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    Okay, check this out:

    My mom and I went out to lunch today at a resturaunt we've gone to fairly consistently for YEARS, like since I was 18 and she goes there without me too obviously.

    Everything was fine and as we're leaving and I notice that somebody is parking me in. I am in an angle spot and somebody is parked right behind me, where there is no spot. I would have had to drove the wrong way around the ENTIRE lot to exit. I'm no goodie two shoes, but the lot was busy and didnt want to get in an accident.

    I know who the manager is and I politely went up to him and pointed out the window and asked him if he could help me find out who was parking me in. He told me to JUST DRIVE THE WRONG way around the whole parking lot, even though this is like a circle lot with only one lane and as we look in the window , you can see cars driving around. Not like it was dead. Let's call the manager Ken.

    So as I am again calmly explaining to Ken that I would prefer not to do that, some fuck from the bar comes running up to me and saying, "Oh that's my car! It's in a spot!" (It wasn't) I know Ken doesn't like me saying this, but I know him and he's the owner and they let me park wherever I want. I'm a special customer here" and laughing at me the whole time.

    He proceeds to keep talking and literally get up in my face and my MOM's face as he is doing so!! I get really protective of my mom and he was being out of line, so I just yelled "Fine ya asshole" pushed past him grabbed my mom and dragged her out the door.

    I'm not really as upset about the asshole cause assholes are assholes, but Ken, really? I mean we go there so much he sat us at our "regular" table!! Ken did NOTHING to stand up for me and I know damn well if this asshat had parked a man in, he would have gone outside and moved his car.

    I will CLEARLY never be going back to this resturaunt again, and maybe I'm being over dramatic, but I felt really awful about the way they treated me. It was so disrespectful. I'm in the service industry and if I was bartending, I would have sure as shit told my asshole friend to go move his car. I just felt like they were totally picking on my because I'm a stupid girl, right??

    My final comment on this is also OBVIOUSLY the asshole who parked me in KNEW he was in the wrong spot, or why else would he have come running when he overheard people talking about being parked in? He couldn't see from his vantage point what car I was talking about and it's a big lot.
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    You were completely justified. I think I would have spit at the 'fuck from the bar.' Although I think "Fine ya asshole!" is priceless!!

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    Does Ken realize how hard it is to earn a customer? It only takes a second to lose one....

    That really sucks, many restaurants here have horrible parking lots.

    A couple of weeks back one of my fav Japanese restaurants totally f'ed up my takeaway. The baby was sick and I wanted to treat the empress to something nice, and no cooking.

    The order was not ready when I got there. I had to re-order and wait 20 minutes. The don katsu was cold and oily, the chicken Teriyaki leaked in the bag... Nothing was sealed like normal... According to their signs they are hiring all new wait staff.

    I have not been back since. At their prices I expect a certain quality. I seriously doubt I will ever go back.

    Glad this restaurant was not a place I take my mom. It is hard to get her to go out even. I know what it is like to lose a restaurant a mom likes as well, but that is another story....
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    The way I see it the manager "Ken" is an asshole and a loser.

    He's lost the business of you and your mom, two good customers, by his actions!

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    Default Re: Treated like stupid girl in resturaunt today....UGH!

    Yup, he was an asshole...you called it. It would have been sooooo easy for him to be a gentleman, apologise and move his car for you. Then, having done the right thing by you, he could conveniently pull into the now empty proper parking spot.

    Don't feel bad that you lost your temper...it happens. It's too bad for them and for you that you won't be going back to the restaurant, but you'll find another favourite soon.

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    I'm a little bit evil about things, but I likely would have backed into the guy's car just to prove a point.

    But I drive a car with no resale value because of high miles. And I've got great insurance!


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    Yeah that sucks. I wouldn't ever go back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    I'm a little bit evil about things, but I likely would have backed into the guy's car just to prove a point.

    But I drive a car with no resale value because of high miles. And I've got great insurance!
    Ohhhhh yes.

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    Thanks for the support guys ... I now feel justified!!

    Paris, I thought about doing that too, but was afraid they'd call the cops on me hahaha.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    I'm a little bit evil about things, but I likely would have backed into the guy's car just to prove a point.

    But I drive a car with no resale value because of high miles. And I've got great insurance!
    Letting air out of tires, is simple, and while easily repaired, a pain in the ass....
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    ^^^ Mwahahaha! Or... ping pong ball in the gas tank.

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    Gas tank? Nah, Tomatoes in the tail pipe.
    One more cup of coffee for the road,
    One more cup of coffee 'fore I go
    To the valley below....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Paris View Post
    I'm a little bit evil about things, but I likely would have backed into the guy's car just to prove a point.

    But I drive a car with no resale value because of high miles. And I've got great insurance!
    LOL. Yeah. I did that once. You won't move it? Fine I'll PUSH it outta the way!

    I had a fucking 92 plymouth sundance. Like I gave a fuck.

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    Default Re: Treated like stupid girl in resturaunt today....UGH!

    I'm picturing that scene from "Fried Green Tomatoes", where the main character goes to pull into a parking spot, and a bunch of young kids zoom in in front of her, and say, "We're young and we're faster!"
    She replies, "I'm old and I've got better insurance!" and rams their car.

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    Let the guy know why you're not coming back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    LOL. Yeah. I did that once. You won't move it? Fine I'll PUSH it outta the way!

    I had a fucking 92 plymouth sundance. Like I gave a fuck.
    Yeah I did that once too. In Atlantic City a guy pulled in behind me WAY too close and blocked me in. I was almost to my car when he was walking away..I yelled out to him "Hey..can you move? You blocked me in" He half turned and gave me the finger. So I got in my car and backed into him as hard as I could...pushed him back an inch or so and I could get out. I knew he was too far away to see my license plate so fuck him. Thats what her gets for being an asshole.

    In the OP situation..if he really was not in a real spot..I'd have called the cops.Screw them all.

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    Tawanda!!

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    Sounds like Ken would be a great stripclub manager.

    One "ahh shit" can ruin a thousand "at a boys". You did the right thing. Fuck him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    Let the guy know why you're not coming back.
    I'm sure he knows lol!! No, seriously tho, I don't even want to give him the pleasure of knowing he pissed me off. I'm sure he'll put 2&2 together once he realizes we never came back ... (this is a really small family owned place)

    Dammit you guys now I really wish I would have hit his car!
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    How about this one. Im in Oakland with hubby - just finished shooting so I look like shit, wearing his sweats, whatever. We go to Dennys and are eating. Meal was like $22 and since its a write off and we got pretty good service I planned to just round up the bill to $30 for a tip.

    We go up front and the manager is ringing up out order and the waitress comes by and says "Tips are appreciated" WTF?! At the time I didnt think about it and just tipped as planned and left.

    When I got back to the hotel I was thinking about it and got so pissed. wtf is wrong with people? She totally assumed we werent going to tip and little did she know I had just gotten a check for $1300.00 before I came there. It still irritates me when I think about it. I wish I had said something and not tipped her or left a quarter with a note. Damnit. Never going back there.

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    I would have called a tow truck company.

    And what a STUPID fucking manager. It's easier to keep old customers than make new ones. Dur.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryripeboy View Post
    A couple of weeks back one of my fav Japanese restaurants totally f'ed up my takeaway. The baby was sick and I wanted to treat the empress to something nice, and no cooking.

    The order was not ready when I got there. I had to re-order and wait 20 minutes. The don katsu was cold and oily, the chicken Teriyaki leaked in the bag... Nothing was sealed like normal... According to their signs they are hiring all new wait staff.

    I have not been back since. At their prices I expect a certain quality. I seriously doubt I will ever go back.
    Did you tell them that your order was messed up? If it was my favorite restaurant I'd at least give them a chance to make it right. If they are in the middle of hiring new people, it might be because they know they have some problems with their current staff.

    Anymore, I really don't expect anything close to good customer service, because it doesn't exist! But even with my low expectations, I can't help but notice spectacularly bad service almost everywhere I go. The last time I went to the movies there was a group of teenagers making a bunch of noice. It kept up as the movie started and I went out and told the concession worker about it. They did nothing. An hour went by and the group was still making noise, and at that point they were climbing over seats and just acting like dipshits. This time I turned around and said something and that, of course, made it worse. Again, I went out and complained. This time they sent a guy in and all he did was look up at the group and walk back out.

    After the movie was over my friend and I complained to the manager and asked for our money back. The manager refused and told us it was our fault for saying something to the group and that he wouldn't give us a refund because we had stayed and watched the whole movie. Nevermind that we had constant disruptions, WE were in the wrong for staying. It pissed me off so much. I wrote an email to their customer service and never heard anything back. What the hell is wrong with companies? They could have given us a couple of passes and been done with it, but now they've lost two customers for life--as if they give a fuck.

    Sorry for the hijack....customer service bites!

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    I saw an old Cary Grant movie last night, VegasPrincess, from a time when men were at least expected to treat women with respect; you would think men should be more conscious of it if a mother is involved. I know there are good men around, but these days often being decent is just seen as not being saavy, and rudeness is rewarded as a virtue. I was at a Borders reading yesterday and made room at a table where I was sitting for an old couple--I could tell that they were surprised, that they were expecting having a hard go of finding a place to sit. That broke my heart. They shouldn't have to expect the worst behavior from people. We had a good time talking about the old days--a really great old husband and wife.

    As HockeyBobby says here, it wouldn't have been so hard in this situation for these guys at the restaurant to be gentlemen. What the hell was wrong with them?

    Sorry these men treated you and your mother this way.
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    it would have been funny if you backed into his car like 10 things i hate about you lol
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    What restaurant was this?

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