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    Kaylinn
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    I was standing in front of the stage, scoping out my next customer when a guy walked up and asked for a dance. I asked him where he was sittin gand he grabbed me by the wrist and started to lead me through the club...and straight to the front door. I stopped and said wait, I'm not allowed out there. He started to pull me harder by the wrist and I kept pullign back, being nice abotu it, but firm.
    He pulled me really hard and said "Your commign with me right now, bitch" and yanked me towards the door to leave the club. I pulled my hand back from him and told him to fuck off. He really scared me.

    the thing is..a floor host mans the front door. he was standing right next to me, watching the whole thing and did nothing.

    So I go to the host and said dude? why didnt you help me??
    he said, oh that guy? yeah, he's just annoying.

    I said he scared the crap out of me, he tried to pull me out of the club and yanked me. The guy saw me talking to the host and walked up and said somethign liek what's the bitch whinign about? i didnt do nothing wrong.

    So I walked away and got a manager and told him what happened, and the manager talked to the host and had the guy kicked out.

    the funny part of the story is as the guy was being escorted out he asked for a job.

    anyway...it made me feel realyl unsafe in my club and very dissapointe4d with the hosts. this particular host I am friendl;y with, was just walking to him not even 10 mintues before. He is generally a good host and I enjoy working with him. I was very disappointed that he did that and didnt try to assist me and then brushed me off when I called him on it.

    It really ruined my night. I never enocuntered an issue at work like that before, beign overpowered or afraid of a guy, and it freaked me out. Even more so that we had bouncers standign by watchign and not doing anything.

    Really turned me off of this club...ad I only made $50 tonight. bummer.

    blah. it sucked.

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    I have been acutely aware for a long time that when it comes to safety in the clubs, we are pretty much on our own. It does suck.

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    That IS scary. Sucks that the host didnt do shit about it. What an ass.

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    This is the second thread that I'm in agree-ance with Bridgette.

    Why do you think I'm learning Takewando?


    Granted, I am generally more safer in the clubs here in Australia overall. I can't think of one club out of the many clubs I have worked within that would allow me (dressed for work not in 'everyday clothes') anywhere near the front door with a male.


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    Sorry that happend. It's sad that you can't get a little help from people now days.
    Why can't someone just help to help! What happend to good karma. My door guy would be up that losers ass in a sec! I do tip him well so he should. I don't know if you tip the hosts or not. But, I would not tip him any longer.
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    That's awful but at least you made a manager aware of the situation and the fact that the host didn't do anything.

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    Wow. I so can't imagine that happening anywhere I've worked. That is beyond incompetent.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    I have been acutely aware for a long time that when it comes to safety in the clubs, we are pretty much on our own. It does suck.
    Very true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    I have been acutely aware for a long time that when it comes to safety in the clubs, we are pretty much on our own. It does suck.
    Yep. We don't even have one person at my club who even looks capable of protecting us. The guy who walks me to my car at night probably weighs less than I do. I'd have to protect him if someone tried anything, lol. And we have zero security in our new VIP room, so if something happened you'd pretty much have to scream and hope someone heard you. It sucks.

    And the club's logic behind this? If we have big bouncer types, it will intimidate the guys. Well, no shit! That's kind of the idea.

    I'm sorry that happened, Kaylinn. What a psycho.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    And the club's logic behind this? If we have big bouncer types, it will intimidate the guys.
    ....and they might see a smidge fewer cheap assholes through the door paying cover and buying the drink minimum. Shame club safety is less important than a few door covers and drinks I wonder how they'll feel when some jerkoff comes in a shoots or seriously hurts a customer. ugh

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    This is the second thread that I'm in agree-ance with Bridgette.

    Why do you think I'm learning Takewando?


    Granted, I am generally more safer in the clubs here in Australia overall. I can't think of one club out of the many clubs I have worked within that would allow me (dressed for work not in 'everyday clothes') anywhere near the front door with a male.


    That's because they want you to go back and make their money, bitch!


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    Thats insane, thank g-d youre okay! It is sad though, we are mostly on our own. Someone needs to invent go go gadget stripper shoes already. Go go gadget pepper spray!

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    No protection? Holy chit. About 8 years ago in Portland there was a place heavily protected, but a psycho customer still shot and killed a dancer and wounded the bouncer severely. *sighs* no protection *shakes head*

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    Scary!! Sounds like the pimps in the Vegas clubs are becoming more aggressive in their "hiring" tactics??

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