudden I felt a huge panic attack come on. I started shaking and crying. I went into full panic mode. He felt bad for me and actually went as fas as to find a xanax for me to take. Once it kicked in I was much better, but I hate the fact that I cried at work and had an anxiety attack.
    babe, i've so done that. our ego's and self esteem can only take so much. i'd suggest a couple days off, get a new outfit or your hair done and come in and kill it.

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    Bah lately I'v become comepletley bipolar too. But like VP says just look at how much money you make in the week. I usually end up making pretty much the same week in week out.
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    That's stripping! That's how it goes. It's stressful when you're not having a good day, but it really does help to look at averages instead of nightly earnings. It really does not help anything at all to take out your frustrations on the customers. I'm sure you probably already thought of this, but what if there was another guy who wanted you until he saw you being rude to that douchebag?

    I consciously talk myself out of my negative thoughts, each day I work. It's tough but it's a habit now that helps me take rejection less personally and move on to the next thing.

    So you made $500 one night, then $0 the next? You still made an average of $250 a night, not too shabby by any means!

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    That was last night and just remember that this is a new night! Just try to shake off the bad memories/feelings from the night before and start fresh.

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